gf blues... i guess =/

• yuko-ogura

  3 Feb 06, 09:52

  Originally posted by xloongx:

  Hmm.. bleh.. So more or less... a talk... then if things doesn't work really out.. then break =/ ... Hmm.. okay...

  dun get upset over the breakup though.
  
  u still have us..ur AA buddies around.
• Xcert

  3 Feb 06, 10:03

  Originally posted by unknown_member:
  [b]WE expect you to call us back you see.. Hmm... but that doesn't happen does it? [/b]

  it doesnt.At least for me.
• AshedAnna

  3 Feb 06, 10:57

  Im a girl...Can say she's immature...if you keep showing that you allow yourself to take in such crap, it won't end. Look at me relationship. Same. One year plus and I did everything for him. Look what happened. Now everything is my fault, he must always get what he wants...blah blah blah. Same same la. Must be strong and be firm and tell her you won't take it. If she keeps threatening to stop the r/s because of her stupid attitude, might as well let her. She probably just threatening u to scare u to submission. My two cents worth.
• usck

  3 Feb 06, 11:01

  how old are both of u?
• smudgey

  3 Feb 06, 11:03

  my only advice is to try to sit down with her and try and have a heart to heart talk with her....
  
  Try and find out why she's acting this way. what's the real problem. often when there's a problem in the relationship, and it's not talked about or resolved, the gal will be just unhappy... so no matter what happens she will still see the bad in the situation and be pissed....
  
  Talk to her.
• drx

  3 Feb 06, 11:53

  Originally posted by xloongx:

  Hmm, relationship lasted like 7 months and still ongoing... kinda rocky though. really have to ask here .... heh..
  
  well, here it goes...
  
  gf who is quite spoilt and gets hooked on com... and uh.. yeah.. that...
  
  now me... erm.
  
  I don't know what to say, but ya.. here goes lol.. =x
  
  whatever i do seem to be like a burden and a tough descision. like.. hmm..
  let me pick a recent senario...
  
  she called me on cny eve and uh, wanted me to chat with her.. at that time my family, grand parents and all, just finished our tradition of going to temples and pray.. then at that time we were settling down for roti prata. then she called me to call her. i did so. however, when the food came, i said i have to go, she refused... and uh, that dragged like 10 mins or so. so, soon enough, she got like fed up of me saying that i need to go, and saying no, she decided to just hang up on me. and i got a nice blast of "music" by my dad and grand parents.
  
  this hanging up thing is kinda common.. anything she doesnt think that is favourable to her she just hang up the phone.. like when she does something wrong and i decide to talk to her about it.. she just do that. and irony, she wanted me to give a farewell everytime we are to end calls...
  
  current situation...
  
  she thinks that we have not been trusting each other, however, which is untrue of course... i told her what i know, my everyday and all, what she gives is a occasional "its not my business" reply, while the other way round, i have never doubted her words. CURRENTLY!!! she's kinda flared up and threatened to uh, cease the relationship..
  
  yeah, need some thoughts on this... maybe include why i keep giving and get nothing in return... =/

  What did you give? honestly?
  
  If you really like a girl, giving her your best and getting nothing in return is normal.
  
  There must be a reason for her to react like this.
  
  Could this be one?
  
  1) she stick too close to you?
  
  2) cling to close to you and always want to be around you until you cannot breath.
  
  3) you do not talk to her often until she got to call you? And when she calls you you only talk to her around 10 mins only.
  
• BadzMaro

  3 Feb 06, 15:25

  How old is she ?