i choose to be stupid..argh
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well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all. -
aww that really is stupid...but kind of sweet too. hope she appreciates it
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Originally posted by bravo82:well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all.
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appreciate also no use wat. we will never be together again i guess. just hope she will find a much better mother-in-law than my mum would have been. and that i would find a much more appreciative gf for my efforts.Originally posted by kikq:aww that really is stupid...but kind of sweet too. hope she appreciates it
sighz.. really loved her so much. but i guess my love suffocated her. didnt really understand how she felt until i read the book "men from mars n women from venus". thats when i knew i was very wrong in many situations. a case of too much love until her love died for me i guess.
anyway to all those who seem to be having problem in their relationship, go read that book. will really teach u to understand both women AND men. dun be like me .. -
huh...what's wrong with your mum then?Originally posted by bravo82:just hope she will find a much better mother-in-law than my mum would have been. -
not the way u wanna start ur chinese new year huh?
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Happy New Year.Originally posted by bravo82:well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all.
U both already broke up. By right both of u shd have continued with ur own private lives. Yet she continued to ask u to wake her up. It seems as if she is using ur attached feelings to her and use u. Doesnt she have a device called an "alarm clock"? Does she really need u to call her? By right she should have not contacted u and so should u. She broke up with u at the lowest point of ur life with u left wondering what the hell happened. And u still think she's a good gal. A good gal with a good character will not do that even thou she's losing feelings for u.
No u have not learnt to let her go yet. Inside u still want her back.
Dude, delete her number and find a new gal. When u find a new one the old one means nothing. -
its ok pal, i used to do the same thing when i tried dating a gal i like v much.Originally posted by bravo82:well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all. -
break up, still ask you to wake her at 6am? you have no obligation as a friend now, but if you wan to, we will understand y u will do it.. 'you still hope for something, dont you??
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Happy New Year..
Just a wake up call for
U r not stupid
Just feel left out! Go and collect your angpows from your gal's parents!
However, expect to be a giver yourself, hide a thousand $note angpow inside your gift packet before U go...
People who are slowOFTEN think they are stupid.. I'm old and slow!I give my angpows away so readily and not realising my angpow to the cleaner was empty.. then he reported to me again when I see him, then I give 2 angpows
ne for correction, and for happy CNY! 
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well, my mum doesn't like her. so everytime she's ard there's sorta some 'bad' feelings between the 2 of them. mum said some words abt the gal's family that hurt her before. told my gf to ignore all these as my mum is like that, old n old-fashioned, but she always got something against my mum. and she apparently used this to break up.Originally posted by kikq:huh...what's wrong with your mum then?
she was my 1st ever gf n i was her 16th. speaks much about how she treats relationships rite? i just hope that i will find someone much better. sometimes i think that it is better to move on now rather than get married and then divorce. -
It was jus an excuse on her part to initiate the breakup la. Im sorry to say this.. she has no feelings for u anymore and is on the way to her look for a 17th bf while u hang around her for company.Originally posted by bravo82:well, my mum doesn't like her. so everytime she's ard there's sorta some 'bad' feelings between the 2 of them. mum said some words abt the gal's family that hurt her before. told my gf to ignore all these as my mum is like that, old n old-fashioned, but she always got something against my mum. and she apparently used this to break up.
she was my 1st ever gf n i was her 16th. speaks much about how she treats relationships rite? i just hope that i will find someone much better. sometimes i think that it is better to move on now rather than get married and then divorce.
If she truly like u she will be liking ur mum and the fact she got something agst ur mum speaks something about her character doesn't it?
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yup i agree that it is time to move on indeed. and yes she has no feelings for me anymore i guess. just hope that she will fin her 17th and treasue him. in my time with her, she is ever so ready to breakup always. sometimes i wonder if her 1st bf treated her so badly during their 6 month relationship(the longest she had besides mine) that i had to face the brunt of her anger. its like she could tolerate all his beatings and infidelity but always wanna break up with me over petty stuff? aiya i also confused la.Originally posted by dokono:It was jus an excuse on her part to initiate the breakup la. Im sorry to say this.. she has no feelings for u anymore and is on the way to her look for a 17th bf while u hang around her for company.
If she truly like u she will be liking ur mum and the fact she got something agst ur mum speaks something about her character doesn't it?
Yes move on.
she really good in the sense that when she's gd mood she will take real gd care of me. just that i met with a pretty serious accident and cant spend 'fun' time with her, bring her out etc that she complain our relationship is 'stale' and wanted to break up. she did however try to break up maany times before but i always manage to save the relationship. but now, i decided it's best to let go. she just does not understand how to be appreciative of the 'good' things around her.
or maybe i failed to realise how bad a person i might haf been? only she can tell me wat i did wrong
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16!!!!!
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i wonder how wld she react when u call her at 4am and tell her to wake up? "oh sorry too sad to realise dat my clock spoil. go back to sleep, ill call u when its 6."
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I separated with mine of 2.5years. Yet I still send her to uni, bring her shoppin, cheer her on.. even though I know our time is over and we will never be together again.Originally posted by bravo82:well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all.
Is it stupid? No, I do not think so. A habit? Maybe..but Im not complaining
But definately not stupid.
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that's becos u were always too eager to please her.. what she wans is someone who can stand up for himself.. anyway in any case she's not worth ur love.Originally posted by bravo82:yup i agree that it is time to move on indeed. and yes she has no feelings for me anymore i guess. just hope that she will fin her 17th and treasue him. in my time with her, she is ever so ready to breakup always. sometimes i wonder if her 1st bf treated her so badly during their 6 month relationship(the longest she had besides mine) that i had to face the brunt of her anger. its like she could tolerate all his beatings and infidelity but always wanna break up with me over petty stuff? aiya i also confused la.
she really good in the sense that when she's gd mood she will take real gd care of me. just that i met with a pretty serious accident and cant spend 'fun' time with her, bring her out etc that she complain our relationship is 'stale' and wanted to break up. she did however try to break up maany times before but i always manage to save the relationship. but now, i decided it's best to let go. she just does not understand how to be appreciative of the 'good' things around her.
or maybe i failed to realise how bad a person i might haf been? only she can tell me wat i did wrong -
haha thats a gd one. anyway i manage to wake her up then went to slp n now just wake up la. not even one word of thanks. never once did she ever thank me. she says that no need to say thanks.. she show can oledi. haha.. sometime i think that verbal thanks is so much better.. sometimes i wish i would have treated her like shit also. haha.. evil of me rite? but i really do think of that. hahaha.. at times also hope that ppl go n play with her .. make her know how i felt. then i think if i think that way, so bad of me and means that i haven't let go of her. so i hope that she be happy. now wat am i thinking? sometime this sometime that? hahahaha...Originally posted by Ito_^:i wonder how wld she react when u call her at 4am and tell her to wake up? "oh sorry too sad to realise dat my clock spoil. go back to sleep, ill call u when its 6." -
yes u areOriginally posted by alexkusu:I separated with mine of 2.5years. Yet I still send her to uni, bring her shoppin, cheer her on.. even though I know our time is over and we will never be together again.
Is it stupid? No, I do not think so. A habit? Maybe..but Im not complaining
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stand up for himself? haha.. i think y does doing all that suggest that i dunno how to stand up for myself? in fact i am the one who has been cheering her on ... making SURE thst she pass her exams(same class last time when started out) up to the extent of really coaching her step by step so patiently even though she will at times breakout n scold me if she doesn't understand.Originally posted by dokono:that's becos u were always too eager to please her.. what she wans is someone who can stand up for himself.. anyway in any case she's not worth ur love.
anyway forget all that. mind telling me wat u mean by stand up for oneself? so that i can better enter into another relationship when the time comes and not commit the same mistake. hehe -
yes u are stupid. why shd u stay up all night so that u can give her a wake up call at 6am? if u're afraid of missing it, just set 2 alarm clocks.Originally posted by bravo82:well.. my gf of 3.5 yrs broke up with me during my lowest point of my life. this happened like a week ago. she is a good gal although there are some points about her that i feel very wrong about. anyway overall she is very good..
thing is we haf broken up about a week ago. now her parents n family are away in malaysia. n since she's alone, she worry that she wont be able to get up in time for work. so she asked me to give her a wake up call at 6am.
and here i am, waiting all night to wake her up. now 5:37am and i have yet to sleep a wink. am i stupid or wat? i haf learnt to let her go and started socialising with others anyway. although i know that we will never be together again, i still wanna do these type of things which i KNOW are stupid.
and out of sheer boredom i post here about my thoughts. anyway happy chinese new year to all.
to her, it's just a simple task of giving her a call at 6 but u made it so difficult(to stay up the whole night!?) that u think u're doing a stupid thing. such things will only make u think too much and hard to let go. -
no AK is not stupid.Originally posted by FBI:yes u are
I bought mine a Xmas tree in '04.Her mum likes it so much that they still use it every year.
We went back to being great mates.
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are u still hoping for a patch?
if not, y stay up juz to wake her up at 6am? that's silly.
whether she's worth it or not, only you know.
u can continue to be mr nice guy to her, but u will end up getting v tired of it in the end, bcos she will not reciprocate.
if u juz wants to be frens with her now, then know the limit.
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i think you're still hopin for sth .... right ?
but the chances is v slim , or maybe 0% .
stop givin her mornin calls la .. by doin all these for her also cant bring u 2 back again ..
move on
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Happy Lunar New Year !! -
nope i am not hoping for anything.. nothing at all!! just wanna pay back the injustice she suffer with my mum. so sorta like feel guilty and do some things to make up for wat my mum did..Originally posted by Lorry`:i think you're still hopin for sth .... right ?
but the chances is v slim , or maybe 0% .
stop givin her mornin calls la .. by doin all these for her also cant bring u 2 back again ..
move on
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Happy Lunar New Year !!
even if she wan patch back i dun think i will. i dun wanna go thru so much again. its time to move on. once broken it can never be the same again so no patch back. its time to move on but the injustice caused by my mum make me feel very guilty..