16 going 17...
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Same age as you bro... but your mentality sucks. To be honest. If you're are getting a GF just because "everyone else has it"... I really pity your partner-to-be.
I'm just like you... not in a relationship yet. Just to sidetrack abit, there's this girl i'm after. She knows I like her... and I heard from her friend that she once had a crush on me. But why isn't anything happening? Truth is, she told me she isn't ready. At that point, I realised... she is right! We aren't ready... she's too caught up with her life... i'm too slack with mine. I realised at my current status, I might not be able to dedicated wholely to her (Because i'm very dedicated to video gaming, though i would give it up for her if she asked). It just came upon me that... "Shit, I think it's abit too early". I still love her alot... and I know she knows it. We still keep in contact even thought I'm away from school and waiting for my results. We hardly see each other without school as a medium. She's taking her O levels so it'd be busy for her.
Anyway, I just hope you realise... when she comes... she comes. If she don't come... it means you are expecting too much... or you are sleeping. Don't get a GF just because your buddy has one. In fact, the life of solitude may not be as bad as you think...
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my first proper "unofficial" relationship at 21.
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hmmm.. i m 21 i haven been attached at all leh..Originally posted by Agenda:Cos I don't have like 100+ friends to call up on and the rest are always saying no or don't know and I feel that a gf can help share my problems and provide a good and understanding company
i tink it's not so bad. i didn't die or wat. i had a post on dis a few days ago n now i reallie tink dat u shld juz try 2 be patient?
besides.. paiseh ah.. but if all guys want a gf tinking she can be a SHRINk or sth 4 them i tink i'm damn happy 2 be single...
i noe frens, when u go 2 dem 4 a listening ear, it's different. like sum of my frens, they will b like "aiyah nvm lah .." but sum will listen ALL e way...... so maybe u juz need frens hu understand u better?
really having 100 plus frens 2 call up is nt dat great. when i was yr age, i had lots of frens.. but after i left jc i realised dat only a handful reallie reallie stuck on wif me..
nt every1 clicks wif every1. mebbe sum of yr current frens juz have diff priorities. mebbe sum have their own problems.
wateva it is, dun tink dat havin a gf will help u a lot leh.
e girl will b quite stressed i tink, at yr age... study first lah.
even I, hu was at 1st wonderin if i got prob becoz still no bf... tinks u shld juz wait patiently... .. so i hope dis helps...
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I am going 23 and i still dun have a gf.
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Thanks for all the replies
Once, I met this friend of my friend then I wanted to know her better.. Sway sway that day was with my friend from CHC then he tell me infatuation thing, So I was wondering how to know what is infatuation and sent by god
I mean she won't have the words "Sent by god to you, *insert name*" on her forehead -
Study first lah. Teenagers take relationship too causually nowadays. That's why stead and break up.Originally posted by Agenda:Went for a date for like 2 times and never got a gf.. Sad? Or normal? Seeing as how my peers have already stead and broke up so many times
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NICE...Originally posted by fudgester:So you believe that I have 100+ friends to call up on? You believe that every single friend I have will never turn me down when I ask them for help?
If you think that having a gf is a magic bullet that will cure all your problems, then you're dead wrong. I agree that we all seek companionship, but you should only have a girlfriend because you truly love her. Otherwise, you're just seeing her as nothing more than a pet Tamagotchi for your own amusement.
Women are more than just pet Tamagotchis. Grow up, be a little more mature, have a little patience, and the right woman will come sooner or later. -
they broke up so many times which mean they have more exp but many a time they wasted thier time and money and effort for this relationship look @ it in a positive wayOriginally posted by Agenda:Went for a date for like 2 times and never got a gf.. Sad? Or normal? Seeing as how my peers have already stead and broke up so many times
*sigh*