We have break off
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Why not you quickly plan some outing for Valentine's Day then...?Originally posted by FBI:If he no time, WE have the time !
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That will depends if she want to go or not..Originally posted by Devil1976:Why not you quickly plan some outing for Valentine's Day then...? -
Ermm... Outing is about US lah... Not her...?Originally posted by FBI:That will depends if she want to go or not.. 
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We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get.....
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think of it this way...Originally posted by changb57:We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get.....
if you have not found out now, you might feel even hurt later.
Grieve now and move on... -
I agree.Dun think the excuse is valid..who doesnt stress at work? can always talk it over n work thngs out.. All e best..be strong n keep ur mind active n positive.Originally posted by subarugal:another crappy man.
Forget him and move on, the going might be difficult right now but as time pass feeling will be fine..
What you need is time to heal up..
You have our moral support, when feeling lonely or etc just online and chat with us..
I noe e feelings..i also kenasame thing recently..worst than yours..n its work related aswell.
hey Subbiegal. is that a motec HUD u got? I like.... -
Apparently I think the stress at work is just an excuse...Originally posted by megatron:I agree.Dun think the excuse is valid..who doesnt stress at work? can always talk it over n work thngs out.. All e best..be strong n keep ur mind active n positive.
I noe e feelings..i also kenasame thing recently..worst than yours..n its work related aswell.
hey Subbiegal. is that a motec HUD u got? I like....
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Well... Better to know earlier yup..? At least you can go for yourself and know what's happening now...?Originally posted by changb57:We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get..... -
All guys are bastards! -
ya lah!Originally posted by Parka: All guys are bastards!
they break bones also want to go AA complain -
Originally posted by Parka: All guys are bastards!
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Originally posted by Parka: All guys are bastards!
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What an IDIOT!
You're better off without him, girl.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by changb57:We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get..... -
So what have you lose to him?Originally posted by changb57:We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get..... -
dots..aren't u a guy urself?Originally posted by Parka: All guys are bastards! -
I have done alot of things for him.....
he ever beat me, jealous when i go out with my guy friends, and i almost lost touch with my friends, when i am with him, he don like me to go out late at night and i am like being control by him....cos i do love him alot i listen to him...
when he is bad mood, he will scold me, and put in on me, he is hot temper and possessive but i try to let it be cos i do love him, don ask me why i love him so, maybe i love him when he is caring and he did concern abt me when i am sick etc.......i even did some kind of.....we do have sex lor ....and he request some kind of ..... don wish to write in details lor......
well, all these are over.....now i feel hurt, being cheated and treat like a fool......maybe he used me as a sex tool....or ...... ....i am trying very hard to forget him, as my house full of things that remind me of him, the more i need to learn to face the reality .......
i will be strong, even i do cry at night and think of the past we used to have happy time together......the process is really painful...and i am going thru this day by day.......
i think i really hurt very badly this time and need a longer time to heal..... -
Originally posted by changb57:I have done alot of things for him.....
he ever beat me, jealous when i go out with my guy friends, and i almost lost touch with my friends, when i am with him, he don like me to go out late at night and i am like being control by him....cos i do love him alot i listen to him...
when he is bad mood, he will scold me, and put in on me, he is hot temper and possessive but i try to let it be cos i do love him, don ask me why i love him so, maybe i love him when he is caring and he did concern abt me when i am sick etc.......i even did some kind of.....we do have sex lor ....and he request some kind of ..... don wish to write in details lor......
well, all these are over.....now i feel hurt, being cheated and treat like a fool......maybe he used me as a sex tool....or ...... ....i am trying very hard to forget him, as my house full of things that remind me of him, the more i need to learn to face the reality .......
i will be strong, even i do cry at night and think of the past we used to have happy time together......the process is really painful...and i am going thru this day by day.......
i think i really hurt very badly this time and need a longer time to heal..... 
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just ignore this part, look at the bottom one instead..
though there are a lot of guys out there, but can she really find another guy
like her ex?
a answer which is unknown...if you still love him, then give him the support, let
him know that u are there for him, since he is super stressed up by the $$$,
i believe that he has your interest at heart, by breaking with you, he can suffer alone and not to drag you down, this is probably one of the reason
he truly love you, so he don't want you to suffer with him
if you love him, then tell him, you will be there for him, at this time, he is under lots of pressure, he also need a place to like rest, and the place is beside you, regardless the location...as long as he feels relax with you...tat will do it...
a good man like this is hard to come by...maybe he said that because he just wanted you to get a better person so as to lead a better life...but it's always the other way round...
maybe he feels that his shoulders are carrying a very big bunden, since he is stress, pressured, he don't want to have another relationship problem to worry about, so when he settle the stress and pressure from work, then it will be the time for the both of you...just tell him how u fell then, and i think hopefully he will accept u de... now smile
looks like my advice is late once again...Originally posted by BrUtUs:weird.... maybe there something else but since break off liao jz let it be... got plenty guys out there no worries...
or perhaps am i just too positive or wat??
well, just cry your hearts out then, if you must, and is scared to let people know, walking in the rain while crying can be BOTH a Good & Bad Idea..
Good is that you can cry out without anyone knowing your crying, unless you cry out Loud as in Sound...
Bad is that it will affect your health...unless you are like me, walk in rain wouldn't get sick, then by all means, go ahead and walk in the rain...last time i did that, when i was stressed up...but i cycle la...my problems back then was immediately washed away...
you can try it if you want to...
i wish you a healthy recovery...
and another thing is not to give those guys (wants to date you ) who know that you just broke off a chance, they are just trying to get something, taste it and dump it aside...
time will heal...but crying one heart's out is the faster way out...or if your the nature type lover...go to the beach...listen to the sea waves bah...if you want to go listen to sea waves without lots of disturbance, you can try out kallang riverside park...in the past i used to go there...Originally posted by changb57:We finally break off....for sure....
i am badly hurt and do u know what
......HE IS MARRIED........
HE LIE TO ME ALL THESE WHILE.........
putting my real true love for him and done so much....this is what i get..... -
Post his photo HERE!
Exposed his evil deeds!
After you, he may deploy his tricks on some innocent women
Since he's married, just make know to his wife and break them up
Or just let us(some perverts here) know who his wife is and let some(perverts) disturb them! -
Thanks maggot, you do make me smile and laugh.Originally posted by maggot:Post his photo HERE!
Exposed his evil deeds!
After you, he may deploy his tricks on some innocent women
Since he's married, just make know to his wife and break them up
Or just let us(some perverts here) know who his wife is and let some(perverts) disturb them!
i rather leave them alone and don wish to disturb the family anymore...
now i just want some peace and be alone....and sort my thought out of it...
i hope i will recover soon..... -
Hi Changb,Originally posted by changb57:yes cos recently he told me that his work got alot of problems and his boss is not happy with the performance...and the company might lose $$$$$ on it.....
and he often not having his lunch, holiday also work thru the days....not celebrating the new year and christmas .....etc.... no mood of course....
i heart ache but i know i need to accept the fact, just that the process is very painful....and i know its take time to heal....
on the other hand, another of my guy friends know we break off, very happy and want to meet me, i really don wish to go into relationship so soon...
Well, breaking off is always hard but have you think back on what are the real reasons behind it? He might be stress over work as his company is currently facing crisis. Have you think of whether what are the real reasons for working so hard? There's always a motive or reasons behind it.
Since both of you have broken off, give yourself sometime to heal. As there's always a saying, "Time heals everything!". Do consider carefully if you want to go into another relationship. -
*pat pat*Originally posted by changb57:Thanks maggot, you do make me smile and laugh.
i rather leave them alone and don wish to disturb the family anymore...
now i just want some peace and be alone....and sort my thought out of it... i hope i will recover soon.....
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u mean Kenneth_Ooi Hean wei, 585960, Chua Tian Xiang and accompany?Originally posted by maggot:Post his photo HERE!
Exposed his evil deeds!
After you, he may deploy his tricks on some innocent women
Since he's married, just make know to his wife and break them up
Or just let us(some perverts here) know who his wife is and let some(perverts) disturb them! -
u r letting him off too lightly!!!Originally posted by changb57:Thanks maggot, you do make me smile and laugh.
i rather leave them alone and don wish to disturb the family anymore...
now i just want some peace and be alone....and sort my thought out of it... i hope i will recover soon.....
REVENGE!!! MAKE HIS LIFE A LIVING HELL!!! -
But the way...just to be on the safer side go for a AIDS virus test or STDs test...Originally posted by changb57:Thanks maggot, you do make me smile and laugh.
i rather leave them alone and don wish to disturb the family anymore...
now i just want some peace and be alone....and sort my thought out of it... i hope i will recover soon.....
The way you describe him...he should be the kind that beds a lot of women...so he "may" give you something extra