Why men like that???
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Escapist attitude?
Perhaps it would be good Not to whack all men just like that. Some do make the effort to address & resolve a problem with their partners...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by so_what:Ppl keep saying it is hard to understand women, i thk men are the ones !!! Dunno y men tend to avoid if they kena problems in r/s e.g if gals take intiative - they avoid, if gals rejected them , they avoid... @£$%^& is it becoz of BIG FAT ego??? Men are really IDIOTS !!!
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It's true, but sometimes men just took TOO LONG to reply...sort of wasting gal's qing chun n u know gals normally are willing to wait...Originally posted by Tier:ya I also think that the man I know likes to avoid when theres a problem. like pretend nothing has happen. I think because they just wanna be happy and dun like to be troubled by little things that they dun know how to solve.
I assume maybe by ignoring the problem, it is consider solved to them. emotional problems are conceal, avoided and never talk about, but if its some technical problems, they will be more than willing to help you happily. cause they like to feel useful and able to help but not helpless and unable to answer your question. I am too wondering why men dun talk about their emotional feeling, I feel very frustrated about it too. but no choice to accept this fact. sometimes maybe they do talk about it but firstly they need to think about it for a long time first...
Well, as for others who say me overgeneralised, tat's ur opinion..i got REAL examples, i dun hav to spurt out the details, not jus from 1 or 2 guys -
Originally posted by so_what:It's true, but sometimes men just took TOO LONG to reply...sort of wasting gal's qing chun n u know gals normally are willing to wait...
Well, as for others who say me overgeneralised, tat's ur opinion..i got REAL examples, i dun hav to spurt out the details, not jus from 1 or 2 guys
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I think every 4 weeks this happen..... hahahaha
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Everyone once a while.. a frustrated person of either male or female gender tends to lash out at the opposite sex. why ? Coz actually both gender are equally... stupid at times..
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Haha.....Feow Feow is a lady with sense and maturity. She often replies with sensible posts
Unlike pam or whoever dat is....if she's single, hope she remains that way permanently. Otherwise, pray that that unlucky guy with her leaves asap -
I also have many REAL examples that many men DO make the effort to address & resolve problems with their spouses, & Not just from 1 or 2 guys either what
FeowFeowOriginally posted by so_what:It's true, but sometimes men just took TOO LONG to reply...sort of wasting gal's qing chun n u know gals normally are willing to wait...
Well, as for others who say me overgeneralised, tat's ur opinion..i got REAL examples, i dun hav to spurt out the details, not jus from 1 or 2 guys -
Maybe...just maybe...and this is just a theory you understand...He JUST WANTS TO AVOID YOU?!Originally posted by so_what:Ppl keep saying it is hard to understand women, i thk men are the ones !!! Dunno y men tend to avoid if they kena problems in r/s e.g if gals take intiative - they avoid, if gals rejected them , they avoid... @£$%^& is it becoz of BIG FAT ego??? Men are really IDIOTS !!!
FFS! How much more hints must a man drop for a woman to bugger off?! -
Well - I want to know more about women and am generally interested in them. So when do we meet to do the deed?Originally posted by parn:...
Women need men who want to know more about them and be genuinely interested in them.
Just Joking. I would need a peekture first. -
Because men think, talk straight so what you say to them is taken straight. Most of the time, when women talk, it's straight alright but there's the other side of the coin where her deepest thoughts/feelings are which straight men aren't very good at guessing, ie liak bo kiew so they kiv while you suffer inside.
So when you're not happy and he asks why, tell him straight and bring him along to buy something you and him can afford n enjoy (like hot shoe, hot skirt - if diamond ring, you happy but he xing tong) that makes you two get over the problem asap and brings you two closer. You win and you look more stunning than ever to him.
No need to call or be called idiot.
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"Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret"
Being too diluted or opinated is always bad and not to mention jumping to hasty conclusions.
Thread starter should really look back and reflect as oppose to stereo typing all males. Its going to be equally unfair if we were to label all women as blood suckers who are out to scam guys rite? (Just an example not a opinion, pls dun flame me)
There's always 2 sides of things, so hopefully pple will attempt at least to look at both sides before making hasty commments. -
Some women here seem to be really frustrated...i think we should first look at ourselves before we judge others. If we dont see snow whites and tinkerbelles with amazing personalities of our own when we look into the mirror, we shouldnt expect others, in this case men to be all amazing as well shouldn't we? Anyways, thats my 2cents worth of advice.
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do women deserve such a good man? for being a hissy? always complaining, always throwing tantrums? try to pamper her and she just want to be difficult. pls la.Originally posted by parn:Men are evil, stupid and most of the times silly...I realised that.
They lacked personal conviction and they desire both guys and gals to look up to them. <- Can this actually be possible???
Quiet men aren't cool, they're just stupid. Loud and outspoken men aren't smart, they've no confidence in themselves. Bragging men aren't rich and powerful, they're just clueless about women. Funny men aren't exciting, they're really just dirty-minded.
Seriously, I pity those men and feels sorry for the women who raised them.
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yes! finally some logic!Originally posted by confusedlover:Some women here seem to be really frustrated...i think we should first look at ourselves before we judge others. If we dont see snow whites and tinkerbelles with amazing personalities of our own when we look into the mirror, we shouldnt expect others, in this case men to be all amazing as well shouldn't we? Anyways, thats my 2cents worth of advice.
if u want to look for a great life partner. look at yourself first. are you a going to be a great life partner for the other party?
anyway. i realise what the thread starter said is true. lol. guys tend to avoid the issue, and avoid the person they hv conflict with. i hv to admit that's me.
sometimes i just feel its pointless to talk. the problem sometimes is so obvious, nothing i say can really solve anything. and its better to just keep quiet than say something i regret. -
hmmm... men dun "talk" about problems so they keep quiet but women needs to talk over thingsOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:yes! finally some logic!
if u want to look for a great life partner. look at yourself first. are you a going to be a great life partner for the other party?
anyway. i realise what the thread starter said is true. lol. guys tend to avoid the issue, and avoid the person they hv conflict with. i hv to admit that's me.
sometimes i just feel its pointless to talk. the problem sometimes is so obvious, nothing i say can really solve anything. and its better to just keep quiet than say something i regret. tho this is fr the men fr mars, women fr venus book, it is quite true.
guess we all fall into the trap of generalizing/stereotype at one point or another. there are also nice men who are sensitive and caring, likewise there are also unreasonable women.. -
Funny topic
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Hi..i am a newb..hereOriginally posted by so_what:Ppl keep saying it is hard to understand women, i thk men are the ones !!! Dunno y men tend to avoid if they kena problems in r/s e.g if gals take intiative - they avoid, if gals rejected them , they avoid... @£$%^& is it becoz of BIG FAT ego??? Men are really IDIOTS !!!
may i ask, how do girls take initiative in r/s????
sometimes the initiative are very subtle ( little ) to make an effect?
How would he know if u r making an initiative in the first place?
Secondly...How do u reject them?....keeping quiet? no replying?
This may be out of context..but i would like to know this tihngs..
it keep my sanity in check
p.s. i would like to take an effort to understand bf making judgement -
let me ask u la..u say men are idiots..big fat ego/Originally posted by so_what:Ppl keep saying it is hard to understand women, i thk men are the ones !!! Dunno y men tend to avoid if they kena problems in r/s e.g if gals take intiative - they avoid, if gals rejected them , they avoid... @£$%^& is it becoz of BIG FAT ego??? Men are really IDIOTS !!!
if a boy reject a girl will the girl avoid the boy?.
lol...........................
men are easy to understand..
we dont like nagging...we want fotball..
we hate gals who alwasys ask u to go shopping..
*disclamir...refering to me only
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Men are idiots? Then women are retarded idiots.