wrong to hide the facts??
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Hi all,
Yest, i went out with a female friend. However, i did not tell my gf the truth. In fact, during the date, i didnt pick up my hp when my gf called.
Am i correct to do wat i did?
Im feeling kinda guilty now.
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tell her now.
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But i already gave another reason... i.e work related.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:tell her now.
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better to confess urself than to get caught later
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ask yrslf y u did it in the 1st plc. wat wer u afraid of? yr gf's reaction? somethg happened b4?
since we dont knw the reasons behind. we cnt really advise you. -
tell the truth.Originally posted by Zogel:But i already gave another reason... i.e work related.
Ahhhh....
really. -
y r u afraid to tell the truth?
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Is there anything going on between you and the girl ?? judging from the way you put things I dun think there is anything going on, so you should have jus told her the truth when she call u. Or am i wrong ???Originally posted by Zogel:But i already gave another reason... i.e work related.
Ahhhh....
its better that you come clean with her now, and in future, you should jus let her know that you are going out with other female friends, I'm sure she'll understand ..... how would you feel if she were to do to you what you've done to her ?? in a relationship, its all about trust and you are missusing her trust.
Treat others the way you want them to treat you.
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y din u pick up the call?
guilty har? coz it was a date with that girl? -
1st - Theres nothing going on between me and that lady. We are friends..although we tend to be closer (for one reason or another)
2nd - Gf once said that she wont go out with a guy alone for dinner...or watsoever..
So i kinda feel guilty by doing this behind her back. FOr the record, we had dinner, went to jazzclub and then went for coffee... -
exactly why im confused myself... didnt know how to answer if she ask me who i was with...Originally posted by browniebaobao:y din u pick up the call?
guilty har? coz it was a date with that girl?
sigh...
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so lukg at the big picture. u went out w a gal who is more thn just a fren. u actually had dinner (presumably in a nice place), drinks in a jazzclub n thn even coffee after.Originally posted by Zogel:1st - Theres nothing going on between me and that lady. We are friends..although we tend to be closer (for one reason or another)
2nd - Gf once said that she wont go out with a guy alone for dinner...or watsoever..
So i kinda feel guilty by doing this behind her back. FOr the record, we had dinner, went to jazzclub and then went for coffee...
n all this u did behind yr gf's back.
sounds like u wer thinkin with yr dick. next time listen to yr heart. -
Originally posted by Zogel:
But did she say that you can't go out alone with another girl for dinner ??
1st - Theres nothing going on between me and that lady. We are friends..although we tend to be closer (for one reason or another)
[b]2nd - Gf once said that she wont go out with a guy alone for dinner...or watsoever..
So i kinda feel guilty by doing this behind her back. FOr the record, we had dinner, went to jazzclub and then went for coffee... -
If it was juz the dick, it wouldnt end at coffee? thanks for ur input though.Originally posted by skeujin:so lukg at the big picture. u went out w a gal who is more thn just a fren. u actually had dinner (presumably in a nice place), drinks in a jazzclub n thn even coffee after.
n all this u did behind yr gf's back.
sounds like u wer thinkin with yr dick. next time listen to yr heart. -
She nv did but i reckon she would expect me to do the same?! oh well... this is tough.Originally posted by MiX Metal:But did she say that you can't go out alone with another girl for dinner ?? -
thinkin w yr dick does not mean u wil get to slp around. thinkin w yr dick is wat i wld describe as being illogical. doing things against yr betr judgement. everyone njoys a thrill. u mite find it harmless bt do u realise how much hurt it mite cause yr gf? how is she to belive you tt nuthg is going on w u n the gal u dated wen u have alreay opend the gate to lies n more lies.Originally posted by Zogel:If it was juz the dick, it wouldnt end at coffee? thanks for ur input though.
u lied bout wat your doing
u lied bout whr u r
u lied bout who yr with
u lied bout y u din pick up the phone
im sure there r some things i missed......
your brain n heart r feelg guilty. u knw wat u did is wrong. u knew it the moment u set up the date.
my advice is let the issue rest. dont mention it n let it b a reminder to how much u luv yr gf.
next time u wana do sumthg this stupid. think bout how life is w/o yr gf wen she dumps u for your lies. or betr still imagine if she was doing the same to u...
sori if i sounded rude bt im not as kindly n patient w my replies as the other guys here.... -
you are assuming ..... dun do that, ask and you shall be told, in the first place, if the girl is jus your friend ..... y can't you jus tell the truth ????? or y can't u ask your g/f along as well ????Originally posted by Zogel:She nv did but i reckon she would expect me to do the same?! oh well... this is tough. -
+1Originally posted by skeujin:thinkin w yr dick does not mean u wil get to slp around. thinkin w yr dick is wat i wld describe as being illogical. doing things against yr betr judgement. everyone njoys a thrill. u mite find it harmless bt do u realise how much hurt it mite cause yr gf? how is she to belive you tt nuthg is going on w u n the gal u dated wen u have alreay opend the gate to lies n more lies.
u lied bout wat your doing
u lied bout whr u r
u lied bout who yr with
u lied bout y u din pick up the phone
im sure there r some things i missed......
your brain n heart r feelg guilty. u knw wat u did is wrong. u knew it the moment u set up the date.
my advice is let the issue rest. dont mention it n let it b a reminder to how much u luv yr gf.
next time u wana do sumthg this stupid. think bout how life is w/o yr gf wen she dumps u for your lies. or betr still imagine if she was doing the same to u...
sori if i sounded rude bt im not as kindly n patient w my replies as the other guys here....
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I concurOriginally posted by skeujin:thinkin w yr dick does not mean u wil get to slp around. thinkin w yr dick is wat i wld describe as being illogical. doing things against yr betr judgement. everyone njoys a thrill. u mite find it harmless bt do u realise how much hurt it mite cause yr gf? how is she to belive you tt nuthg is going on w u n the gal u dated wen u have alreay opend the gate to lies n more lies.
u lied bout wat your doing
u lied bout whr u r
u lied bout who yr with
u lied bout y u din pick up the phone
im sure there r some things i missed......
your brain n heart r feelg guilty. u knw wat u did is wrong. u knew it the moment u set up the date.
my advice is let the issue rest. dont mention it n let it b a reminder to how much u luv yr gf.
next time u wana do sumthg this stupid. think bout how life is w/o yr gf wen she dumps u for your lies. or betr still imagine if she was doing the same to u...
sori if i sounded rude bt im not as kindly n patient w my replies as the other guys here....
(quote taken from "catch me if you can") -
if you want this relationship to have a chance of working out.... three words...
TELL THE TRUTH -
Oh? Its a date hia.. so it means u have done something wrongOriginally posted by Zogel:Hi all,
Yest, i went out with a female friend. However, i did not tell my gf the truth. In fact, during the date, i didnt pick up my hp when my gf called.
Am i correct to do wat i did?
Im feeling kinda guilty now. 
cheated on ur gf hence refuse to pick up hp yes, you have done something wrong -
Aiyah, its OK lah....after a few more times, you'll get used to it and won't feel so guilty anymore.Originally posted by Zogel:Hi all,
Yest, i went out with a female friend. However, i did not tell my gf the truth. In fact, during the date, i didnt pick up my hp when my gf called.
Am i correct to do wat i did?
Im feeling kinda guilty now. -
why u didnt pick up her call?
why u dont tell her the truth?
i think its better u tell her the truth..
u wont want her to do all this to u ..too rite?
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omg. prepare to burn in hell!
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FULL HOUSE liao lah...Originally posted by Ito_^:omg. prepare to burn in hell!