Confusing Frenship
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Hmmm...how do i start?Well,let's just say i fell in love with one of my school mates recently.....like her quite alot.She is 1 year my junior in e same course.Somehow she also knew i like her cos i always sms her n talk to her online,n also cos i admitted that i do like her.She told me she needed time as she just got out of a bad relationship recently n does not want to be involved again so soon..... want to concentrate on studies n dun wanna disappoint her parents.... recently we went out together n she got frightened n i held her in my arms for awhile....n on e bus i held her in my arms as she feel asleep. I tested her later n knew she was not realli 100% asleep at that time n know wat is happening around her.dunno wat she thinks of me leh.... is she playing hard to get or just confused.....
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For mi.. i feel tat u shld give her time.. Rushin her into a relationship when she jus got out of one wouldn be gd for either of u..Originally posted by waliao:Hmmm...how do i start?Well,let's just say i fell in love with one of my school mates recently.....like her quite alot.She is 1 year my junior in e same course.Somehow she also knew i like her cos i always sms her n talk to her online,n also cos i admitted that i do like her.She told me she needed time as she just got out of a bad relationship recently n does not want to be involved again so soon..... want to concentrate on studies n dun wanna disappoint her parents.... recently we went out together n she got frightened n i held her in my arms for awhile....n on e bus i held her in my arms as she feel asleep. I tested her later n knew she was not realli 100% asleep at that time n know wat is happening around her.dunno wat she thinks of me leh.... is she playing hard to get or just confused.....
Let her go over the past first and decided if she is willin to plunge into the nx step..
Coz.. Sometimes.. Plp feel lonely after gettin out of a relationship.. And they r tryin to find companionship.. When someone shows extra concern to them.. They treat it as their life buoy.. Coz at least now there is still someone who cares..
Go slow.. go easy.. Cont be gd friends? Love blossoms from friendships! Luck! -
she keeps giving me fixed signals till i now more confused than her
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Dear waliao,Originally posted by waliao:Hmmm...how do i start?Well,let's just say i fell in love with one of my school mates recently.....like her quite alot.She is 1 year my junior in e same course.Somehow she also knew i like her cos i always sms her n talk to her online,n also cos i admitted that i do like her.She told me she needed time as she just got out of a bad relationship recently n does not want to be involved again so soon..... want to concentrate on studies n dun wanna disappoint her parents.... recently we went out together n she got frightened n i held her in my arms for awhile....n on e bus i held her in my arms as she feel asleep. I tested her later n knew she was not realli 100% asleep at that time n know wat is happening around her.dunno wat she thinks of me leh.... is she playing hard to get or just confused.....
M©'s advise you to stay put at where you are and truly respect her when she told you that she needed time because of the past r/s.
Studies and piority towards her parents might be her values that she's holding on right now.
Yes she is confused, herself. She is trying to keep to what she said but yet cannot resist your attention towards her.
Her effort to overcome the previous r/s might be masked due to your presence, she cannot fully recover hence higher possibility of having excess bagguage.
Infact, her mixed signals will suggest that you steer clear from her until she have made up her mind.
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M©'s suggest that you have a good talk with her and tell her where the both of your are and how to proceed. If she have interest in you, work it out.
Stop all the mixed signals by communication and stop showering attention on her.
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point taken but e truth is i m pampering her and showering her with too much affection.... ha ha n i can't help it
told her i will wait for her but than again i was hoping dun have to wait too long.... contradicting i m indeed. -
M© thinks that this is the initial stage.
Keep your fingers crossed.
And i keep mine crossed.
You haven't give a througher thought on it yeah?
Good luck
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ha ha...i did...just need advise on how to take e next step....lolxOriginally posted by M©+square:M© thinks that this is the initial stage.
Keep your fingers crossed.
And i keep mine crossed.
You haven't give a througher thought on it yeah?
Good luck
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M© have presented his advise on the next step. It's up to you to think through.Originally posted by waliao:ha ha...i did...just need advise on how to take e next step....lolx
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ha ha...okie...thanx
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find someone else?????
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dun want leh....she is e onli one i likeOriginally posted by harryryan:find someone else????? -
Woah rare guest!Originally posted by harryryan:find someone else?????
Thank you for visiting AA.
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???simi taiji? do admit i dun come to AA that often but dun need say untill like that mahOriginally posted by M©+square:Woah rare guest!
Thank you for visiting AA.
Cheers my very first posy in Sgforums is in AA leh -
Must appreciate those oldbies who bothered to post in AAOriginally posted by harryryan:???simi taiji? do admit i dun come to AA that often but dun need say untill like that mah my very first posy in Sgforums is in AA leh
Hope to see you more often.
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I don't see what's the problem in the threadstarter's situation. All he has to do is carry on his "nice guy" game plane and also continue with the "i'll wait for you" strategy.
Patience my friend... patience is virtue. If its meant to be, then its meant to be. Oh yea, don't overwhelm her with that "i'm desperately in love with you" shiatz, cos it'll just make her more uncomfy.
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just confused over wat she feeling...any ladies can give any insight into this?
ha ha.... my nice guy approach has been seen thru -
siao eh. but not bad, can be my slave. hohohohohoho!Originally posted by waliao:just confused over wat she feeling...any ladies can give any insight into this?
ha ha.... my nice guy approach has been seen thru -
be yr slave for wat?Originally posted by Ito_^:siao eh. but not bad, can be my slave. hohohohohoho! i nice to my dream gal onli -
no la, not me. i was acting as yr dream gal.Originally posted by waliao:be yr slave for wat? i nice to my dream gal onli 
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i oldbies liao...whoa...how time fliesOriginally posted by M©+square:Must appreciate those oldbies who bothered to post in AA
Hope to see you more often.
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Ha ha...we have an expert hereOriginally posted by nullifi3d:I don't see what's the problem in the threadstarter's situation. All he has to do is carry on his "nice guy" game plane and also continue with the "i'll wait for you" strategy.
Patience my friend... patience is virtue. If its meant to be, then its meant to be. Oh yea, don't overwhelm her with that "i'm desperately in love with you" shiatz, cos it'll just make her more uncomfy.
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wahahaha....you like to see what you want to see.Originally posted by waliao:Ha ha...we have an expert here please bestow me greater wisdom,dear NULL.
Can can. There are more encouraging ones to come.
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he saw thru e fact i was playing nice mahOriginally posted by M©+square:wahahaha....you like to see what you want to see.
Can can. There are more encouraging ones to come.
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Originally posted by waliao:he saw thru e fact i was playing nice mah Which courtship doesn't start with a 'nice' intent?
Ok lah. i don't want to disturb you le.
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still no gals come in give comments lehOriginally posted by M©+square: Which courtship doesn't start with a 'nice' intent?
Ok lah. i don't want to disturb you le.
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