Its over.. shes gone, Im dying.. *Ode to all nice guys*
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Ouch..it hurts...But nice...thumbs up 2...haha
I always hear nice guys lamenting about not getting the girls they want because they are simply too nice. The question is, nice guys LAMENT about how nice they are without analysizing what's wrong with them.
[b]How nice is nice... before you become foolish?
If a salesman does aggressive sales tactics which coerced you into buying his product and having you regret a minute later, whose fault would it be?
Similarly, if you foolishly allow a woman to manipulate you, whose fault would it be?
If you desire someone who could appreciate the real you, find someone who actually does and NOT someone who doesn't find any interest in your 'brand' and rant how nice you are and wonder why would she go for 'inferior' brand. You could continuously attempt to give generous discount, but ultimately, you will bleed in your accounts.
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was that suppose to make him feel better?Originally posted by BadzMaro:I know what u mean SnowGiant.. i FEEEEEL YOU! But i feel that YunHaier just busted a cap in your knee..
I know how u feel cause i eat nice guys like u for breakfast. I hear chicks talk about these 'NICE' guys.. i respect u guys.. thats why i show mercy upon you all.Just to be fair n that karma wont bit a big chunk outta my ass.
Anyways there is the good and there is the bad.. n i believe you will recieve the end of ur bargain later in life thats all. Just do what u do.. nice guys end up last but with certain rewards. Just that you cant see it yet. U dun need to experience evil to know evil. Coz sometimes once u experienced evil... you'll already be dead. And Honestly ? The world needs more nice guys then the scums and asshole. I admit.. i am the scum of the earth and can go as low as the snake hugging the ground to get what i want.
*past SnowGiants* back.. dun be such a loser.. there are many other losers out there too. -
See you down there, i had something much unendurable, maybe we can become good friends in the next world we both are moving on to. May God have mercy on our souls for what a tough life we had. Hence i shall bid farewell too, people here have been nice and i am utmost greatful, God Bless you all.
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Be nice but dont be stupid
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Live strong and live long.
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nice man...you saiod what all of us are dying to express...
My friend, he is a complete jerk...and he is also a hit with the chicks.
Boo. -
dat reminds me of this group of gals toking, couldn't help overhearing.. they were toking about some guy.. den make fun.. den say actually he not bad la.. but.. den list down all his bad points, make some jokes, laugh laugh. farking noisy. poor guy though.
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it's not surprising that some gals actually delight at the plight of some ''nice guy'' after playing aorund with his feelings. They do exist.Originally posted by Ito_^:dat reminds me of this group of gals toking, couldn't help overhearing.. they were toking about some guy.. den make fun.. den say actually he not bad la.. but.. den list down all his bad points, make some jokes, laugh laugh. farking noisy. poor guy though. -
Nice guys?Where do they keep them?locked up in the zoo?I personally haven't encountered any geninue nice guy unless u count those who are at ur a beck and call for a month or so then start revealing their queer antics...
Mayb i shd start another thread with a new "tribute to the nice girls".
No offense to yo all self-professed nice guys though.I wistfully await the day I encounter one specimen that truely lives up to the name.
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Can u give me ur definition of a ''nice guy''?Originally posted by sqully:Nice guys?Where do they keep them?locked up in the zoo?I personally haven't encountered any geninue nice guy unless u count those who are at ur a beck and call for a month or so then start revealing their queer antics...
Mayb i shd start another thread with a new "tribute to the nice girls".
No offense to yo all self-professed nice guys though.I wistfully await the day I encounter one specimen that truely lives up to the name. -
Nice guys are not meant for dating, they are meant to be married, when the girl decides so!!!
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The same goes to nice girls.
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I have not slept properly for the past 26 hours, so dont mind me
if I dont remember who is who..
but I do appreciate all the kind responses and the replies you all
have given me.. but you are not in my shoes, you cant feel wat
i am feeling either.
I feel.. lost.. numbed, and sometimes the pain shoots back into
my heart.. or watever is left of it.. and i have been stoning on
my windowstill for hours.. i stoned for.. 7 hours? I have yet eaten
anything.. i dont feel hungry.. nor thirsty.. my mind blanked most
of the time..
i still have the set of painkillers... 50 of them, mixed with 20 synflex..
stolen from my sis.. dunno will die properly if i swallow 70 of them..
will i even die.. ? dunno..
but then again, i tried to tink it positively, no use.. i cant even think
straight.
you guys really tried.. but failed le ba.. i still dun get it..
watever it is.. really, maybe im just not suited to be on earth anyway..
the pain is too great for me to bear... how can any girl be so harsh to
show you mms pics of her and another guy hugging jus like tat..
and added.. "i tink we shld not be together le ba.. we are still
friends..
" smiley face at the end...? wtf? break up mus go hug
other guy ah....
I told her i feel like dying.. she said "oh, dont jump off the building ar..
or else next day auntie will wash like siao de.. die also dun give people
trouble la.. ;p"
I was too hurt.. or even stunned to reply.. or rather, how to reply?
am i hurt? i dunno leh.. i dun even feel properly.. or is it hunger?
.... wat in the world... ... no logic... no sense.. im... wrong?
Im still locked in my room, i really mentalily shutting down le..
maybe i shld try to sleep.. for the 18th? 19th? time..
im tired.. im pretty sure.. my face looks crap.. maybe i shld sleep.. -
u noe wat..
ur just a sissy... doing all such things that harm your well-being just because of the less fairer sex.
What doesn't kill you, make u stronger.
So what if your a Saint? Does it change anything?
Nice guys finish last
You're running out of gas
Your sympathy will get you left behind
Sometimes you're at your best
When you feel the worst
Do you feel washed up like piss going down the drain
-from Green Day's Nice Guys Finish Last -
PM me your number if you need a talk.Originally posted by SnowGiant:I have not slept properly for the past 26 hours, so dont mind me
if I dont remember who is who..
but I do appreciate all the kind responses and the replies you all
have given me.. but you are not in my shoes, you cant feel wat
i am feeling either.
I feel.. lost.. numbed, and sometimes the pain shoots back into
my heart.. or watever is left of it.. and i have been stoning on
my windowstill for hours.. i stoned for.. 7 hours? I have yet eaten
anything.. i dont feel hungry.. nor thirsty.. my mind blanked most
of the time..
i still have the set of painkillers... 50 of them, mixed with 20 synflex..
stolen from my sis.. dunno will die properly if i swallow 70 of them..
will i even die.. ? dunno..
but then again, i tried to tink it positively, no use.. i cant even think
straight.
you guys really tried.. but failed le ba.. i still dun get it..
watever it is.. really, maybe im just not suited to be on earth anyway..
the pain is too great for me to bear... how can any girl be so harsh to
show you mms pics of her and another guy hugging jus like tat..
and added.. "i tink we shld not be together le ba.. we are still
friends.." smiley face at the end...? wtf? break up mus go hug
other guy ah....
I told her i feel like dying.. she said "oh, dont jump off the building ar..
or else next day auntie will wash like siao de.. die also dun give people
trouble la.. ;p"
I was too hurt.. or even stunned to reply.. or rather, how to reply?
am i hurt? i dunno leh.. i dun even feel properly.. or is it hunger?
.... wat in the world... ... no logic... no sense.. im... wrong?
Im still locked in my room, i really mentalily shutting down le..
maybe i shld try to sleep.. for the 18th? 19th? time..
im tired.. im pretty sure.. my face looks crap.. maybe i shld sleep..
You're not alone, seriously. You just fall harder than anyone.
Cheers -
stay strong,there will always be another person out there waiting for u..
this happened to me once too,jus 1 mth ago..at a crucial period of my life, just before i entered NS(u shd know about this if ur singaporean)..i couldn't get her out of my mind, even though i was so super tired due to the trainings and all the physical activity..but i endured, and now i feel like it's getting better..
dun worry about it, time heals all wounds..i know that there will be girls out there that will want "nice guys" like us.. -
Some girls are just spoilt. They always have the mentality to maximise their youth & have fun at the expense of others and you happens to fall for one.
Probably she gave you hints that the game is over but you still persists/dun get it and as a result, come to this.
Sometimes being 'nice' lose out bcos we play by the rules. We get taken advantaged of. It need not be in a relationship, it happens everywhere - queue jumpers, corporate bootlickers, lift smokers, just to name a few.
There's nothing wrong to being 'nice'. It's just the way we are being brought up and values we embrace. Our conscience speaks louder.
Be strong. Live on. -
I told her i feel like dying.. she said "oh, dont jump off the building ar..
OKAY this girl is really busthird.
or else next day auntie will wash like siao de.. die also dun give people
trouble la.. ;p"
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if you die, you would be giving her what she wants.
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Used to be a nice guy, could wait hours and hours to get a chance to talk/see the girl I like. Then realize that girls don't like nice guys. Used to hug 1 tree and not have a change of heart, but my friend always say, the forest is so big, why you so stupid only hug 1 tree... Didn't really care back then, totally blinded by love, but now he is right, the tree is no longer there, we need to move on, the forest is so big, there will be another woman out there. I think it's the same case for you.
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Originally posted by SnowGiant:I have not slept properly for the past 26 hours, so dont mind me
if I dont remember who is who..
but I do appreciate all the kind responses and the replies you all
have given me.. but you are not in my shoes, you cant feel wat
i am feeling either.
I feel.. lost.. numbed, and sometimes the pain shoots back into
my heart.. or watever is left of it.. and i have been stoning on
my windowstill for hours.. i stoned for.. 7 hours? I have yet eaten
anything.. i dont feel hungry.. nor thirsty.. my mind blanked most
of the time..
i still have the set of painkillers... 50 of them, mixed with 20 synflex..
stolen from my sis.. dunno will die properly if i swallow 70 of them..
will i even die.. ? dunno..
but then again, i tried to tink it positively, no use.. i cant even think
straight.
you guys really tried.. but failed le ba.. i still dun get it..
watever it is.. really, maybe im just not suited to be on earth anyway..
the pain is too great for me to bear... how can any girl be so harsh to
show you mms pics of her and another guy hugging jus like tat..
and added.. "i tink we shld not be together le ba.. we are still
friends.." smiley face at the end...? wtf? break up mus go hug
other guy ah....
I told her i feel like dying.. she said "oh, dont jump off the building ar..
or else next day auntie will wash like siao de.. die also dun give people
trouble la.. ;p"
I was too hurt.. or even stunned to reply.. or rather, how to reply?
am i hurt? i dunno leh.. i dun even feel properly.. or is it hunger?
.... wat in the world... ... no logic... no sense.. im... wrong?
Im still locked in my room, i really mentalily shutting down le..
maybe i shld try to sleep.. for the 18th? 19th? time..
im tired.. im pretty sure.. my face looks crap.. maybe i shld sleep.. You wallop in so much self pity that you could probably drown an entire continent.
In fact, you are not a nice guy - you are an extremist.
You are so self absorbed, listening attentively to your biased POV and twisted theories of Love.
She may be wicked to reply you in that manner, but if you put some thoughts into them, you are 'threatening' her with hints of suicidal thoughts - obviously she would reply in such frivolous ways. What do you expect her to do? Play along with your nonsense?
You may have successful killed yourself and returned back to God; she may be guilty-stricken for about three months, then life is normal for her.
In the end, you achieve nothing as she ultimately find the 'right one' for herself and you DENYING yourself of one?
Nice guy don't talk about death; people who talks about death are extremist. (Afflicted Scorpiotic tendency).
*** In the game of Love, prepare to accept rejections and failures. If you can't accept them, don't get involved.
You are disillusioned.
Because in the first place, she isn't a good product to begin with.
It's like MLM - people holding blind faith and swear allegiance to this seemingly impeccable model that actually reeks of numerous flaws.
Snap out of it - thinking that she is your only one.
Love is about cosmic learning - you got to prepare yourself with all the 'learned lessons' and 'test' before you are ready for your eventual one. If you are going to tell yourself '...good game gentleman...'; you are going to miss out on this somebody, who has MUCH MORE worth, than her, of your Love.
P.S: Since MCsquare has already extended his hands, do pick up the offer if you can't handle it yourself. Almost wanted to say the same thing, but if he can't handle you eventually, I don't think I would attempt.
Cheers -
OH MY.....
Are u ok?
Its just a girl.....
Why make ur life so difficult?
When its time to let go..then let go.....
I know she let u down.......
All i could say is.... We humans have to go through the sad n bad side of lives b4 we really understand and cherish wat that is ard us...
THERE ARE MORE IN LIFE THAN JUST A GIRL LIKE HER!
choosing death is just to escape from reality...
Come back to the reality....
Its not what that happens to you.
Its how u think about that happens to you.
If it keeps hurting u...U are the ONLY one who could release the pain.....
If it keeps hurting..its time for u to look at things from another angle....
its time to let go...
Loving someone means u allow that person to choose whoever they wanna be with.............. -
if you are going to kill yourself just over a girl... then you wont be able to survive anyway in this world after all...
this just shows that you are a failure, weakling. nothing more.
no one will see you as a great lover or something like that.
nice man takes rejection gracefully. you? talking about killing yourself?
it just shows that you are not psychologically developed yet. please go grow up.
everyone lives in this world for themselves in the ultimate end.
killing oneself for other is just plain stupid.
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I honestly dont know if anyone of you are helping or pushing him over the edge with your replies. Even the helpful ones appears to be pushing.Originally posted by digicharat:if you are going to kill yourself just over a girl... then you wont be able to survive anyway in this world after all...
this just shows that you are a failure, weakling. nothing more.
no one will see you as a great lover or something like that.
nice man takes rejection gracefully. you? talking about killing yourself?
it just shows that you are not psychologically developed yet. please go grow up.
everyone lives in this world for themselves in the ultimate end.
killing oneself for other is just plain stupid.
No nice guys dont take rejection gracefully, they usually are too nice to say anything.
Having said that, you are definately not using the nice guy routine welll.... you must remember that its all over if she calls or refer to you as "brother". When you hear that word decide to correct her or move along.
i would be weary of the girls that post here, they will eat u up for breakfast and then some. -
cliche but its true.
time heals everything, but just leave a scar behind.
you need time to get over it.
its not worth it to die over a girl who isn't worth ur love.
you need to find someone and talk about it. It will make you feel better.