**Sry I need to let it out**
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Thanks...I'm sorry I feel really crappy....
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ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right? -
Haiz... I wanna be a monk. Nobody loves me.Originally posted by AshedAnna:ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right?
Ai yi ge ren hao nan, ke shi zui tong ku de shi mei ran ta zhi dao ni xi huan ta... -
Ur heart seem to sink in pain with emotions and committent that burdens you all this while.
U r just enduring for sake of enduring. How much can u endure furthur? How often can you see each other when he is in the army, wont your r/s begin to drift apart?
The possible reason that u r still with him which i deduce is because u believe he will change with you. How confident can make him change?
Ask urself, will he bring u happiness now and in the future, look in the long run. -
just do it.. saying too much will help no one.Originally posted by AshedAnna:ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right?
Its the effort that counts.
I am a guy, trust me i know how it feels to be loved.
His ex maybe beautiful but you can be more kind and gentle then her.
Thats the key to winning him back from her. -
I wrote it down here to seek opinions...So what is it like to be loved?
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You were pregnant for 5 months...? How long did you hold on to your pregnancy when you went back to Melb? The child has been aborted?Originally posted by AshedAnna:(yes it is) I got p. in Singapore..during the hols the kids come back to their own countries...then I held on to the pregnancy all the way till I got back to Melb and for in total 5 months... -
probably you could put off this engagement first..
n have a talk with him calmly over things?
i mean...no point dragging on,and you had
to keep on thinkin about whats goin on in his head...
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Ai yi ge ren hao nan, ke shi zui tong ku de shi mei ran ta zhi dao ni xi huan ta.
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yeah i had twin boys. I was intending to keep them. But the doctors in aussie told me one of their heads was having some wierd growth or something...i still have the ultrasounds with me...just a little wierd growth thats all...yeah i aborted them at 5 months... fuck
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*looks around for Mc*
say, u should read this book
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/pat patOriginally posted by AshedAnna:yeah i had twin boys. I was intending to keep them. But the doctors in aussie told me one of their heads was having some wierd growth or something...i still have the ultrasounds with me...just a little wierd growth thats all...yeah i aborted them at 5 months... fuck
must have been real harsh on you. -
juz vent all ur frustration here ba ...... dont keep inside .. u will feel better
cheers ..
both of you need some time to cool down .... -
So are both of you married yet...? Better THINK TWICE about it... No harm putting everything ON HOLD for as long as you like if everything's still not sky clear...?Originally posted by AshedAnna:ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right? -
most guys wont keep their ex pics eh..maybe he hasnt moved on yet? Anyway, problem lies in him, not youOriginally posted by AshedAnna:ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right? -
5 months~!! Cheer up worx. That's why we are at Aunt Agony
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yeah not only her pics..her presents too. he throws my presents around and keeps hers nicely. aaaa.
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WHAT?!!!!Originally posted by AshedAnna:yeah not only her pics..her presents too. he throws my presents around and keeps hers nicely. aaaa.
actually my bf did that to me too...but i juz tore all of the pics out (he n his stupid ex)..haha -
Truth is, ur not that important to himOriginally posted by AshedAnna:yeah not only her pics..her presents too. he throws my presents around and keeps hers nicely. aaaa. -
i think hes like takin you for granted.
why not you juz disappeared for a few days and c whats his reaction?
or juz don ans his calls n things...n don initiate to call him n stuff?
i admit this is not very good advice but i might do that if i were u.
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Love is not necessarily found in a person you so much desires, as bone is not necessarily found in a hole you constantly dig... If it's not there, it's simply not there... No matter how deep you dig.Originally posted by AshedAnna:I wrote it down here to seek opinions...So what is it like to be loved?
Your experience for love relationship is limited. And somehow you're limiting him. I simply can't help but to think it negatively? From the way you acted.. He reacted.. The period you've both been together... His past choice...
Sorry to intrude this, but are you one of rather high sexual desire? As in when you were with him in the past...? I reckon there should have been much engagements...? How is your sexual relationship with him like now...? 'Hot' in the beginning...? For quite a while..? Did things changed after you left for Melb's studies? When you come back..? Now..? Did things seem to turn 'cold' from any point on....?
When you were at Melb studying... He was in Singapore? How long had you been in Melb without him? When were both of you engaged...?
Somewhere within your posts... You did mentioned that he had 'stand up for you' and you can trust him... When did that happened? Can you tell us exactly what happened to makes you say that?
Once again.. What's his horoscope? His age?
Hmm.. Are both of you staying together or something like that now...?
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Hmm... You think that would help?Originally posted by AshedAnna:ok..here's what im going to do...
1)shut up from now
2) Make his weekends as happy and beautiful as they can be
maybe astime goes by we'll get better. I just saw his ex's pictures...shes very pretty..but u know what...maybe her looks gave her an extra bonus..buti should be something better right? -
hey thats a gd idea for herOriginally posted by Pommes frites:i think hes like takin you for granted.
why not you juz disappeared for a few days and c whats his reaction?
or juz don ans his calls n things...n don initiate to call him n stuff?
i admit this is not very good advice but i might do that if i were u. 
see if he gets worried..if he dont...well.... 
but if he did get worried use that opportunity to talk to him bout the state of yr r/ship? -
AshedAnna, I'm going to be sharp and sweet here. You really need to leave this guy of yours for good. I don't see you being loved in this relationship of yours and I can't imagine your future if you decided to hold on to him for the sake of the past.
Listen to your inner voice and dump him when you have the chance to do so. I hope a better guy will cross your path soon and you'll be so thankful for this decision that you've made.
Good luck and for the sake of your parents, you deserves better.
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Dear Anna,
I read your 1st post regarding your ex and your pregnancy last time.. and I told you that I think you shouldn't be with him...
After reading this thread, I still think the same.
If you don't mind, I would like to talk to you through PM. =D
Regards,
Papergirl