He got call me, but everytime he called he'll ask... I'll call only if you don't object and silence means consent okay? Budden I also never reply... den when he call I hung up...Originally posted by winning 11:Give him a call..Listen to his reactions. After all, you will know what to do. : )
Sometimes..you just have to face it. Don't listen to what pple say anymore...face this once and for all. Spare him and you e troubles of thinking ""what shd i do""
Cheers
If you do tat he'll definately go crazy.Originally posted by Fatum:you got a masochistic loser, and a potential stalker on your hands ...
if you don't make a clean break and cut off all ties with him he'll continue wallowing in his misery and self-pity .... he probably likes it ....
so .... borrow one of your guy friends for a day, call him out, turn up to meet him with the chap, tell him to wake up from his idea, life is not a drama, and to Fxxx off and never pester you again, or you'll call the police or something ...
hopefully that'll wake him up .... but if you do nothing ... he'll just continue doing what he's doing ...
he's not in love with you really ... these sort of people, they're just in love with the idea of being in love ....
trust me ... he's not really crazy ....Originally posted by Ayukat:If you do tat he'll definately go crazy.![]()
He MIGHT really be crazy...Originally posted by Fatum:trust me ... he's not really crazy ....
he's just one of those emotionally stunted individuals who's just in love with the idea of being in love .... he probably watched too much drama and read too much "qiong yau" or something .... he'll enjoy wallowing in self pity for a while, then move onto the next target ....
in anycase, it's unconceivable that the thread-starter should even consider such an individual eh ....![]()
You should tell him how u feel towards him and be firm about it or else he will still harbour any more hopes to win your heart!!!Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you?
U so sure he is those guy? what makes u sooo sure?Originally posted by Fatum:trust me ... he's not really crazy ....
he's just one of those emotionally stunted individuals who's just in love with the idea of being in love .... he probably watched too much drama and read too much "qiong yau" or something .... he'll enjoy wallowing in self pity for a while, then move onto the next target ....
in anycase, it's unconceivable that the thread-starter should even consider such an individual eh ....![]()
Call him. Don't wait for him to all you.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:He got call me, but everytime he called he'll ask... I'll call only if you don't object and silence means consent okay? Budden I also never reply... den when he call I hung up...![]()
Got Uncle Agnoy or not ar? LolxOriginally posted by Apollo_sg:sms him come to wallow in sgforum. plenty of aunt agony here to help him.
Someone from this forum mentioned that giving someone a chance is a priviledge. He should make the effort to prove himself worthy of being given a chance.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you?
yeah, be a man do the right thingOriginally posted by nullifi3d:Someone from this forum mentioned that giving someone a chance is a priviledge. He should make the effort to prove himself worthy of being given a chance.
But in your case you should not leave him hanging. I'd say "Be a man. Do the right thing" but your a girl. And girls tend to follow their complicated and complexed heart of theirs. Hence their decision making skills are, in my honest opinion, lacking in authority. Do what you think is right.
don like don give damnOriginally posted by stupid_galz1987:Should I give in? Will you?
This is from Dummy's Guide to Choosing a Partner? Or Matchmaking 101?Originally posted by Nelstar:Here's what to do:
First, are you interested in him?
a) Yes (What are you waiting for?)
b) No (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
c) Maybe (Please proceed to the next question)
Is he detestable?
a) Yes (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
b) No, at least his actions did not irritate me as of yet. (Please proceed to the next question)
Are you okay being alone with guys and is capable of defending yourself should the need arises?
a) Yes (Then, why don't give yourself a chance?)
b) No, or at least I'm not sure of it. (Please proceed to the next question)
Do you have close buddies you can trust?
a) No (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) Yes (Please proceed to the next question)
Would you mind having your buddy around with your date?
a) Yes (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) No (Then ask your buddy for advice, afterall what are buddies for?)![]()
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