He did it again and again and again...
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I can tell u dun like him at all, not even in 100 years.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you?
So jus tell him flatly: dun waste his time and urs. -
OMFG!!
U`ve got a psychopath stalker at hand...
Judging from the threats that he can make to you abt waiting there til you come and calling you when u don return him a message, meaning consent..
It all boils down to prove that he can do lots of things which are much worse..
U better dont let him get hold of ur residential address or in anyway that he may find u. U may never know that he`s eyeing ur every move..
If u`re still single, my best suggestion to you is to get hold of a handsome GUY fren to pose for a day, then meet up with that fuking loser, boost ur Bf`s earnings and wealth, something to the extend that he may never reach.. and let him know that he will never haf a chance with you.
One other thing u can do is to change ur HP number..
it`s not too difficult rite?
If it`s the only link that connects the 2 of u all then it`ll be gone.
ask ur common frens not to give ur number away like that.
Probably, what u`ve done is correct, that is to ignore him totally,
If u deem fit, Never Return a message/call, for all, he may get the wrong idea that u need him.
Bless,
Babyboy
P.S if u need male models can contact me, i got a few nice looking frens for hire, comes in all genres.. haha jk lah -
Somehow, he sounds more like a stalker than a sincere guy who wants to woo you. The same thing happened to my teacher. What she did was get a few guys to go home with her. Those guys are actually her students. Then if the stalker comes up to her, she says need to tuition them because they are weak. After a few months, stalker gone.
Go out with a group of friends and then say got activities. Just do whatever to keep him off. Then off he will go, knowing that you are always super busy. But make sure your act is real enough. These guys are actually pretty smart. They can guess what you are thinking.
If you can't do that, just tell him plainly that you don't like him. How you going to phrase that I don't know. -
stalker? I hope you just talk to him once, and tell him straight in his face not to bother you anymore..Ask someone to accompany you when u go find him. And tell him in a stern, straight forward tone....
or just change your hp number..
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U realli tink change number got use meh? Sure got sure kuku go give him 1... and he can also hire PI lor...
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He got ask me before... y wun u even ask me to leave you alone?Originally posted by darknessfall:stalker? I hope you just talk to him once, and tell him straight in his face not to bother you anymore..Ask someone to accompany you when u go find him. And tell him in a stern, straight forward tone....
or just change your hp number.. 
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Just tell him straight lor.
He takes it as either yes or no.
It's sad but it will be better for him in the longer run.
If you give it , you will be pitying him , not loving him.
You will waste your time and hurt others more.
Why?
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stop stringing him along with non-answers if you don't like him.
but if u are unsure, the only way to be sure is to meet him.
damn... wat's so difficult? -
becos u like to play with his feelings.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:He got ask me before... y wun u even ask me to leave you alone? -
He just asked me, do you really want me to leave you alone?
But I never reply... -
just meet up with him.. u like him.. go with him.. u don't like him.. tell him no and that it'll never happen.. end it once and for all.. come on.. the longer u drag.. the deeper u're gonna hurt him.. im sure u don't want that to happen.. unless u find joy in hurting him.. that's all.. its plain simple as that.
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seriously speaking, i feel sorry for this guy, for he has falling in love wif a heartless creature like you. it seem that you have hanged up yourself and sell. i believe he deserve a better gal!
i believe what goes around will come around, there will be a day you will suffer the same fate as he doing right now. -
Then your fault lah. Since you never reply, he thought you want him to continue doing that.....Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:He just asked me, do you really want me to leave you alone?
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ok dude. the way u think is screwed up. i would expect an extremely sex hungry person too say that. get ur mind out of the gutter and grow up.Originally posted by chunyong:just spread'em...simple as dat -
and this brings me to another point. if he is stalking u, call the authorities cos most times, male stalkers get soooo obsessed with who they r stalking, that most times it ends up in rape or worse.
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just tell him to peace off and stop irritating the hell outta u....
not replying him will only leave him hanging in mid air = thinking that he still has a chance. -
he is indeed too emotional...........
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Okae...you got a few points there. I may be young...but i sure know how it feels to be ditched like that.Originally posted by Fatum:you got a masochistic loser, and a potential stalker on your hands ...
if you don't make a clean break and cut off all ties with him he'll continue wallowing in his misery and self-pity .... he probably likes it ....
so .... borrow one of your guy friends for a day, call him out, turn up to meet him with the chap, tell him to wake up from his idea, life is not a drama, and to Fxxx off and never pester you again, or you'll call the police or something ...
hopefully that'll wake him up .... but if you do nothing ... he'll just continue doing what he's doing ...
he's not in love with you really ... these sort of people, they're just in love with the idea of being in love ....
Man, you sure are cruel. If he has that kind of mental problem or something, then would he be like that for so long? And why only her? Why does he not give up and go on to tackle someone else?
I suggest you do what is best...what would you expect if you were the desperate guy?
Maybe u can give a date a try...if it just doesn't work out...then let him know...or you can give him a single test.
Do what Fatum suggested. See the guy's reaction. U decide the rest. -
Seriously, what is your problem? Why are you not giving him an answer if that is what he wants?
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yah pls dun b so cruel leh.
give him an answer.
u keep him waitin, he'll onli keep tinkin he has a chance.
u either gif it 2 him or u dun.
dis is as gd as leadin him on.
he can go crazy waitin leh.
mebbe he tinks u have sum feelings 4 him.
juz tell him straight lah.. he is too crazy abt chasin u 2 tink properly lah. -
In the 1st place, do you like him?
If Not, it isn't really heartless of you. It's more cruel to give him false hope, since he's the type who refuses to take No for an answer, & if you're the slightest bit nice to him, he'll think, "Oh, she cares for me afterall"
If you think you don't mind giving him a chance & date him, then perhaps you may tell him you wanna start off VERY SLOWLY as friends, & get to know him before deciding.
Honestly, if you wanna talk about heartless, you're alot less "heartless" than the girls who'll simply delete a message without reading, & who'll just blast him for being an irritant (especially since you've already rejected him before).
Your choice.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by stupid_galz1987:Don't know if anybody remembers me...
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170859
He did it again and again and again... but I didn't turn up... He keeps telling me how much he likes me, how long he waited and what he done, told me he just wanted to see me after all we haven't met for 1 year. Told he, he felt dead, told me I made him cried every night, how much I hurt him... many many many things...
But I never reply, not even once... he said he dunno what I was thinking...
Then last msg a few days ago was... If you don't want me, just say no, unless you don't even know...
I never reply... should I? Or rather will you? -
Disagree with you. Sure, the guy appears to be a "victim", but if he wants to bang his head against the wall, & the wall gets irritated & doesn't wanna feel the impact of that blockhead anymore, then it's the wall's perogative to give the guy's head a big bua lu ku.
Ok, seriously speaking, it can be really annoying to have someone who really refuses to give up. Ever experienced the irritation of a mosquito that keeps buzzing at your ear No matter how many times you flick it? After awhile, you just wanna kill it before it drives you mental...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by gr2012:Okae...you got a few points there. I may be young...but i sure know how it feels to be ditched like that.
Man, you sure are cruel. If he has that kind of mental problem or something, then would he be like that for so long? And why only her? Why does he not give up and go on to tackle someone else?
I suggest you do what is best...what would you expect if you were the desperate guy?
Maybe u can give a date a try...if it just doesn't work out...then let him know...or you can give him a single test.
Do what Fatum suggested. See the guy's reaction. U decide the rest. -
he might burn ur house
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oooooh dont say that.Originally posted by brother no space:he might burn ur house -
means u jian song lah, my 1st reply already gave u the solution "spread 'em'....dat will end it...for u and for him.Originally posted by stupid_galz1987:He just asked me, do you really want me to leave you alone?
But I never reply...