How Do You Know if He/She is the One?
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How can you tell?
In books and movies, it is often portrayed as the instinct telling the main character that this is the person he/she will be with for the rest of their lives. Does it work the same way in reality?
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Often than not, humans are rather INSTINCTIVE CREATURES... Even when they're to apply logic to LOVE...
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But often when it comes to love, my instinct might be wrong. It might be because I harbor too much hopes towards a certain outcome, and hence I sorta convince myself that that outcome is possible.Originally posted by Devil1976:Often than not, humans are rather INSTINCTIVE CREATURES... Even when they're to apply logic to LOVE...
So now when I have an instinct and it seems to be rather impossible at the current moment, I will start to doubt myself and try to not listen to it. I know people have been telling me to listen to my heart and instinct, but I am still scared that it might be telling me the wrong thing, and by following it, I will go down the wrong path. -
it takes two hands to clap ........
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Then i have to ask again.Originally posted by rainee:How can you tell?
In books and movies, it is often portrayed as the instinct telling the main character that this is the person he/she will be with for the rest of their lives. Does it work the same way in reality?
How do you know there is such thing as the One?
What if the guy whom people think is the One is actually Mr before The One?
The One comes after him?
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Ok, who's having doubts about whom now?
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Dun believe in all these... The One will only be confirmed if u are married to himor her. I thought I was the one for her which she claims to be. But what happen now, things change and feelings change. She thinks I am not the one.
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Neo speaks.
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hmmm...trust ut feeling....
let go u must...
for the force is strong...
feel the force... -
There you go.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Dun believe in all these... The One will only be confirmed if u are married to himor her. I thought I was the one for her which she claims to be. But what happen now, things change and feelings change. She thinks I am not the one.
We can think of whoever and ever is The One.
But we have to admit the Earth revolves, every living creature on this planet will change or evolve, for the better or worse.
Just accept it and move on.
Make the next one, The One and treasure her.
Cheers -
In the search for the One, we tend to skim through the 'rest'. We would most likely already have an image of the One in our minds, what attributes he/she should have, etc.
What if we finally meet the One someday, but we are just the 'rest' in his/her eyes? We move on and look for another the One? So, there actually isn't just one the One. In fact, anyone with the said attributes can be classified under the One.
Ultimately, although it sounds really cliche, we really have to follow our hearts. And, of course, the timing, location, and all the physical factors that will determine whether you will meet the One or not.
Say, if you are somehow not fated to meet the One, will you settle for the 'rest' and console yourself that he/she is indeed the One? -
What is the correct path and what is the wrong path?Originally posted by rainee:But often when it comes to love, my instinct might be wrong. It might be because I harbor too much hopes towards a certain outcome, and hence I sorta convince myself that that outcome is possible.
So now when I have an instinct and it seems to be rather impossible at the current moment, I will start to doubt myself and try to not listen to it. I know people have been telling me to listen to my heart and instinct, but I am still scared that it might be telling me the wrong thing, and by following it, I will go down the wrong path.
Going through the wrong path may help you learn from your mistakes and make you realise waht you want in life.
Going through the right path may not be a bless thing because everything is so perfect when troubles or problems comes you may not have the experenice to handle.
Rainee be strong believe in yourself and your judgement in love. If not you will be always afarid to face the real world out there and never be able to enjoy true love as there is always a fear in your heart. -
lol...this is like the Which Comes First, Chicken or Egg riddleOriginally posted by M©+square:Then i have to ask again.
How do you know there is such thing as the One?
What if the guy whom people think is the One is actually Mr before The One?
The One comes after him?
Cheers -
True...Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Dun believe in all these... The One will only be confirmed if u are married to himor her. I thought I was the one for her which she claims to be. But what happen now, things change and feelings change. She thinks I am not the one.
Like what I have always said, what is meant to be will be? -
This one is slightly simpler.Originally posted by rainee:lol...this is like the Which Comes First, Chicken or Egg riddle
Cheers -
Reality is not Star Wars, I am afraidOriginally posted by Mospeada:hmmm...trust ut feeling....
let go u must...
for the force is strong...
feel the force... -
Ohhhh, no wonder rainee has insomnia for the past few days.
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hmm...I willOriginally posted by M©+square:There you go.
We can think of whoever and ever is The One.
But we have to admit the Earth revolves, every living creature on this planet will change or evolve, for the better or worse.
Just accept it and move on.
Make the next one, The One and treasure her.
Cheers -
I am just afraid that my heart is not telling the truth, but telling me the things that I want to hear.Originally posted by ^spidee^:In the search for the One, we tend to skim through the 'rest'. We would most likely already have an image of the One in our minds, what attributes he/she should have, etc.
What if we finally meet the One someday, but we are just the 'rest' in his/her eyes? We move on and look for another the One? So, there actually isn't just one the One. In fact, anyone with the said attributes can be classified under the One.
Ultimately, although it sounds really cliche, we really have to follow our hearts. And, of course, the timing, location, and all the physical factors that will determine whether you will meet the One or not.
Say, if you are somehow not fated to meet the One, will you settle for the 'rest' and console yourself that he/she is indeed the One? -
I will try, but sometimes the past haunts.Originally posted by drx:What is the correct path and what is the wrong path?
Going through the wrong path may help you learn from your mistakes and make you realise waht you want in life.
Going through the right path may not be a bless thing because everything is so perfect when troubles or problems comes you may not have the experenice to handle.
Rainee be strong believe in yourself and your judgement in love. If not you will be always afarid to face the real world out there and never be able to enjoy true love as there is always a fear in your heart. -
be serious for once in my thread, is that possible?Originally posted by charlize:Ohhhh, no wonder rainee has insomnia for the past few days. -
If I didn't care, would I have given a shiit about your insomnia?Originally posted by rainee:be serious for once in my thread, is that possible? -
The one, this seem like a common question for couples ?
I'm not sure what is the one,
If you were to treat every mate that enters your life like the on, he/she would be the one, if things goes the right way.
The One seems to be like someone who He or she is going to marry in some cases ?
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hmm...fear leads to anger,anger leads to hate ....and hate leads to suffering...Originally posted by rainee:Reality is not Star Wars, I am afraid
strong is the dark side....cloud ur mind they have -
sleep is the best hehe...Originally posted by Mospeada:hmm...fear leads to anger,anger leads to hate ....and hate leads to suffering...
strong is the dark side....cloud ur mind they have
zzzz...