Is it right or wrong?

• Devil1976

  15 Feb 06, 16:25

  Hmm..
• confusedlover

  15 Feb 06, 16:31

  Why would he cry if im only thanking him for the flowers?
• babymac13

  15 Feb 06, 17:24

  
  In my opinion, a fling started out before a relationship is diffcult judgement to know if his feeling is true to you or according to what you said, he's just using you as a subsitute for his previous relationship.
  
  
• confusedlover

  16 Feb 06, 16:24

  we made out and almost did it. i feel like a freaking SLUT !
• FeowFeow

  16 Feb 06, 17:07

  Hi Confused Lover,
  
  Sorry, I know this may sound abit sarcastic, but I'm really afraid of giving advice to people who're just trolling.
  
  Your profession is a psycHologist, Not psycologist.
  
  Given your profession, you're very learned. Is the spelling without a "H" american or something?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by confusedlover:

  Psycologists are always in question my dear...he for one is pretty unstable due to the fact that he had rough past relationships. In a way, mentally abused. He is improving...mentally, but that also means that he is constantly changing at which degree i do not clearly know. He may be a maniac one moment and a sweet person during the other. My job is a hazard in a way. Psycologists do get attacked by their patientes if u have heard enough.. heh.. so if i let this relationship happen...if it topples, it may be dangerous from then on. Its risky but i think i do love him greatly. Thats why we made out in the car in the first place dont u think? Yes i have feelings for him. Yes i did it because i wanted to be close to him but up till now. i still dont know what his reason for making out with me for is. He is paying me per visit by the way. so i assume he is not treating me nice for discounts for consultation or anything.

• Yunhaier

  16 Feb 06, 21:12

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  Hi Confused Lover,
  
  Sorry, I know this may sound abit sarcastic, but I'm really afraid of giving advice to people who're just trolling.
  
  Your profession is a psycHologist, Not psycologist.
  
  Given your profession, you're very learned. Is the spelling without a "H" american or something?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  X2.
  
  I was JUST about to type my essay.
  
  Cheers
• chunyong

  16 Feb 06, 21:20

  Originally posted by confusedlover:

  Psycologists are always in question my dear...he for one is pretty unstable due to the fact that he had rough past relationships. In a way, mentally abused. He is improving...mentally, but that also means that he is constantly changing at which degree i do not clearly know. He may be a maniac one moment and a sweet person during the other. My job is a hazard in a way. Psycologists do get attacked by their patientes if u have heard enough.. heh.. so if i let this relationship happen...if it topples, it may be dangerous from then on. Its risky but i think i do love him greatly. Thats why we made out in the car in the first place dont u think? Yes i have feelings for him. Yes i did it because i wanted to be close to him but up till now. i still dont know what his reason for making out with me for is. He is paying me per visit by the way. so i assume he is not treating me nice for discounts for consultation or anything.

  let ur heart rule, not ur head....i mean when it comes to love.
• nuchio

  16 Feb 06, 21:51

  gut feeling tells me that you made all this up.
  
  you are a psychologist, you cannot spell it??
  
  also, the first rule for any counsellor, healer, teacher, pyschologist etc is NEVER GET EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED WITH THE OTHER PERSON....
  
  you are out.
• dokono

  16 Feb 06, 23:14

  Originally posted by confusedlover:

  You are freaking me out man. I cant be so fearful. I have to make that call. Make things clear. Keeping quiet and letting him have his way is not going to be fair to me in the long run right?
  

  what issit that he did that is so appealing to u?
• Red Anchovy

  16 Feb 06, 23:40

  Confused??? you shouldn't be. He is your patient, but once you start to have a relationship with him it is just common sense that you stop treating him. Refer him to someone else for his sickness and you can decide for yourself if you really want to have a personal relationship with him, unless you decide to marry him, then it's ok for the wife to treat the husband, but then again they do go for second opinions too.
• falling_stars

  17 Feb 06, 08:24

  Originally posted by confusedlover:

  we made out and almost did it. i feel like a freaking SLUT !

  made out means u did it alreai mah?? or not?!?!
  
  or jux heavy petting??
• coffeeortea

  17 Feb 06, 08:54

  surely a psychologist will have the slightest idea how to go about this?
  
  this is like me telling tiger woods how to play golf. lol, no offence but why dont you consult your fellow psychology colleagues. you can try writing emails to them anonymously and asking them for their opinion and etc.
• coffeeortea

  17 Feb 06, 08:56

  Originally posted by confusedlover:

  we made out and almost did it. i feel like a freaking SLUT !

  you dont sound like a psychologist, you sound like a wannabe
• DriftingGuy

  17 Feb 06, 09:29

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Hmm..

  Sounds genuine lei
• FeowFeow

  17 Feb 06, 09:36

  
  
  I'm really the worst person identifying trolls, but I just found it kinda strange that a psychologist can't spell his/her own profession
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:
  
  
  X2.
  
  I was [b]JUST about to type my essay.
  
  Cheers [/b]

• Devil1976

  17 Feb 06, 11:28

  Originally posted by DriftingGuy:

  Sounds genuine lei

  Chances are... It's not.
  
  I won't state my reason(s) though, it just allows them to tell better lies next time round...