i choose to be stupid..argh
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Haiz... His case so like mine...Originally posted by kikq:aww that really is stupid...but kind of sweet too. hope she appreciates it -
This is somethig that is hard to explain.Originally posted by bravo82:or maybe i failed to realise how bad a person i might haf been? only she can tell me wat i did wrong
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no everyone can b like the same case as u loOriginally posted by LazerLordz:no AK is not stupid.
I bought mine a Xmas tree in '04.Her mum likes it so much that they still use it every year.
We went back to being great mates.
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A case of too much love that cause a relationship to die? Can explain more? Which part of the book says so?Originally posted by bravo82:sighz.. really loved her so much. but i guess my love suffocated her. didnt really understand how she felt until i read the book "men from mars n women from venus". thats when i knew i was very wrong in many situations. a case of too much love until her love died for me i guess. -
the book never say la.. just that i did alot of things that i should not haf.. like i dislike her to go disco etc.. but i unable to realise at that time that maybe she needed to destress etc etc by gg to a disco?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:A case of too much love that cause a relationship to die? Can explain more? Which part of the book says so? -
Dear LL, there is no need to entertain a little puppy's barkingOriginally posted by LazerLordz:no AK is not stupid.
I bought mine a Xmas tree in '04.Her mum likes it so much that they still use it every year.
We went back to being great mates. 
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i dun think tt u r stupid... coz u realise tt it is really time to let go... some pple can still hold on despites all the wrong things the other party has done..
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cna't blame a idiot..Originally posted by alexkusu:Dear LL, there is no need to entertain a little puppy's barking 
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wow.. a rare guy tt u cant find on street..
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mine of near to 4 yrs broke up with me 3 mths ago after she went into uni.
and im still in army... she told me 1 day tat i couldn't make her happy and shit... after 3 yr +? now den she say... but i got a feeling she change of heart liao... after we broke up, her friendster came up with her and a guy. Although she said shes juz frens, i could do nuthin aso. so in order to spite her aso, i got a gf a few days later which is chee hong of me. Something i regretted aso.
and i ended e relationship 2 weeks after cuz i really cannt forget her.
i went to her asking for a patch, did everything i can do liao, even up to now.
it seems that she can juz forget me like tat. i went into "depression" that time, 3 days nv eat and slp. had to slapped myself damn hard in e middle of e night scolding myself for bring stupid. But i really coulnt help it.
nuthin will bring e relationship back le... till now still hoping though, told her if anything that she needs my help i wont hesitate to help.
haiz..sad... those who still are in a r/s, cherish it. -
it takes both hands to clap, if one party dun, wats the pt of cherishing it?Originally posted by noside:mine of near to 4 yrs broke up with me 3 mths ago after she went into uni.
and im still in army... she told me 1 day tat i couldn't make her happy and shit... after 3 yr +? now den she say... but i got a feeling she change of heart liao... after we broke up, her friendster came up with her and a guy. Although she said shes juz frens, i could do nuthin aso. so in order to spite her aso, i got a gf a few days later which is chee hong of me. Something i regretted aso.
and i ended e relationship 2 weeks after cuz i really cannt forget her.
i went to her asking for a patch, did everything i can do liao, even up to now.
it seems that she can juz forget me like tat. i went into "depression" that time, 3 days nv eat and slp. had to slapped myself damn hard in e middle of e night scolding myself for bring stupid. But i really coulnt help it.
nuthin will bring e relationship back le... till now still hoping though, told her if anything that she needs my help i wont hesitate to help.
haiz..sad... those who still are in a r/s, cherish it. -
haizz.. bros i can understand how u feel.. i did all these be4.. she 'accepted' my request for a patch, she ain't treating mi like i am her bf lidat.. she doesn't sms mi or wat anymore.. doesn't even let mi hold her hands giving the reason tat she nids time to get over the things in the past tat happened.. i reali nth to say already manz..
nw tat i started to widen my contacts, i found a gal.. she's veri femine type n homely... we click well.. but we hadn't seen each other yet.. only photos and chatted online/ on phone.. she did reject my initial request for a relationship cos she said we hadn't even met n since she knew mi online, she doesn't feel quite secured.. i understand tis n i gave her time.. we stil converse regularly n i feel like asking her out for a movie/dinner.. ( i kinda poor so i am saving up for the 'initial date' ).. after my ex, i lost alot of confidence now already.. how shld i approach to ask her out all these? bros can pm mi hw shld i go abt mah?
sorrie bravo82 i hijacked ur thread.. hope u dun mind..
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like wat i am doin nw to the gal i am trying to go after now...
as we are about to end our late nite conversation, she will ask me to call her in the morning, sometimes 7am, 730am or even 8am... depending...
anyway that's aft i woke up and is about to leave for work....
dun reali think it's something stupid... jux something u wld wan to do for someone that u think or thought was special... not reali mux b hoping for smething in return... -
I also understand how u feel. While, I also lost my confidence over night. I guess u should take it slow for this incoming relationship. No rush. Just ask her out for a dinner. Its pretty normal to ask a gal out. No obligations.Originally posted by HolySniper:haizz.. bros i can understand how u feel.. i did all these be4.. she 'accepted' my request for a patch, she ain't treating mi like i am her bf lidat.. she doesn't sms mi or wat anymore.. doesn't even let mi hold her hands giving the reason tat she nids time to get over the things in the past tat happened.. i reali nth to say already manz..
nw tat i started to widen my contacts, i found a gal.. she's veri femine type n homely... we click well.. but we hadn't seen each other yet.. only photos and chatted online/ on phone.. she did reject my initial request for a relationship cos she said we hadn't even met n since she knew mi online, she doesn't feel quite secured.. i understand tis n i gave her time.. we stil converse regularly n i feel like asking her out for a movie/dinner.. ( i kinda poor so i am saving up for the 'initial date' ).. after my ex, i lost alot of confidence now already.. how shld i approach to ask her out all these? bros can pm mi hw shld i go abt mah?
sorrie bravo82 i hijacked ur thread.. hope u dun mind..
If she is interested in you, she will accept your date. If she is not, then you should know what she means. But beware, if she accept your date, that doesn't mean she is interested in you. There are some cases that she may be dumped and you are the rebound guy. Just be careful. Take it nice and slow and explore together with her. -
Yeah exactly. Don't overrate urself too much. She could jus be using u until a new guy comes into her life.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I also understand how u feel. While, I also lost my confidence over night. I guess u should take it slow for this incoming relationship. No rush. Just ask her out for a dinner. Its pretty normal to ask a gal out. No obligations.
If she is interested in you, she will accept your date. If she is not, then you should know what she means. But beware, if she accept your date, that doesn't mean she is interested in you. There are some cases that she may be dumped and you are the rebound guy. Just be careful. Take it nice and slow and explore together with her. -
the way u are doing it, it seems u are begging her. And that's really sad.. I mean where's ur dignity?Originally posted by noside:mine of near to 4 yrs broke up with me 3 mths ago after she went into uni.
and im still in army... she told me 1 day tat i couldn't make her happy and shit... after 3 yr +? now den she say... but i got a feeling she change of heart liao... after we broke up, her friendster came up with her and a guy. Although she said shes juz frens, i could do nuthin aso. so in order to spite her aso, i got a gf a few days later which is chee hong of me. Something i regretted aso.
and i ended e relationship 2 weeks after cuz i really cannt forget her.
i went to her asking for a patch, did everything i can do liao, even up to now.
it seems that she can juz forget me like tat. i went into "depression" that time, 3 days nv eat and slp. had to slapped myself damn hard in e middle of e night scolding myself for bring stupid. But i really coulnt help it.
nuthin will bring e relationship back le... till now still hoping though, told her if anything that she needs my help i wont hesitate to help.
haiz..sad... those who still are in a r/s, cherish it.
Come'on she's not worth it. She doesnt love u anymore...dun bother. get a new and better one. -
having a chee-hong girl is better than no gf.
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thats only uOriginally posted by geodome:having a chee-hong girl is better than no gf. -
half a loaf is better than none. what more you want?
if u have girlfriend, go for it.
if you are single and a girl wants to fcuk with you on a regular basis, why not?
tell me, which guy don't want to dominate the local gene pool? -
that's jux a sex partner... no love involved or required... jux sexOriginally posted by geodome:half a loaf is better than none. what more you want?
if u have girlfriend, go for it.
tell me, which guy don't want to dominate the local gene pool?
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Dun fret so much, time will pass n u will slowly get used to it. In the meantime get to know more gals