Kai Bu Liao Kou(Can't open mouth)
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I just canÂ’t open my mouth to let her know
I really wanted to tell Cyndi I really like her very much, but i just can't do it. She has been in the same class with me for the 4th year. I never know that she is the one for me untill late 2005, during the school holidays.
Maybe it's a class gathering that made me change my views toward her. The class gathering was held at a charlet. We had our great times and memories there. After the charlet, I started msging her everyday and night. I try my best to show my care for her. We even started talking on the phone for long hours. She shared some of her problems with me. And I try my best to help her.
I started to know more about her. Then, I found myself in a love triange; she crush on another guy in the same workplace as her. however, that guy doesn't like her. I was heart-broken. I can feel that she was really depressed. I can't do anything to help as she just refused to tell me about it. After sometimes, she finally learnt to forget about that guy.
Once, she asked me to go out together with her. She said she was moody and need someone to accompany her. Although I'm kinda shy, I was over the moon and agreed without much thinking. Soon, we go out together more often and have dinner together sometimes. I really enjoyed being with her.
After school reopen, I seldom have chance to talk to her. One day, she lost her voice and was coughing badly. I bought her strepsel everyday till the day she recovered. In class I was quiet. Maybe I'm shy, or I have nothing to say to her. Then last saturday, we have lunch together. I can feel that she likes me too. I got the Chong Dong to tell her i like her too. But..those mere simple sentences, I canÂ’t say them.
Untill wednesday, I picked up my courage and I was about to tell her. Unfortunately, I found out that she crush on another guy AGAIN but she denied it. I asked her whether have she liked me before and she said she did. My whole heart hangs in the air, I can only watch from afar.
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hmmm.......fishy.
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can u elaborate?Originally posted by M©+square:hmmm.......fishy. -
Originally posted by ChairmanJay:can u elaborate? Me thinking to meself.
So do you still keep in contact with Cyndi?
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yes. we are still in the same class this year. kinda awkward when i see her now. so never really talk le. but my care for her is still there. i just cant let it go.Originally posted by M©+square: Me thinking to meself.
So do you still keep in contact with Cyndi?
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I think you can seek counsel from Starpuppy.Originally posted by ChairmanJay:yes. we are still in the same class this year. kinda awkward when i see her now. so never really talk le. but my care for her is still there. i just cant let it go.
And other guys who waits.
Poly?
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???Originally posted by M©+square:I think you can seek counsel from Starpuppy.
And other guys who waits.
Poly?
Cheers
why from me?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Gib you a real case, a reflection from the your similiar experience.Originally posted by StarPuppy:???
why from me?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
What do you think?
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hmm...it is quite close to me but he is braver den meOriginally posted by M©+square:Gib you a real case, a reflection from the your similiar experience.
What do you think?
Cheers
well...let me see how i can work this problem out and see if can give him my own advice
~+Cheers+~
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:hmm...it is quite close to me but he is braver den me
well...let me see how i can work this problem out and see if can give him my own advice
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
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haix..feel so heart-broken..
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What's her status now?Originally posted by ChairmanJay:haix..feel so heart-broken.. -
unattached. i found out that guy doesn't like her too. god is playing with me.Originally posted by M©+square:What's her status now? -
You're not going to move in?Originally posted by ChairmanJay:unattached. i found out that guy doesn't like her too. god is playing with me.
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maybe i haven't show enough care and love for her. she said is not steading as she is afraid to lose a friend like me..Originally posted by M©+square:You're not going to move in?
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Originally posted by ChairmanJay:maybe i haven't show enough care and love for her. she said is not steading as she is afraid to lose a friend like me..
why do u doubt urself? u know u really care about her, u feel that she likes u too
why do u still hesistate to tell her ur feelings?
She has already confided with u in problems of hers and u also did show ur intrest of her by buying strespiles when she lost her voice Tell her...if things dun work, at least both of u are still frens
Maybe shes waiting for u and u being so unsure of urself, u also wait
Both wait...in the future u will regret it man...at least tell her how u feel....
dun look back after 4-5 years and regretting it
I know...because i had my share also
If u do really care for her so much, at least tell her and let her know...by keeping quiet, u are both denining the chance that both of u 2 want
Good luck
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how old are u by the way?
it seems like she has a lot of crushes on various guys, and still hasn't discover what she really wants. are u going to take this risk by becoming her bf and then later suffer a heart break again?
in my opinion, it's not worth pursuing a girl till u finish NS. that's when u r more mature and able to take good care of urself.
meanwhile, concentrate on ur studies.
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Your case sounds very similar to my previous case.
1. Her various crushes.
- Does she have any previous boyfriends? If yes, does she change her boyfriend very fast & often? i.e. one to three months. If no, how many crushes does she used to have? She seems to me like one who cannot settle down at any rate.
2. Her confiding in you her problems.
- Please don't attach any romantic feelings to that until she made some obvious hints, simply because to a girl, there's nothing wrong in confiding in someone her problems. To her, your presence to her is comforting.
3. Get in!
- Take a more active role in wooing her. Stop being the guy who patiently waits for her silently at her side. Ask her out, hinting to her that this is a romance date, not a friendship one. Remember, you only need one chance to get her completely hooked on you. So, good luck. If you don't know what to do, ask. -
Originally posted by binarynwitz:Your case sounds very similar to my previous case.
1. Her various crushes.
- Does she have any previous boyfriends? If yes, does she change her boyfriend very fast & often? i.e. one to three months. If no, how many crushes does she used to have? She seems to me like one who cannot settle down at any rate.
yes. 2. one was a mistake. de other one ditched her.
2. Her confiding in you her problems.
- Please don't attach any romantic feelings to that until she made some obvious hints, simply because to a girl, there's nothing wrong in confiding in someone her problems. To her, your presence to her is comforting.
she did made some obvious hints. just that i never make my move. and..i missed the chance.
3. Get in!
- Take a more active role in wooing her. Stop being the guy who patiently waits for her silently at her side. Ask her out, hinting to her that this is a romance date, not a friendship one. Remember, you only need one chance to get her completely hooked on you. So, good luck. If you don't know what to do, ask.
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well i believe the comfort level is there.
Since she noes ur feelings for her, and she admitted that she likes u before... u juz need to be a little bit braver and firmer to win her heart.
but then, do u think it is normal for someone to have crushes very often? And then she has a few crushes over a short period of time. Maybe you are one of her crushes as well?
Maybe she isn't ready for a r/s, probably juz enjoying the feeling of having crushes. -
u sound like an expert. can teach me a little bit more?Originally posted by browniebaobao:well i believe the comfort level is there.
Since she noes ur feelings for her, and she admitted that she likes u before... u juz need to be a little bit braver and firmer to win her heart.
but then, do u think it is normal for someone to have crushes very often? And then she has a few crushes over a short period of time. Maybe you are one of her crushes as well?
Maybe she isn't ready for a r/s, probably juz enjoying the feeling of having crushes. -
she sure is chu chu liu qing
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you are jay chou leh....
im sure u can pick one of the songs u wrote tts suitable n ask her to listen to it... -
remind me of myself nia~
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haha. i dunno la.Originally posted by skeujin:you are jay chou leh....
im sure u can pick one of the songs u wrote tts suitable n ask her to listen to it...