He did it again and again and again...
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Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you? -
just spread'em...simple as dat
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get a coin, one side is "Yes" and the other is "No" and flip.
before you do that, ask yourself if the side is "Yes" will you obey and do it?
Which side you will not obey, the "Yes" side or the "No" side.
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Give him a call..Listen to his reactions. After all, you will know what to do. : )
Sometimes..you just have to face it. Don't listen to what pple say anymore...face this once and for all. Spare him and you e troubles of thinking ""what shd i do""
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He got call me, but everytime he called he'll ask... I'll call only if you don't object and silence means consent okay? Budden I also never reply... den when he call I hung up...Originally posted by winning 11:Give him a call..Listen to his reactions. After all, you will know what to do. : )
Sometimes..you just have to face it. Don't listen to what pple say anymore...face this once and for all. Spare him and you e troubles of thinking ""what shd i do""
Cheers
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you got a masochistic loser, and a potential stalker on your hands ...
if you don't make a clean break and cut off all ties with him he'll continue wallowing in his misery and self-pity .... he probably likes it ....
so .... borrow one of your guy friends for a day, call him out, turn up to meet him with the chap, tell him to wake up from his idea, life is not a drama, and to Fxxx off and never pester you again, or you'll call the police or something ...
hopefully that'll wake him up .... but if you do nothing ... he'll just continue doing what he's doing ...
he's not in love with you really ... these sort of people, they're just in love with the idea of being in love .... -
If you do tat he'll definately go crazy.Originally posted by Fatum:you got a masochistic loser, and a potential stalker on your hands ...
if you don't make a clean break and cut off all ties with him he'll continue wallowing in his misery and self-pity .... he probably likes it ....
so .... borrow one of your guy friends for a day, call him out, turn up to meet him with the chap, tell him to wake up from his idea, life is not a drama, and to Fxxx off and never pester you again, or you'll call the police or something ...
hopefully that'll wake him up .... but if you do nothing ... he'll just continue doing what he's doing ...
he's not in love with you really ... these sort of people, they're just in love with the idea of being in love .... -
trust me ... he's not really crazy ....Originally posted by Ayukat:If you do tat he'll definately go crazy.
he's just one of those emotionally stunted individuals who's just in love with the idea of being in love .... he probably watched too much drama and read too much "qiong yau" or something .... he'll enjoy wallowing in self pity for a while, then move onto the next target ....
in anycase, it's unconceivable that the thread-starter should even consider such an individual eh ....
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He MIGHT really be crazy...Originally posted by Fatum:trust me ... he's not really crazy ....
he's just one of those emotionally stunted individuals who's just in love with the idea of being in love .... he probably watched too much drama and read too much "qiong yau" or something .... he'll enjoy wallowing in self pity for a while, then move onto the next target ....
in anycase, it's unconceivable that the thread-starter should even consider such an individual eh ....
But girl... ignoring him isn't the way to go... just tell him will ya? I know how much it sucks to be left hanging there in suspense... harbouring every little hope that I might actually have a certain someone as a partner. Although, I'm not as psychotic as he is...
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You should tell him how u feel towards him and be firm about it or else he will still harbour any more hopes to win your heart!!!Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you? -
U so sure he is those guy? what makes u sooo sure?Originally posted by Fatum:trust me ... he's not really crazy ....
he's just one of those emotionally stunted individuals who's just in love with the idea of being in love .... he probably watched too much drama and read too much "qiong yau" or something .... he'll enjoy wallowing in self pity for a while, then move onto the next target ....
in anycase, it's unconceivable that the thread-starter should even consider such an individual eh ....
come on, be fair to that guy too.
Maybe he is too freaking un-normal but still he is trying his best. -
He said never once he ever really chat with me, never really once he really went out with me... he told me it wasn't fair, because there's really nothing he can do now because I don't see him at all...
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Call him. Don't wait for him to all you.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:He got call me, but everytime he called he'll ask... I'll call only if you don't object and silence means consent okay? Budden I also never reply... den when he call I hung up...
Tell him to stop threating you, using mind blackmails. tell him if you wishes to go out with him, you will.
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sms him come to wallow in sgforum. plenty of aunt agony here to help him.
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Got Uncle Agnoy or not ar? LolxOriginally posted by Apollo_sg:sms him come to wallow in sgforum. plenty of aunt agony here to help him. -
You situation sounded alike. But in this case, I am the male one. Haiz. One thing which is different is that I wont Pester the gal.
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Someone from this forum mentioned that giving someone a chance is a priviledge. He should make the effort to prove himself worthy of being given a chance.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you?
But in your case you should not leave him hanging. I'd say "Be a man. Do the right thing" but your a girl. And girls tend to follow their complicated and complexed heart of theirs. Hence their decision making skills are, in my honest opinion, lacking in authority. Do what you think is right. -
yeah, be a man do the right thingOriginally posted by nullifi3d:Someone from this forum mentioned that giving someone a chance is a priviledge. He should make the effort to prove himself worthy of being given a chance.
But in your case you should not leave him hanging. I'd say "Be a man. Do the right thing" but your a girl. And girls tend to follow their complicated and complexed heart of theirs. Hence their decision making skills are, in my honest opinion, lacking in authority. Do what you think is right. -
Should I give in? Will you?
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don like don give damnOriginally posted by stupid_galz1987:Should I give in? Will you? -
Here's what to do:
First, are you interested in him?
a) Yes (What are you waiting for?)
b) No (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
c) Maybe (Please proceed to the next question)
Is he detestable?
a) Yes (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
b) No, at least his actions did not irritate me as of yet. (Please proceed to the next question)
Are you okay being alone with guys and is capable of defending yourself should the need arises?
a) Yes (Then, why don't give yourself a chance?)
b) No, or at least I'm not sure of it. (Please proceed to the next question)
Do you have close buddies you can trust?
a) No (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) Yes (Please proceed to the next question)
Would you mind having your buddy around with your date?
a) Yes (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) No (Then ask your buddy for advice, afterall what are buddies for?)
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This is from Dummy's Guide to Choosing a Partner? Or Matchmaking 101?Originally posted by Nelstar:Here's what to do:
First, are you interested in him?
a) Yes (What are you waiting for?)
b) No (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
c) Maybe (Please proceed to the next question)
Is he detestable?
a) Yes (Then why don't you just reject him flatly?)
b) No, at least his actions did not irritate me as of yet. (Please proceed to the next question)
Are you okay being alone with guys and is capable of defending yourself should the need arises?
a) Yes (Then, why don't give yourself a chance?)
b) No, or at least I'm not sure of it. (Please proceed to the next question)
Do you have close buddies you can trust?
a) No (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) Yes (Please proceed to the next question)
Would you mind having your buddy around with your date?
a) Yes (Ok, just reject him flatly saying you're not going to be comfortable with him around)
b) No (Then ask your buddy for advice, afterall what are buddies for?)
Anyway... threadstarter... don't leave a man hanging... there are some crazy things that guys would do for a girl. So crazy... it even scares other guys. Stop making excuses and tell him already! -
you should give a chance to this mr faithful I also did the same thing like him be faithful but sometimes it don't pay off
give him a chance lah will not die right -
he act until so cham...
i noe my fren kena yr prob..
she had a few guys stalkin her even .. not really stalkin but INSIST on walkin her home, den want 2 come into her house dat kinda thing.
one day her mother even scolded a guy and went 2 his house to return some strange things he left in the postbox. den the mother also scolded him when he called. den he stopped. lol
some cases e guy can't take rejection ... better b careful.
i tink u have 2 give him a straight answer.
i dunno much, i can't give much advice... but pls b very careful w yr words.. he sounds like a v. v. EMOTIONAL guy leh.
take care n gd luck!