When love becomes hate..
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devil u always make me duno how to answer ur reply leh.Originally posted by Devil1976:You don't have to forgive him... In trying to forgive him, you're just lying to yourself...
Instead, you should try to forgive yourself... For the mistake that you've made in choosing to love him... But we all do make mistakes in our lives now, don't we? No matter how big or small... How long or short.... How painful it might be....?
Forgive yourself... Set yourself free... You deserves so much better... And only you can hold that KEY to the LOCK
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That's when you realise that you can't change the past. But only let it make up to a better future...Originally posted by browniebaobao:FeowFeow, I did ask him about him and her, but he lied. He said they were impossible. But I found out that he later brought her home to sleep. Was he cheating on me when we were together? I duno. This girl might have already came into the picture before our break up. But I give him the benefit of the doubt.
I try to pamper myself whenever I can. I love myself for what I am. But that doesn't help to erase the hurt.
How to release the pain and anger?
The true moments of pain and anger have already been over... The rest are just manifests of delusions you choose to hold onto yourself.... -
The KEY is IN YOUR HAND all the while... Just that you've been too busy indulging in your own pains and struggles... Your memories and past...Originally posted by browniebaobao:devil u always make me duno how to answer ur reply leh.
i think.. i have to find the key first.
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Originally posted by skeujin:everyone who has been dissapointed in love will haev experienced loss, misery, pain and hate among other forms of self punishment.
fret not. when the right person comes along. he through patience and understanding will be able to coax back the warmth into your heart dispelling the darkness and the cold.
right now jus concentrate on living your life to the fullest. in work and in play. always remember that your frens and family are there for you.
and if you do have lotsa anger to vent. do like me. go attack a clone or irritating idiot in forums...
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Yup. It should be much more tiring, and you would be consumed on 'negative energy'...Originally posted by Mao x 2:For my case, I will find that it's more painful to hate someone that you love. -
'San Hu Hai'?Originally posted by kopiosatu:there's this line i like from jay chou's song
hai niao gen yu xiang ai, zhi shi yi chang yi wai -
Nope... 'Hate' doesn't necessarily have to exist because love still exist...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Perhaps ba..
But I dun wana torture myself even more by asking whether I still love him or not.
I was in the state of 'to love or to hate, can't love and can't hate' before.
I dun want to be like that anymore. -
ah devil, happy posting.
i will read later.
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:ah devil, happy posting.
i will read later. -
i can really understand your position. if my ex told me we break up coz of personality difference, perhaps we can still be friends. but the day we break up, he told me he has another gal outside. it came as a shocker to me. i totally break down and cry hard. i know its not worth it but the hurt is killing me. maybe coz i am being treated like an idiot. gave him too much freedom which is why he can fool ard behind my back without me knowing. now i am treating myself better. like doing things i like to do. more freedom. hope we can get over this soon..
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its very good therapy leh... n got so many clones n idiots online these days. anytime 24hrs also got sum1 to flame....Originally posted by Devil1976: -
ah devil finished posting ar?
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reading this reminds me again of that zen wisdom about one senior monk and a junior....the senior helped piggy back a lady to cross the river...let her down and walk on....after sometimes the junior couldn't control anymore questioned the senior for carrying a lady when its 'nan nu shou shou bu qing' (don't know how to translate)Originally posted by Devil1976:That's when you realise that you can't change the past. But only let it make up to a better future...
The true moments of pain and anger have already been over... The rest are just manifests of delusions you choose to hold onto yourself....
the senior told him something like he had put the issue behind the moment he put the lady down but the junior had carried it all the way in his heart.....
many of us are like the junior....keeping things in our heart for a long time...its very 'heavy'.... -
Do you know how you can become the senior?Originally posted by a_splash:reading this reminds me again of that zen wisdom about one senior monk and a junior....the senior helped piggy back a lady to cross the river...let her down and walk on....after sometimes the junior couldn't control anymore questioned the senior for carrying a lady when its 'nan nu shou shou bu qing' (don't know how to translate)
the senior told him something like he had put the issue behind the moment he put the lady down but the junior had carried it all the way in his heart.....
many of us are like the junior....keeping things in our heart for a long time...its very 'heavy'....
Hint: Very few forumers understood.
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ah square u might as well put the links in ur siggie.Originally posted by M©+square:Do you know how you can become the senior? Hint: Very few forumers understood.
Cheers How To Read Her Signals|What's in a girl's headnew!!!|For the ladies: Play Hard to Get, how hard is too hard? new!!!
I read them all.
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I know you got read. coming up with a new contributor's thread soon.Originally posted by browniebaobao:ah square u might as well put the links in ur siggie.
I read them all.
See, i so sarport u~
I don't know how to putz links on my siggy onez.
Si Dever no go to post liaoz.
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har? then u know how to put links in ur posts?Originally posted by M©+square:I know you got read. coming up with a new contributor's thread soon.
I don't know how to putz links on my siggy onez.
Si Dever no go to post liaoz.
Cheers
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Originally posted by M©+square:
care to share here??
[b]Do you know how you can become the senior? Hint: Very few forumers understood.
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???Originally posted by browniebaobao:har? then u know how to put links in ur posts?
Like this??? How To Read Her Signals|Understanding Women's First Impression|What's in a girl's headnew!!!|For the ladies: Play Hard to Get, how hard is too hard? new!!! -
fwah..... so many characters ar.. think siggie cannot leh. hahaha..Originally posted by M©+square:
juz link to DA forum la. -
like this.....Originally posted by M©+square:I know you got read. coming up with a new contributor's thread soon.
I don't know how to putz links on my siggy onez.
Si Dever no go to post liaoz.
Cheers
problem is your signature already very long,....might not have space for more...
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:not very pointed leh..
but can la.. muahahaha
hmm ..... you try using your shoe as a hammer ?? -
Sometimes you won't even know who you might be scolding!Originally posted by skeujin:its very good therapy leh... n got so many clones n idiots online these days. anytime 24hrs also got sum1 to flame.... -
More or less for now...Originally posted by browniebaobao:ah devil finished posting ar? 
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WHO..??Originally posted by M©+square:Si Dever no go to post liaoz.
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