Guys, no pre marital sex pls
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well if it happens, it happens.Originally posted by rainee:Actually even when they are 21 and above, they might still not have the emotional maturity to handle a child in the household. Esp an unplanned child. -
Actually, it depends on the couple, if they are matured enuff, having a child will not be a problem.Originally posted by rainee:Actually even when they are 21 and above, they might still not have the emotional maturity to handle a child in the household. Esp an unplanned child. -
Protection is your best form of defense!
But sad to say, both of you have started, so it may actually be hard for you all not to do it again.
Personal experience...
Know each other -> Be together -> Hold hands -> Kissing -> Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation -> Sex -> Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation again? It's something like... moving a step back towards your relationship. If afraid that Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation will lead to sex again, you all may stop the Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation act, so it's moving back again!
My ex and I, well... it's something like the senario given...and we started to drift apart... then she ditch me... and we were 21 then.
What I want to say is that as the guy, you MUST refrain from doing such things. and DO NOT start buying condoms. You may be "addicted" to it since you have some "rubber gloves" hidden in your room when you need it. -
Why is it after all the sexual acts, a couple can drift further apart?Originally posted by Robotics999:Protection is your best form of defense!
But sad to say, both of you have started, so it may actually be hard for you all not to do it again.
Personal experience...
Know each other -> Be together -> Hold hands -> Kissing -> Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation -> Sex -> Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation again? It's something like... moving a step back towards your relationship. If afraid that Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation will lead to sex again, you all may stop the Heavy petting/Mutual masturbation act, so it's moving back again!
My ex and I, well... it's something like the senario given...and we started to drift apart... then she ditch me... and we were 21 then.
What I want to say is that as the guy, you MUST refrain from doing such things. and DO NOT start buying condoms. You may be "addicted" to it since you have some "rubber gloves" hidden in your room when you need it. -
steady la even dare to use the pull out method ah... learn your lesson now... but make sure u keep your word...Originally posted by twenty47:Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. The stress after that outweighs the short period of enjoyment you get. -
Now then u noe, u got bring umbrella
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then jus b responsible & buy a condom!!! Oh, students no $ is it? Then dont F U C K!!!
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beats me too.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Why is it after all the sexual acts, a couple can drift further apart?
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students having sex?
people nowadays are behaving like americans. -
You researched on the method AFTER you used it?
.... GeezOriginally posted by twenty47:Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. -
Heh heh.. It's either hit the books or experience it huh?? But of course, the Biology book's the best.. Then again, it's true that one thing leads to another and ta da, you get yourself into deep shit...
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Best is not to do it at all, cos like some people said before, 'once you pop, you cant stop.' If you want to do it, please use protection, although its not 100% foolproof, but hey, all condoms are batch tested at PSB, if something happen, so sue them, haha,
But if you want to use condom, please read the instructions inside on how to used it. Those who got preg after using protection are those who wear or handle it wrongly, causing it to leak. -
Cuz we did it for a year or so liao, with protection and "pull out" method, but she's still afraid, so we stop doing it. Then a few times we were into heavy petting/mutual masturbation and she kinda freak out (don't know why) so we also stopped doing it. In the end, she feels that I don't love her as much cuz of the "moving-a-step-back-towrds-our-relationship" theory. I'm not complaining and she ditched me instead! Haiz...Originally posted by sinicker:beats me too. -
Moral of the story is..
dun be a cheap ass or a tight arse to get well made , tough n durable DUREX CONDOM. Not the cheapo brand.
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dun do it!
i believe that once u started it, the r/s will be revolving ard sex.. nt healthy haha -
im glad u've learnt a lesson. im also glad u're trying to educate others now. if there were more guys like u, the world might be a better place.Originally posted by twenty47:Yes. I am really regretful for putting my love through all that stress. -
It is quite agonising for a girl to go thru the fear on whether she is preggy or not.. Especially when u arent ready for marriage....worst still when u are just a student.....
It ever happened to my gf of mine. She practically cried daily becoz of it. And her useless bf dare not buy a pregnancy test kit from the pharmacy. -.-"" Pretty ****ed with him ya...and he was told her, "Aiya if have then we marry lors" Wah lau.. u havent even go thru ns...u use wat to support my fren n ur baby. Yeaps.. i went with her to get the kit....not one but two... 1st one negative..then after a few days she test again negative oso.... but she still worried lors..cry like hell..fear of this..fear of that.... never rested her mind until her period comes. This is definitely not worth it... crcying buckets..fearing n fearing...
The best is no pre marital sex...if u really really really bth and wanna do it...pls use rubber yea...spermicide..birth control pills.... .
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the thing is..most ppl know the risk but still engage in it.Originally posted by twenty47:Yes. I am really regretful for putting my love through all that stress.
it take 2 hands to clap..u r only partly at fault for putting ur love one thru all that stress.
if u are at fault, she is at fault too for agreeing to it in the first place. -
Hmm....interesting discussion.Originally posted by incredible:the thing is..most ppl know the risk but still engage in it.
it take 2 hands to clap..u r only partly at fault for putting ur love one thru all that stress.
if u are at fault, she is at fault too for agreeing to it in the first place.
One question:
How will an act which is mutually agreed on be at any fault? Since it's between two person and it's private.
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p.s - this is not a personal attack. But after so much of 'it's wrong/PMS...eeeee!' kinda comments. I'm interested to know the respond.
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wad is martial sex???
i am confused. -
lol... it's like movie PRE-view....Originally posted by huaqing:wad is martial sex???
i am confused. -
Originally posted by anchiang:lol... it's like movie PRE-view....
But you don't have to be stressed up after watching a Preview...
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There is an invention called a condom. If people are stupid enough to ignore the possibilities of their gf getting pregnant or take proper precautions, thats their choice.
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why nt ask ur gf take contraceptives
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Originally posted by Robotics999:
The question is why your gf allow u to penerate her and yet still wants to ditch u?
Cuz we did it for a year or so liao, with protection and "pull out" method, but [b]she's still afraid, so we stop doing it. Then a few times we were into heavy petting/mutual masturbation and she kinda freak out (don't know why) so we also stopped doing it. In the end, she feels that I don't love her as much cuz of the "moving-a-step-back-towrds-our-relationship" theory. I'm not complaining and she ditched me instead! Haiz...[/b]