Originally posted by Heartzzz:
for the 1st part, i don't mind being lance lor...if someone can do what apple hong did for lance, who will not be touched?? And of coz the first thing is both parties must give each other a chance...Whether anything will come out good of it, no one knows....
Actually it varies with different people and different situations....what if it's not apple hong? but someone like ruhua?

don't forget this world's quite superficial....
for the second part, of coz most guys will do what lance did...What's the point of keeping ruyi with his side when she can only think of jiekuan? It's like keeping the person but not the heart...And if two persons really in love (ruyi and jiekuan) can be together, who can stop them? Anyone would be happy to do a good deed, although love is said to be selfish...ha
Most guys will do what lance did?
I doubt so also... not everyone's that generous.. usually they don't have a choice but to let the girl/guy go.... for some cases when guys/girls get too persistent.. they turn into stalkers.. or worse still they get violent...