gf blues... i guess =/
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Hmm, relationship lasted like 7 months and still ongoing... kinda rocky though. really have to ask here .... heh..
well, here it goes...
gf who is quite spoilt and gets hooked on com... and uh.. yeah.. that...
now me... erm.
I don't know what to say, but ya.. here goes lol.. =x
whatever i do seem to be like a burden and a tough descision. like.. hmm..
let me pick a recent senario...
she called me on cny eve and uh, wanted me to chat with her.. at that time my family, grand parents and all, just finished our tradition of going to temples and pray.. then at that time we were settling down for roti prata. then she called me to call her. i did so. however, when the food came, i said i have to go, she refused... and uh, that dragged like 10 mins or so. so, soon enough, she got like fed up of me saying that i need to go, and saying no, she decided to just hang up on me. and i got a nice blast of "music" by my dad and grand parents.
this hanging up thing is kinda common.. anything she doesnt think that is favourable to her she just hang up the phone.. like when she does something wrong and i decide to talk to her about it.. she just do that. and irony, she wanted me to give a farewell everytime we are to end calls...
current situation...
she thinks that we have not been trusting each other, however, which is untrue of course... i told her what i know, my everyday and all, what she gives is a occasional "its not my business" reply, while the other way round, i have never doubted her words. CURRENTLY!!! she's kinda flared up and threatened to uh, cease the relationship..
yeah, need some thoughts on this... maybe include why i keep giving and get nothing in return... =/ -
Yr gf is not mature in a r/s. Go get another one!
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ditto... or talk to her seriously about how u feel lor... if she still cannot accept... then too bad...Originally posted by zenden9:Yr gf is not mature in a r/s. Go get another one! -
hmm.. asking for solutions to.. uh.. solve.. not.. uh.. run away?
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Breaking with her is also a way to solve the problem.From what u post,she sounds unreasonable. Unreasonable gal r VERY HARD to handle.If u don have what it takes,don't attempt!Originally posted by xloongx:hmm.. asking for solutions to.. uh.. solve.. not.. uh.. run away? -
ah.. then ways to handle unreasonable girls =/
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Don try..they will only ruin yr lifes! I bet u r quite young,it is still ok to move on without her and find a one that really cares for and understands u. A lot of times,people r afraid to move on and cling on to their old ones,cos they r afraid not able to find another one.Have confident on yrself.Breaking off is a loss to her and a gain for u.If u r gd(not in terms of look and wealth but character),u r able to another better one.Originally posted by xloongx:ah.. then ways to handle unreasonable girls =/ -
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man that sux.. what redeeming factors does she have? why dont wanna break up?
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just simply not mature enough I suppose
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I could say that I more or less like her a lot.. and yeah.. don't really feel like letting go.. in the sense.. lol =x
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I could say that I more or less like her a lot.. and yeah.. don't really feel like letting go.. in the sense.. lol =x
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is she pretty?looks shdn't play too much of a role in ur decisionOriginally posted by xloongx:I could say that I more or less like her a lot.. and yeah.. don't really feel like letting go.. in the sense.. lol =x -
a gf who doesnt let you eat delicious roti prata is not the one for you!!
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Well girls are like that. im a girl myself so i cannot say that ur gf is wrong. My relationship oredi for 2yrs 5mths and there's a lot of shit we do to each other.but in this situation, having dinner with folks is much more important than toking to your gf.. it does not mean ur gf is immature. Its unfair to say that. Putting down the phone is common among girls coz WE expect you to call us back you see.. Hmm... but that doesn't happen does it?
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i cant stand it , when de beyatches hang de fone on me .
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i bet she is. there are many other pretty girls around, let go of her quickly.Originally posted by beavan:is she pretty?looks shdn't play too much of a role in ur decision -
seriously, what a spoilt bitch
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Originally posted by unknown_member:
u are like that too doesn't mean that it's correct. two wrongs doesn't make it a right.
Well girls are like that. im a girl myself so i cannot say that ur gf is wrong. My relationship oredi for 2yrs 5mths and there's a lot of shit we do to each other.but in this situation, having dinner with folks is much more important than toking to your gf.. it does not mean ur gf is immature. Its unfair to say that. Putting down the phone is common among girls coz [b]WE expect you to call us back you see.. Hmm... but that doesn't happen does it? [/b]
my gf dun do that and my frens' gfs dun do that too. -
x2 lol... i can say that i am pretty mild tempered guy... haha but if a girl hang up on me, don't expect me to call her back immediately. it's only human nature to be pissed off after be hurt by someone you love.Originally posted by gUms:i cant stand it , when de beyatches hang de fone on me .
lol.. fortunately my gf is not that kind who likes to play hang up haha... -
If she really loves u, she wont be doing things that hurts u... Simple as that...
The way she treat u is hw much u mean to her.... If she is nt mature enuff to handle a relationship... Is time to end it before u urself gets deeper and cant take ur heart out of it in the end...
I once had such a gf... wah it was lyk hell on earth...
In the end break liao... Wah RELIEF!!!! lolx... haha but really la... Let it go before it is too late...
U either talk to her... she dun listen, dun change... *give her the boot* -
i wouldnt have a gf who hangs up on me either. hang up once, it's over gal.
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How old are the both of you...?Originally posted by xloongx:Hmm, relationship lasted like 7 months and still ongoing... kinda rocky though. really have to ask here .... heh..
well, here it goes...
gf who is quite spoilt and gets hooked on com... and uh.. yeah.. that...
now me... erm.
I don't know what to say, but ya.. here goes lol.. =x
whatever i do seem to be like a burden and a tough descision. like.. hmm..
let me pick a recent senario...
she called me on cny eve and uh, wanted me to chat with her.. at that time my family, grand parents and all, just finished our tradition of going to temples and pray.. then at that time we were settling down for roti prata. then she called me to call her. i did so. however, when the food came, i said i have to go, she refused... and uh, that dragged like 10 mins or so. so, soon enough, she got like fed up of me saying that i need to go, and saying no, she decided to just hang up on me. and i got a nice blast of "music" by my dad and grand parents.
this hanging up thing is kinda common.. anything she doesnt think that is favourable to her she just hang up the phone.. like when she does something wrong and i decide to talk to her about it.. she just do that. and irony, she wanted me to give a farewell everytime we are to end calls...
current situation...
she thinks that we have not been trusting each other, however, which is untrue of course... i told her what i know, my everyday and all, what she gives is a occasional "its not my business" reply, while the other way round, i have never doubted her words. CURRENTLY!!! she's kinda flared up and threatened to uh, cease the relationship..
yeah, need some thoughts on this... maybe include why i keep giving and get nothing in return... =/ -
Originally posted by unknown_member:
U r another immature gal.Don't teach other the wrong thing,ok! U want us to call u back? Wait another decade,maybe we will consider!
Well girls are like that. im a girl myself so i cannot say that ur gf is wrong. My relationship oredi for 2yrs 5mths and there's a lot of shit we do to each other.but in this situation, having dinner with folks is much more important than toking to your gf.. it does not mean ur gf is immature. Its unfair to say that. Putting down the phone is common among girls coz [b]WE expect you to call us back you see.. Hmm... but that doesn't happen does it? [/b] -
Maybe your horoscope isnt compatible with her. Ask Mcsquare for the compatibility chart.
