Very noob.
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So this guy i met online met me offline and we went out a couple of times and each time he would pay for everything...movies to food to whatever... then he'd send me home and all that...
is that what guys usually do? Or is he up to something? I dare not think he likes me. -
Aiyah, got free movies, free food, company and you still want to complain?
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He doesn't like you.
He's trying to bore you off inconsipicuously. -
ask yrslf this.Originally posted by Quinsy:So this guy i met online met me offline and we went out a couple of times and each time he would pay for everything...movies to food to whatever... then he'd send me home and all that...
is that what guys usually do? Or is he up to something? I dare not think he likes me.
1) y r u going out w him?
2) Y u let him pay for everythg?
3) Y u let him send u home?
if u dont like him or jus consider him n ordinary fren. then u shdnt b letg him pay for everthg no matter wat he says.
from a negative point of view it mite jus seem that u r jus advantage of him. -
Get to know him better and you will know the answer.
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he is trying to get into ur good books..
might be after u for other stuff,maybe he's the kind who wants sex..i dare not say more for i do not know the whole story,but what i can tell u is not to rush into any decision as of yet..
rather wait for around 2-3 months,and time will tell whether he's really interested or those that want flings.. -
he thought you were a charitable organisation.
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he is up to something and i can b v sure for thatOriginally posted by Quinsy:So this guy i met online met me offline and we went out a couple of times and each time he would pay for everything...movies to food to whatever... then he'd send me home and all that...
is that what guys usually do? Or is he up to something? I dare not think he likes me.
If u are pretty, i suppose i am v right..
if not don think abt anything -
He wants to blackmail you. He already has a debt book with your name on it and everything spent including the $$$ used for broadband when chatting with you online.
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he is standing beside me reading this right now and he says he loves you
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ooi.. y say i beside u now..Originally posted by Ito_^:he is standing beside me reading this right now and he says he loves you -
if u dun like it, u can offer to pay for movies n meals
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seems like he does have a intention somewhere.... bt at the same time you are also leading him on.... bt no harm anyway....
he's nt asking for anything and this is all his own will.... bt mayb for once u can pay for the movie or something and c hw he reacts to it -
he's trying to make u think he is nice and once u fell for his trick..Originally posted by falling_stars:seems like he does have a intention somewhere.... bt at the same time you are also leading him on.... bt no harm anyway....
he's nt asking for anything and this is all his own will.... bt mayb for once u can pay for the movie or something and c hw he reacts to it
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Eh. That guy isit the shy type or the checky type. Better becareful. I worry about you leh. More and more girl are getting cheated by this kind of guys lor. You went out a few time with him hor, shows that you are the outing-type of girls. Guy would usually prey on this type of girls lor. Meet then Treat then Bed. Anyway, becareful.
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luckily my mei mei smart.. there is this dude age 26 whom she met thru CS de. Chat on MSN and stuff. LAter on that dude came up with story of how he get cheated and stuff.. trying to make her pity him. THen he have this urge to ask her out desperately! Luckily got 1 time she changed her nick in CS and saw him actually trying to buaya another gal in CS! Actually she don quite believe in his crap also but i must say he is quite a good actor despite his age! Normal gals would had fell for his trickOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Eh. That guy isit the shy type or the checky type. Better becareful. I worry about you leh. More and more girl are getting cheated by this kind of guys lor. You went out a few time with him hor, shows that you are the outing-type of girls. Guy would usually prey on this type of girls lor. Meet then Treat then Bed. Anyway, becareful. -
It's either he's filthy rich or he has a big-man ideology, or else he probably has other intentions. Maybe he's interested in u.. maybe not. But dun rule out it's juz friendship.
The thing now is, way r u bothered about? He paying for the outings, his intentions or ur own perception of him? -
A few points to consider:Originally posted by Quinsy:So this guy i met online met me offline and we went out a couple of times and each time he would pay for everything...movies to food to whatever... then he'd send me home and all that...
is that what guys usually do? Or is he up to something? I dare not think he likes me.
1) U both met on the internet so that practically means u were both strangers in the first place.
2)Why would a stranger do so many things nice to someone who is also a stranger?
3) Send u home?
Now think about it. If he ain't interested in you, logic should tell you he would have kept the date short. What's more, u both went out another time and he did practically the same stuff. Assuming you are a gal and gals normally are able to read such situations well, what then is ur opinion? -
he may be despo to find a gf online
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internet dating is so common nowadays.... nothing reali special about them...Originally posted by striderz_o405:he may be despo to find a gf online
bt still gona b veri careful when meeting up wif ppl u noe on the net... esp a one on one date...
whether this guy is despo or not onli u can judge urself -
why are u even going out with him in the first place?
unless ya fond of him but nw u're afraid he doesnt feel same and has other intentions. tell me if i hit e jackpot
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internet dating is such a unrealistic, desperate ways .Originally posted by falling_stars:internet dating is so common nowadays.... nothing reali special about them...
bt still gona b veri careful when meeting up wif ppl u noe on the net... esp a one on one date...
whether this guy is despo or not onli u can judge urself -
he like you that for sure or he too rich and it is good to watch a movie and eat dinner without paying money XD
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Usually girls i date don't ask their frens such qns. They'll continue going out while i continue paying for them majority of the occasion until i pop the qns and they say i'm more of a brother and a good friend.Originally posted by Quinsy:So this guy i met online met me offline and we went out a couple of times and each time he would pay for everything...movies to food to whatever... then he'd send me home and all that...
is that what guys usually do? Or is he up to something? I dare not think he likes me.
I realized girls just wan my $$. And til now the lack of it. -
its kind of hard to tell also..sometimes, guy might jus play gentlemen without any motives...
tats y...
when guy pays for stuffs, gals will think he is up to something
when guy dun pay, gals will think he is not gentlemen...
tats y in order for gals not to think of the latter, we guys normally pay for it unless the gal refuse or says it that they go dutch...
so gals, if you dun wan us to pay, say it..it will not hurt us either..hehe