How do u woo a girl if she plays hard to get ?
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serves her rite lor . ignore me i ignore her . Aint i bein childish
but i juz called her n said i was goin out wid sum1 alrdy and she was lyk " oh ok but can we still lyk meet sum other time" . tis is soughta blessin in disguise rite
but not gonna 2 time la . So rest ez ppl . -
she wanting to meet up wif u is NOT EQUALS to she stil having a crush on u.. Wake up dude..
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girls are strange creatures hahaha...
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I donÂ’t think she is trying to play some mind games.
“Playing hard to get” involves some game plan on her part; to induce you to invest more time on her, she’ll need to push and pull.
A girl who “plays hard to get” will try to keep a healthy ratio to make you want more.
Eg. You call her 3 times, sheÂ’ll reply you only once. That way she can ensure you remain hooked and make you want more. In your case, it seems like she is out right pushing you away.
IÂ’m more inclined to believe she has moderate interest in you right now.
IÂ’m glad you are willing to experiment a bit but itÂ’s not a good idea to make it so obvious.Originally posted by _+cloudstrife+_:but i juz called her n said i was goin out wid sum1 alrdy and she was lyk " oh ok but can we still lyk meet sum other time" . tis is soughta blessin in disguise rite but not gonna 2 time la . So rest ez ppl .
When you call her just to tell her you are dating someone else, she discovers 2 things:
1) You are still hung up about her.
2) You are trying too hard and making your game plan too obvious to her
IÂ’m surprised she didnÂ’t call you bluff!
Cloudstrife: "Oh yeah, did I mention yet? IÂ’m going out with XX right now"
(Translation: Eat thatÂ…now you have to beg me to call youÂ…hahaha!!)
Her: "oh ok but can we still like meet sum other time.."
(Translation: HAHAHAÂ…Is that supposed to make me jealous??)
Ignoring her is good. But it must be done in a tactful way.
But when you make it too obvious, you appear insecure.
Building rapport and giving her less attention
When you see her in school next time and she happens to be in a group. Walk up to that group, work her for just a few linesÂ…
Then naturally switch your attention to some other girl in that group. Engage that new girl into a convo and isolate your primary target. Let your target fight for your attention.
If her interest is still at a healthy level, she will try to work her way into the convo. She has good reasons to do so, those are her friends. She doesnÂ’t want to feel left out.
You will be building good rapport with her friends and making her invest moreÂ…two birds in one stone.
Avoid messages and long phone calls
Smses and phonecalls work for others...not for you.
There is something Yuko once said about sending messages and callingÂ…it doesnÂ’t convey the right kind of emotion sometimes. You have tried and didnÂ’t get good response from her.
So avoid doing things that doesn't work for you.
Skip messages all together. You have plenty of time to talk to her face to face since you can probably see her in school.
Focus more on one-on-one interaction with her in school.
If she asks you why you stop calling and sending messages, just tell her you are busy.
And BE BUSY.
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i suggest you cure your autism first, because he is speaking in english.Originally posted by _+cloudstrife+_:erm english plz -
Originally posted by motoway:
i agree, she wants to meet up with the threadstarter to take a look at the world's most retarded person for another time
she wanting to meet up wif u is [b]NOT EQUALS to she stil having a crush on u.. Wake up dude..[/b] -
autism ur sh1t . nth to say dun dun talk on tis thread .Originally posted by coffeeortea:i suggest you cure your autism first, because he is speaking in english. -
Originally posted by M©+square:Get it from Yunnie. Just go and ask for it.
You'll get used to it.
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super blurOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Siao lar... he does your marketing... not mine...
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what's that??
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When you hang around long enough, you will understand. (Unless you decide to scroll through past AA topics)Originally posted by weijian:super blur
what's that??
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Juz chill beb..
If u cant u must.. If u must u can..
Dont worry be happy..
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ooh, okay...thanks...
hang around long enough as in hang around just this aunt agony or also other threads??
just curiousOriginally posted by Yunhaier:When you hang around long enough, you will understand. (Unless you decide to scroll through past AA topics)
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Only in AA threads. You may also read up the past threads from year 2003 onwards.Originally posted by weijian:ooh, okay...thanks...
hang around long enough as in hang around just this aunt agony or also other threads??
just curious
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We gave you advice already what, then now you happy happy with another girl what, still want all the attention on you for what?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by _+cloudstrife+_:OI PEOPLE SUBJECT ON ME LA WHY SWITCH ON UNTIL LV 4 crap
Anyway thxs all im seein another gal now n tat gal is not ignoring me now !!! more like now i ignoring her i guess this ... Serves her rite ! -
den close thread .
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u wan be a disciple of Mc2?Originally posted by le cruz:Wow guys.. all i can say is... Y'ALL DAMN PRO SIA...
please hand me ur cv and $200 entry fee -
Wah lau....i don't know where you pop out from leh.Originally posted by alexkusu:u wan be a disciple of Mc2?
please hand me ur cv and $200 entry fee
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Instead of looking dumbfounded... at least offer me some tea and cookies la... tsk tsk.. wat kinda mod is thisOriginally posted by M©+square:Wah lau....i don't know where you pop out from leh.
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FeowFeowOriginally posted by _+cloudstrife+_:den close thread . -
I give u the solution... Just give her up... if she likes you, she won't play hard to get.Originally posted by _+cloudstrife+_:The subject says all . PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE !!! 