useless? hopeless?
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err..if u want..Originally posted by Lance_han:should i hao lian my N' lvls?
no one is stopping u... -
izzit true 1 for N equal 3 for OOriginally posted by StarPuppy:I got 3 for english
3 for science
and 4 for maths
heng heng only -
ya...2 grades downwardOriginally posted by SoulFire21:izzit true 1 for N equal 3 for O -
i got all 4.. hais..
combine sci 4
ang mo 4
mt 4
combine human 4
poa 4
suey sia -
i'm a good boyOriginally posted by StarPuppy:err..if u want..
no one is stopping u... -
my o lvl
english : 5
pure chem : 6
pure physics : 5
chinese : 5
e maths :5
hist/ss : 3
a maths.. f9
my results is like crap.. but heng got into poly.. i in my sch's first class i get this type of results sia.. damn sia suay.. neighbourhood sch.. but my class aalmost all below 20 for l1r5.. 
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I think no use comparing. Just find out ur strs and weakness. That's what the learning journey is about (and hopefully learn some strs? its not confirmed whether skills are inborned or taught).
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wahh..now i scared dunno can make it anot in Os
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haiyo..one step at a timeOriginally posted by SoulFire21:wahh..now i scared dunno can make it anot in Os
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i hope tmr will be a better dayOriginally posted by Lance_han:haiyo..one step at a time -
Not good coz will eventually lead to depression. Wake up every morning & tell urself, I have aims in life & everyday I will fight on. Make adjustments & u'll be comfortable with ur surroundings eventually.Originally posted by SoulFire21:have u think ur hopeless or useless?
today sch got a programme call self-science
a programme to develop self-awareness
in reflection time
when the intrutor tell us to think wad we want to be next time
i cant find an answer.
then asked me wad ur gd at.?
i also cant find an answer cause im gd for nth
haiz..think im really useless after all
The word is BALANCE, I'm trying to make this work for myself & will continue to do so. -
you dunno how lousy i feel everyday.Originally posted by de_middle:Not good coz will eventually lead to depression. Wake up every morning & tell urself, I have aims in life & everyday I will fight on. Make adjustments & u'll be comfortable with ur surroundings eventually.
The word is BALANCE, I'm trying to make this work for myself & will continue to do so.
everyday wake up think that this yr is total waste of time
coz i have 2 sort of gd friends in sngs.
1 is my crush other is a gd friend.
see them takin Os this yr.
then i feel that im super lousy. -
well.. mayb u can keep in touch with them lo.. dont worry la..you oso can make new frens ma.. no need worry.. life is beautiful..Originally posted by SoulFire21:you dunno how lousy i feel everyday.
everyday wake up think that this yr is total waste of time
coz i have 2 sort of gd friends in sngs.
1 is my crush other is a gd friend.
see them takin Os this yr.
then i feel that im super lousy. -
Balance Interests with Prospects.
see if you can find anything in between
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Originally posted by SoulFire21:have u think ur hopeless or useless?
today sch got a programme call self-science
a programme to develop self-awareness
in reflection time
when the intrutor tell us to think wad we want to be next time
i cant find an answer.
then asked me wad ur gd at.?
i also cant find an answer cause im gd for nth
haiz..think im really useless after all
It is a state of mind.
By recognising your incapability could be a good sign, if you plan to improve and strengthen your own weakness.
By acknowledging it and agreeing with your flaws as a channel/topic/conversation merely for ranting... is to strengthen your weakness of incapability until you decide to reverse your route and does something concrete about it.
Your self awareness program has made some self discovery, although knowing is one thing, doing is another. Chances are, this is already a known quality to you over the years, just that you didn't really spare much thought into them.
You create your own goal and work towards them. You don't get negative over the 'hard work' and decide not to have any goals. You have your own interests and everything else; by telling yourself you are not good at this... or that... it is to disarm yourself with goals because you see the hard work as difficulty and not the 'essential' nor 'motivational challenge'.
When I was much younger, I wasn't exactly good in my studies because I term them as general knowledge, not as an interest. Do I fringin` need to know the platonic plate movements to earn my first million? In fact, I gotten an F9/E8 for all my sciences from sec 3 - 4 until 'O' level (where I got a B3) and how I did it was simply copy and paste and not because I understand them, but simply because it was in Ten Years Series. Ask me about Chemistry and I still know nothing. But I had to learn all those 'general knowledge' because it allows me to achieve my next PLANNED level when I had achieve the sufficient grades in O level.
From that level, you planned the NEXT level and repeat the process over and over again.
The last thing you want to do is to rant and not do anything. I thought that the stuff taught in secondary school was pretty useless. The important thingy to me is the friends I made there, the fun and all the social connection. The friends you make are in fact your first contacts when you enter the working society. They may help you achieve that 'one million' and not because you did memorised the periodic table.
Do something. If you are confused... make effort to see the light and do what is necessary. Remember, you don't have to walk the way everyone else did in Singapore just as long as you see your own vision. It is YOUR life - don't leave it to circumstances to run for you.
Cheers -
err....why not sit down, take some time, and think about where you are professional in?Originally posted by SoulFire21:have u think ur hopeless or useless?
today sch got a programme call self-science
a programme to develop self-awareness
in reflection time
when the intrutor tell us to think wad we want to be next time
i cant find an answer.
then asked me wad ur gd at.?
i also cant find an answer cause im gd for nth
haiz..think im really useless after all
Also err......think, and jot down a list of where are you good/weak at. (say, like, good at repairing coms......or so......etc)
After all, you are useful and very hopeful, full of potential for more, just that some thinking is required, to see where are you really good at.