Are you an Emotional Vampire?
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I happened to know of a recent case that took place to my good buddy and was quite horrified, though not surprised, by how sadistic, self absorbed and twisted ONE could be when love is in the picture. I seen this a couple of times; as the heart and mind had insidious theories, which was displayed through a series of vindictive behaviour and extremism.
It was incredible.... incredibly sick in the heart.
CloUdiSm record Emotional Vampires (EV). You are probably an EV if:
I) You react physically when quarrel happens. You grab, you assault, or anything that is physical, REGARDLESS of how 'gentle' that could be to you.
II) You display signs of possessiveness/MCP.
III) You always speak with emotional tone and tried drowning your other partner. Your emotions are extremely one-sided, especially when your love wants to leave the relationship. You will emotionally locked him/her down (Love cannot be forced upon another is something alien to you) and react in extreme emotions.
IV) You attempt to stalk, make massive phone calls that is being ignored and all the sort of thingy to get the attention of your fleeting Love. In short, you haunt your love ubiquitously.
V) You make threats of some sort, REGARDLESS of whether you will fulfill those threats.
VI) Your temper runs wild easily OR this intensity is suppressed within your emotions. Very intense person.
VII) You keep harbouring thoughts that you have some 'ways' to get him/her back to you and may/may not exploit them. Please note that these 'ways' may not succeed and usually lengthen the misery to the people involved.
VIII) You practice HEAVY selective perception and is terribly self absorbed.
IX) You have severe affliction in love, astrologically.
I was quite taken aback when the victim herself was asked if she could leave this sick-in-the-heart man (SITH) through her own means, since it was CLEAR that love was gone and the relationship had gone meaningless... she said she wouldn't succeed and would probably remain with him. Afterall, he may change one day. (The current situation is that someone was introduced into the picture and the victim had left SITH... something quite heartening to hear).
WTF!
What do you mean by 'wouldn't succeed'?
Why wouldn't anyone succeed in breaking up a person successfully? (Heavy progression/Transit regarding Saturn/Pluto influence affliction, Tarot Card - Devil showed sign of bondage).
I guess her Sun sign and got it right - Taurus... the most FIXED sign among the zodiac.
And the extremist SITH?... Scorpio...
*** To ALL:
Understand the essence of TRUE BEAUTY in Love.
In which FREEDOM and LIBERATION is a mark of higher wisdom.
To LOSE a relationship is nothing than to LOSE yourself.
When you have deviated in name of Love... this is NOT Love, but karmic transformation, test and challenge.
P.S: There are people here, IMHO, are at risk of being an EV. Don't degenerate.
Cheers -
This is great, a very informative article that will serve as a wake-up call to many of the forumites. Especially those who've tried to hound their exes over & over.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Yunhaier: I happened to know of a recent case that took place to my good buddy and was quite horrified, though not surprised, by how sadistic, self absorbed and twisted ONE could be when love is in the picture. I seen this a couple of times; as the heart and mind had insidious theories, which was displayed through a series of vindictive behaviour and extremism.
It was incredible.... incredibly sick in the heart.
CloUdiSm record Emotional Vampires (EV). You are probably an EV if:
I) You react physically when quarrel happens. You grab, you assault, or anything that is physical, REGARDLESS of how 'gentle' that could be to you.
II) You display signs of possessiveness/MCP.
III) You always speak with emotional tone and tried drowning your other partner. Your emotions are extremely one-sided, especially when your love wants to leave the relationship. You will emotionally locked him/her down (Love cannot be forced upon another is something alien to you) and react in extreme emotions.
IV) You attempt to stalk, make massive phone calls that is being ignored and all the sort of thingy to get the attention of your fleeting Love. In short, you haunt your love ubiquitously.
V) You make threats of some sort, REGARDLESS of whether you will fulfill those threats.
VI) Your temper runs wild easily OR this intensity is suppressed within your emotions. Very intense person.
VII) You keep harbouring thoughts that you have some 'ways' to get him/her back to you and may/may not exploit them. Please note that these 'ways' may not succeed and usually lengthen the misery to the people involved.
VIII) You have severe affliction in love, astrologically.
I was quite taken aback when the victim herself was asked if she could leave this sick-in-the-heart man (SITH) through her own means, since it was CLEAR that love was gone and the relationship had gone meaningless... she said she wouldn't succeed and would probably remain with him. Afterall, he may change one day. (The current situation is that someone was introduced into the picture and the victim had left SITH... something quite heartening to hear).
WTF!
What do you mean by 'wouldn't succeed'?
Why wouldn't anyone succeed in breaking up a person successfully? (Heavy progression/Transit regarding Saturn/Pluto influence affliction, Tarot Card - Devil showed sign of bondage).
I guess her Sun sign and got it right - Taurus... the most FIXED sign among the zodiac.
And the extremist SITH?... Scorpio...
*** To ALL:
Understand the essence of TRUE BEAUTY in Love.
In which FREEDOM and LIBERATION is a mark of higher wisdom.
To LOSE a relationship is nothing than to LOSE yourself.
When you have deviated in name of Love... this is NOT Love, but karmic transformation, test and challenge.
P.S: There are people here, IMHO, are at risk of being an EV. Don't degenerate.
Cheers -
And I thought 'Emotional vampires' holds a different meaning....?
But.... Never mind....
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I know of psychic vampires.
They can really suck the living shit out of people.
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What they do?Originally posted by charlize:I know of psychic vampires.
They can really suck the living shit out of people. -
n i thout i am v emotional person...
glad to know tt im still not tt bad..
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Hmm... I've seen a guy like that. He was talking really loud on a payphone in Loyang Poiny, most probably to his girlfriend going, "You want me to die, is it? I can show you right now! GF: something something"
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i think tt's emotional blackmail..Originally posted by hyperactivechatterbox:Hmm... I've seen a guy like that. He was talking really loud on a payphone in Loyang Poiny, most probably to his girlfriend going, "You want me to die, is it? I can show you right now! GF: something something" -
Originally posted by Devil1976:And I thought 'Emotional vampires' holds a different meaning....?
But.... Never mind.... " 
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Cause your a cancer?Originally posted by hopy:n i thout i am v emotional person...
glad to know tt im still not tt bad..
Cheers -
y is this thread in AA?topic more towards LOA area liao
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Merry Meet Hopy Sweetie,Originally posted by hopy:n i thout i am v emotional person...
glad to know tt im still not tt bad..
Well you definitely don't qualify to be an EV. Hahaha Emotional at times perhaps its common & understandable.
Blessed Be,
Oceanos -
Merry Meet Devil1976,Originally posted by Devil1976:And I thought 'Emotional vampires' holds a different meaning....?
But.... Never mind.... "
I am sure you are very experienced in dealings with them. Natural attractant you are perhaps. Hahaha
Blessed Be,
Oceanos -
I think I have some of the tendencies...and even when I check my astrological reading oso it says so...that I am a very intense person when it comes to emotions, and it takes me years to forget someone I once used to love deeply.
I am a Capricorn by Sun sign, Scorpio by Moon and Venus
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hmm...Originally posted by FeowFeow:This is great, a very informative article that will serve as a wake-up call to many of the forumites. Especially those who've tried to hound their exes over & over.
FeowFeow -
wad bout gemini?
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This thread becomes a horoscope thread.
So sad and rare to see quite a serious message from yunnie, downplayed.
Cheers -
no leh..i thought the horoscope played a big part in it..Originally posted by M©+square:This thread becomes a horoscope thread.
So sad and rare to see quite a serious message from yunnie, downplayed.
Cheers
cause she guessed the sign just by hearing the info..
so i thought maybe horoscope is involved lohz. -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:This is great, a very informative article that will serve as a wake-up call to many of the forumites. Especially those who've tried to hound their exes over & over.
FeowFeow
Feow...am I showing signs of it?? -
Scorpio and Taurus? I thought it should be ok. Water and earth.
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From the way it's put.. I guess that makes everyone of us EVs..
Com'on.. Everyone of us will dream of getting your lost love back somehow.. Unless of cos the couple din really part on the best of terms.. -
HOI!
Everytime I talk about this, you hor, will think I'm talking about you! *bonks bonks bonks*
There's a DIFFERENCE, & I'm NOT talking about anyone specific. Your case is: she STILL wants to see you. She STILL has feelings for you. It's Not the case for everyone. There're some exes who DO NOT wish to see the person anymore, wants to cease contact, but these people persist in wanting to make the exes see them, that kinda thing.
Understand or Not?
I'm NOT talking about you lah! *bonks bonks bonks*
You pop up 1 more time when I'm talking about this kinda thing, & I'll broadcast your blonde moment to everyone
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:
Feow...am I showing signs of it?? -
Dreaming, but at the same time accepting the ex's decision to move on, & Dreaming, but NOT accepting & respecting the ex's decision to move on, are 2 different things, actually?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Misogynist:From the way it's put.. I guess that makes everyone of us EVs..
Com'on.. Everyone of us will dream of getting your lost love back somehow.. Unless of cos the couple din really part on the best of terms.. -
Originally posted by OCEANOS:
I no blood nor emotionals for the vampires to suck!
[b]Merry Meet Devil1976,
I am sure you are very experienced in dealings with them. Natural attractant you are perhaps. Hahaha
Blessed Be,
Oceanos[/b] -
Wah piang...I never say you are talking about me lah!!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:HOI!
Everytime I talk about this, you hor, will think I'm talking about you! *bonks bonks bonks*
There's a DIFFERENCE, & I'm NOT talking about anyone specific. Your case is: she STILL wants to see you. She STILL has feelings for you. It's Not the case for everyone. There're some exes who DO NOT wish to see the person anymore, wants to cease contact, but these people persist in wanting to make the exes see them, that kinda thing.
Understand or Not? I'm NOT talking about you lah! *bonks bonks bonks*
You pop up 1 more time when I'm talking about this kinda thing, & I'll broadcast your blonde moment to everyone
FeowFeow
I only ask innocently if I'm showing signs of it mah cause I dun wanna become an EV lor!!!
Oy oy...what blonde monent lah.
Aiyo...all the baluku on my head liao lah!!! *PAIN*