Is it a right way to give up on your relationship.........
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there's all sort of ppl in this world...Originally posted by Mao x 2:Yeah... but there are still some ppl who feel that they need money more than love..
so i guess it's essential to find a partner on the same page as you.... -
definitely..Originally posted by Mao x 2:just because you want to concentrate on your career and have a better life in terms of monetary?
Just want to find out how you guys feel about it.
without money, you are just a loser..
with money, the status is different.. and u will be looked upon as a successful person in life.. -
got money with no one to spend your life with or with only ppl after your money... that's a poor POOR guy!!!Originally posted by Jeno:definitely..
without money, you are just a loser..
with money, the status is different.. and u will be looked upon as a successful person in life.. -
no worries.. the people will be with you.. so long as the money is still there..Originally posted by smudgey:got money with no one to spend your life with or with only ppl after your money... that's a poor POOR guy!!!
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Put it in another way, for a guy, how are you going to provide security/emotional and mental support to your gf if you can't even have that yourself?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Let's put it this way. Many lady friends of mine nowadays are strong, independent career women, & don't need a guy to take care of them financially. They take pride in the fact that they can afford the things they need. What they expect though, is loyalty & emotional/mental support from their loved ones.
Ironically, they've met guys who don't like the fact that my friends are independent, or they just haven't found the guy who'll provide the emotional/mental support.
To me, providing financial support is easy. But believe it or Not, finding someone who'll provide the emotional/mental support is damn difficult. People give up on relationships too easily nowadays. So to look for financial stability/luxury in a partner doesn't seem a good idea.
FeowFeow
Just like my godsis's case. Her bf is one year older than her and with a diploma, he's nothing but just a delivery man with no sense of responsibility towards his own life. To him, all he's concern about is his basketball. For a man at 30, he's still nowhere yet stable, how can a woman feel secure with him then?
Career and r/s comes hand in hand in a way. By the way, if you are serious enough towards the girl, you'll natually want to have a more stable lifestyle rather than bumming around and not serious about life. -
Would you define success in life with the amount of money you are having?Originally posted by Jeno:definitely..
without money, you are just a loser..
with money, the status is different.. and u will be looked upon as a successful person in life..
Money doesn't necessary bring you happiness.
Money can't buy you love.
You can't bring your money with you when you are dead. -
as I said That's really SADOriginally posted by Jeno:no worries.. the people will be with you.. so long as the money is still there.. -
I tink it takes some time to make 2 ppl fall for each other, and tis kinda tings dun come often. "Cupids dun hv mani love arrows 2 spare to keep shooting, n they get tired too" Cherish it. If u find u r in a r/s nw which is strainin u financially, try to cut dwn on spending, i believe you can do it. If its straining u in terms of time, xplain to her. I always believe we control our own time, not e other way. Come and tink of it again, if u give up ur gf nw, when 1 day u r consider financially stable, do u tink u can find e correct gal again. At the end of the dae, A MAN IS ONLI SUCCESSFUL WHEN HE CAN COPE WITH BOTH HIS WIFE/GF TOGETHER WIF HIS WORK. Its nt considered successful if one of it is missing. U can check/try talkin to all those older generation chairman/directors of big companies do they share e sm tinking as i do. I'm confident to sae they will agree too, cause i've spoken to them b4. Hope it helps.
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That would be pathetic..Originally posted by smudgey:as I said That's really SAD -
Sure, pal. I totally agree with you!Originally posted by Godsent:I tink it takes some time to make 2 ppl fall for each other, and tis kinda tings dun come often. "Cupids dun hv mani love arrows 2 spare to keep shooting, n they get tired too" Cherish it. If u find u r in a r/s nw which is strainin u financially, try to cut dwn on spending, i believe you can do it. If its straining u in terms of time, xplain to her. I always believe we control our own time, not e other way. Come and tink of it again, if u give up ur gf nw, when 1 day u r consider financially stable, do u tink u can find e correct gal again. At the end of the dae, A MAN IS ONLI SUCCESSFUL WHEN HE CAN COPE WITH BOTH HIS WIFE/GF TOGETHER WIF HIS WORK. Its nt considered successful if one of it is missing. U can check/try talkin to all those older generation chairman/directors of big companies do they share e sm tinking as i do. I'm confident to sae they will agree too, cause i've spoken to them b4. Hope it helps. -
Yah, at the most wear less also lorr
FeowFeowOriginally posted by smudgey:If it's me, I'll choose love over career ANY DAY!!!
I'm at core a Die hard romantic.... so if I have to choose I'll choose love over bread.
love do not come by every day, some believe once in a lifetime... but money, not enough then make do lor.... eat less, spend less...etc. still happy. -
Well................
To each his own? There's a story someone told me the other day. There's this very rich man whose wifey married him because of the nature of his work & the wealth it brings.
They fight very often & hit each other. He actually hit her!
Gimme all the $ in the world, & I'd still dump that shiethead.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Mao x 2:Yeah... but there are still some ppl who feel that they need money more than love.. -
Actually hor
No offence, but I feel the guy is just irresponsible, period It's got Nothing to do with his job
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:Put it in another way, for a guy, how are you going to provide security/emotional and mental support to your gf if you can't even have that yourself?
Just like my godsis's case. Her bf is one year older than her and with a diploma, he's nothing but just a delivery man with no sense of responsibility towards his own life. To him, all he's concern about is his basketball. For a man at 30, he's still nowhere yet stable, how can a woman feel secure with him then?
Career and r/s comes hand in hand in a way. By the way, if you are serious enough towards the girl, you'll natually want to have a more stable lifestyle rather than bumming around and not serious about life. -
Ooh.....it seems perfectly ok to wear less with me and SomebodyOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Yah, at the most wear less also lorr
FeowFeow
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Well said my dear.... and i cant help but have to agree with you on that!Originally posted by Godsent:I tink it takes some time to make 2 ppl fall for each other, and tis kinda tings dun come often. "Cupids dun hv mani love arrows 2 spare to keep shooting, n they get tired too" Cherish it. If u find u r in a r/s nw which is strainin u financially, try to cut dwn on spending, i believe you can do it. If its straining u in terms of time, xplain to her. I always believe we control our own time, not e other way. Come and tink of it again, if u give up ur gf nw, when 1 day u r consider financially stable, do u tink u can find e correct gal again. At the end of the dae, A MAN IS ONLI SUCCESSFUL WHEN HE CAN COPE WITH BOTH HIS WIFE/GF TOGETHER WIF HIS WORK. Its nt considered successful if one of it is missing. U can check/try talkin to all those older generation chairman/directors of big companies do they share e sm tinking as i do. I'm confident to sae they will agree too, cause i've spoken to them b4. Hope it helps. -
If you don't have a character, I suppose you'll need the $ to keep your friends/lovers
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Jeno:no worries.. the people will be with you.. so long as the money is still there.. -
Aargh.....Originally posted by FeowFeow:Well................
To each his own? There's a story someone told me the other day. There's this very rich man whose wifey married him because of the nature of his work & the wealth it brings.
They fight very often & hit each other. He actually hit her!
Gimme all the $ in the world, & I'd still dump that shiethead.
FeowFeow
i wont want a man like that!!
HITTING WOMAN is a strict no no to me!!!
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But I think he'd prefer it if you wore Nothing at all
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76:Ooh.....it seems perfectly ok to wear less with me and Somebody -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:But I think he'd prefer it if you wore Nothing at all
FeowFeow harlow....i am sure Hammy feels
the same way abt you too!!
Ooh....but again...... you still need to wear dangling ear-rings no matter wat! -
He's quite terok lorr!
See lorr, got $ right, but his character is pure horrid.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76:Aargh.....
i wont want a man like that!!
HITTING WOMAN is a strict no no to me!!! -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:He's quite terok lorr!
See lorr, got $ right, but his character is pure horrid.
FeowFeow HE GOT CHARACTER in the first place meh?
Man dun use $ to throw at woman hor.....GOT $ .....think he VERI BIG SHOT MEH......
we modern woman rather go begging in the streets than
to succumb to a man like that ..... Ooh....should i say it is a beast!!! -
I almost thought you wrote the word which will be censored if I say it out Just insert the "R"
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76: HE GOT CHARACTER in the first place meh?
Man dun use $ to throw at woman hor.....GOT $ .....think he VERI BIG SHOT MEH......
we modern woman rather go begging in the streets than
to succumb to a man like that ..... Ooh....should i say it is a beast!!! -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:I almost thought you wrote the word which will be censored if I say it out Just insert the "R"
FeowFeow
Man got that "thing" meh?
they only got boobs or chest -
So horrible, right?
Hope he gets suffocated under his own $
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76: HE GOT CHARACTER in the first place meh?
Man dun use $ to throw at woman hor.....GOT $ .....think he VERI BIG SHOT MEH......
we modern woman rather go begging in the streets than
to succumb to a man like that ..... Ooh....should i say it is a beast!!! -
Yap...as wat larling suggest....THIS HORRID man can carry his bills of notesOriginally posted by FeowFeow:So horrible, right?
Hope he gets suffocated under his own $
FeowFeow
to his coffin NO one will care a shit abt him
on his death bed!
Man cannot buy love aka love cannot be bought by $!! POINT BLANK!