Im breaking down soon..
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i sense the red emergency light activated already...now she treats u like a brother...you really need to work on the chemistry or run the risk of losing her...Originally posted by mamamamama:Oh great.. she told me last evening that her feelings for me are unlike in the past.. Yea she still loves me but yet she feels we lack the chemistry that couples have.. She feels i'm more like her brother.. just a brother whom she loves..
This explains why she changed so much since..
be prepared...my fren...shld she break with you (worse case scenerio, touch wood la) you need to get her to be at least ur fren, i can send u an email which has just what you need to maintain at least a fren relationship should the break occurs...
good luck my fren.
before i could post the last msg as per above...comes this msg...Originally posted by mamamamama:We just broke off last night.. no tears.. no nothing.. finished..
you want the mail to at least maintain a relationship as fren with her?
i can send u my mail let u take a look and you edit it accordingly to ur situation... -
I think when girls start work... they are exposed to a type of guys that can be different from their b/fs especially if they know their bfs in school...
A lot of these older colleagues tend to be more experienced, more savvy, more confident and worldly wise... and for a suddenly moment, the artless bf when see next and compared, end up looking less glossy and less well-packaged.
I think this is the most fragile part in a relationship ba... the relationship didn't change.. she did.. and she can't help changing cos her environment have changed... I think she is probably very confused also... unfortunately you are a casualty of this confusion
I am sorry this happened to you... it is very heartbreaking. You sound like a well meaning, sincere guy who is really trying to make the relationship work even when you look on in despair as things change. And that takes a lot of courage.Worse, bewilderment cos you don't understand how things can change so much so fast.
I hope it doesn't make you disillusioned about love. You have a gift you can choose to share and just because someone had been careless with it, doesn't mean another person won't treasure it. Perhaps when you give it away next, it won't be as new or flawless as the first time, but like fine antiques can grow in value in time. As we collect the wounds, it can make us better or bitter. -
I already pre-empt u earlier in my post. These are the signs that her feelings are gone. She hangs out with that guy is to try to make you make that decison of breaking up with her. She does not want to bad person. Nobody wants to be the bad man. I guess the time is up. Hence, she break the news. My case is exactly the same as you.Originally posted by mamamamama:Oh great.. she told me last evening that her feelings for me are unlike in the past.. Yea she still loves me but yet she feels we lack the chemistry that couples have.. She feels i'm more like her brother.. just a brother whom she loves..
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I agree with these. Those bastards deserve to be whip in their asses. But then, we cannot totally blame on those bastards. If those gals dun allow further contacts with them, then no such things will happen. Cheer up dude. This is part and parcel of life. Your so called FINE relationship is being put under test and somehow she just strayed off. You should be glad to know this before marriage.Originally posted by olala:bro...cuz this world is made of BASTARDS wat..
bo bian ma...
i SUGESt U GIVE A STRONG FIGHT HERE...USE AFFECTION N UNDERSTANDING...
LOSE AS U MIGHT,SHOW THE GUY TAT UR NOT SOME WHIMP WHO ALLOWS UR LOVED ONES TO B SNATCH LIKE TAT...
WE SUPPORT U
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Dun bother of being friends from now. U will only be upset if u see her with that new guy. I can feel how u feel.Originally posted by weijian:before i could post the last msg as per above...comes this msg...
you want the mail to at least maintain a relationship as fren with her?
i can send u my mail let u take a look and you edit it accordingly to ur situation... -
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Cheer up cheer up.Originally posted by mamamamama:at least i've still got my friends with me.. thanks anyway..
Not a easy phrase to go through.
You've got Sgf Aunt Agony to support you. -
Some things are inevitable. Be glad that it starts off early so that you can make an earlier run for the 1st breath of fresh air at your new finishing line...Originally posted by mamamamama:We just broke off last night.. no tears.. no nothing.. finished.. -
just guessing the guy colleague is older than her? they work in the west?
