obvious?? wat's obvious??Originally posted by AlexJS:Pretty obvious isn't it?
Interesting, didn't think of that possibility![]()
haiz... dun reali know which is it that she's thinking....Originally posted by sinicker:she asked you to consider her friends?? i give you two reasons.
1. she really wants you to go aft her friends.
2. she wants to know of why u wudnt take her friends but would rather take you as ur gf. here, you have to give reasons why you don't want her friend. but dont go to the point of flattering her like crazy coz' it'll be too fake. be sincere why you wouldnt pick her friends to be ur gf.
Maybe she would rather be friends with you and hope that you will go after her friends instead? Because she dunno how to reject you directly, so she is trying to "distract" you by introducing you to her frens?Originally posted by falling_stars:Anyone ever encounter such a situation plz give some advice.. thks
you ask a gal to be your gf, she says 1 month is kinda fast n she's not kinda ready... so being frenz wld be beta for now...
after agreeing, continue as frenz... now this gal starts to like intro her gal-frenz to you... asking you to consider her frenz....
so what does this all means??
but to me she seems like trying to playaround with me... sometime this gal she take to intro me.... then sometime she teases me about anotherOriginally posted by rainee:Maybe she would rather be friends with you and hope that you will go after her friends instead? Because she dunno how to reject you directly, so she is trying to "distract" you by introducing you to her frens?
Since you know she is playing around with you, why don't you speak your mind to her about what you really want? Tell her that you are really interested in her, and am not interested in her friends.Originally posted by falling_stars:but to me she seems like trying to playaround with me... sometime this gal she take to intro me.... then sometime she teases me about another
haiz... i did laa.... but arh.... can only says she's very naughty de loh... dun noe laa.... reali confused by her sometimes...Originally posted by rainee:Since you know she is playing around with you, why don't you speak your mind to her about what you really want? Tell her that you are really interested in her, and am not interested in her friends.
Wat is your relationship with her at that time?? gona give more details mah...Originally posted by yuko-ogura:mine is she ask me wad kind of gurls i like..i told her..den she said she couldn't be that type la..den she 'haha'
later she apologised and said that she wasn't in the right state of mind that night.
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Tell her that you take such thing seriously and you would like her to give you a true answer rather than playing you around?Originally posted by falling_stars:haiz... i did laa.... but arh.... can only says she's very naughty de loh... dun noe laa.... reali confused by her sometimes...
ok laa.. actuali ever since the last time i didnt reali mention this b4 again... jux that she like time to time ask me to go for her fren loh... we still chat on phone, go out together, one to one...Originally posted by rainee:Tell her that you take such thing seriously and you would like her to give you a true answer rather than playing you around?
and how old are both of you?
wa at this age she still plays this kinda game with you?Originally posted by falling_stars:ok laa.. actuali ever since the last time i didnt reali mention this b4 again... jux that she like time to time ask me to go for her fren loh... we still chat on phone, go out together, one to one...
Think i wld have to tell her formally again one more time...
btw i m 24 and she's 27...
x2Originally posted by rainee:wa at this age she still plays this kinda game with you?
At first I thought she is a teenager or someone younger
actuali it has been like 3 months since my proposal... so now have not mentioned to her again yet...Originally posted by rainee:wa at this age she still plays this kinda game with you?
At first I thought she is a teenager or someone younger
Tell her to take your proposal more seriously baAnd tell her that you are not interested in her friends, she might just be using them to tempt you and to see your reactions
Mention to her again, and if she continues to be like this, it is clear what she is hinting at.Originally posted by falling_stars:actuali it has been like 3 months since my proposal... so now have not mentioned to her again yet...
ya laa... she's the playful type of person given her age though.... but she's very mature indeed... definately more mature than i do for sure....
she did tell me of her past r/s exp so she's trying to be more careful now...
that means she's not interested??Originally posted by rainee:Mention to her again, and if she continues to be like this, it is clear what she is hinting at.
Originally posted by alexkusu:Once u told her ur interested in her, she lose interest in you automatically liaw
haiz... why is this the case most of the time??Originally posted by alexkusu:Once u told her ur interested in her, she lose interest in you automatically liaw
I would go out with that girl she introduced to you. No harm meeting a new friend.Originally posted by falling_stars:but to me she seems like trying to playaround with me... sometime this gal she take to intro me.... then sometime she teases me about another