the most miserable period of your life
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hi all...
life is a long and bumpy road so i am sure all of you met all kinds of setbacks in your life before.
as for this topic, i am not really refering to boy girl relationship related kind of stuff. more like a phase in life which is simply not the way you want it and choose to be in yet unable to do anything and you have to endure a long period of misery.
for me it's during my secondary 3 and 4 period. i was posted to a lousy class because i didn't do well enough for my maths to qualify for a better class. all my buddies and classmates i can click and get along so well with ended up in better classes. My secondary 3 and 4 class was quite small and people there are not so motivated and worst of all, there's nobody in the class i can clique with at all, or simply no friends. at that time my life was quite dull, my social life surrounds my school only so all my friends are limited to people i can find in school. i am not active in ECA also.
my friends i got along so well with in sec 1 n 2 found new friends from their class so because we hardly contact due to school work, we kind of slowly lose contact, only say hello at times when we meet along common corridors. i was quite lonely then. go to school really a misery, one whole day need not open mouth to talk to anybody, after school, i will be among the first to take the first bus home. then at home will spend most of my time day dreaming, dreaming of those happy times when i still have a good friends as classmates.
it was a really miserable 2 years on the whole and after the O levels, i never contact anyone of my classmate from my secondary school anymore.
it i simply a part of my life i want to erase from my memory yet so unforgettable.
i wonder whether anyone out there has similiar experience?
i am a grown up adult now and i think that has to be one big regret of mine, not doing well in my maths for my secondary 2 exam and have to suffer a miserable for 2 years. It was a shame, i could have done well for my maths in sec 2 just that i didn't focus too much attention in maths and science which will enable me to go to a better class. -
How I wish that I had tell her I loved her so much before she left for good.
How I wish that I had not scolded a fren in public.
How I wish that I had trained alot harder for the competition.
How I wish that I had studied harder for my exams.
Guess this what Life is all about. You win some and you lose some. We make silly decisions in the past. We can only look on the bright side of life and move on. Cheer uP! -
hey dude your definitely not alone. i experienced the exactly same problem as you during my 2nd year in poly. i can say my first year in poly was my most memorable school life i ever had. all the classmates i had, we all clique very well together. until second year when my class was split. some go this class some go that class, and i was with a few of my year 1 classmates that joined other class. don't know why they split my original class but did not clique well with my new class. so like you said going to sch for this 2nd and 3rd year was very sian. not like year 1 always looking forward to go sch. life sucks during my 2nd and 3rd year in poly. *SCREW SP MANAGEMENT*Originally posted by Gunyandao:hi all...
life is a long and bumpy road so i am sure all of you met all kinds of setbacks in your life before.
as for this topic, i am not really refering to boy girl relationship related kind of stuff. more like a phase in life which is simply not the way you want it and choose to be in yet unable to do anything and you have to endure a long period of misery.
for me it's during my secondary 3 and 4 period. i was posted to a lousy class because i didn't do well enough for my maths to qualify for a better class. all my buddies and classmates i can click and get along so well with ended up in better classes. My secondary 3 and 4 class was quite small and people there are not so motivated and worst of all, there's nobody in the class i can clique with at all, or simply no friends. at that time my life was quite dull, my social life surrounds my school only so all my friends are limited to people i can find in school. i am not active in ECA also.
my friends i got along so well with in sec 1 n 2 found new friends from their class so because we hardly contact due to school work, we kind of slowly lose contact, only say hello at times when we meet along common corridors. i was quite lonely then. go to school really a misery, one whole day need not open mouth to talk to anybody, after school, i will be among the first to take the first bus home. then at home will spend most of my time day dreaming, dreaming of those happy times when i still have a good friends as classmates.
it was a really miserable 2 years on the whole and after the O levels, i never contact anyone of my classmate from my secondary school anymore.
it i simply a part of my life i want to erase from my memory yet so unforgettable.
i wonder whether anyone out there has similiar experience?
i am a grown up adult now and i think that has to be one big regret of mine, not doing well in my maths for my secondary 2 exam and have to suffer a miserable for 2 years. It was a shame, i could have done well for my maths in sec 2 just that i didn't focus too much attention in maths and science which will enable me to go to a better class.
now i'm just looking forward to go NS.
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oh well brother I am in uni now and the pple in my orientation grp(and stuck with) are some goddam bunch of pple in a clique most of the time i dun even know what the heck they are gibbering abt nowadays i just go abt alone
dun think so much abt the past lah god will not come down from heaven to sort out ya problems u either get used to them or get a new bunch of friends... -
that means your life is still very good.
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The most miserable period of my life is when my granddad passed away suddenly due to heart failure. I never got the chance to say goodbye... I was his favourite grandchild & he would spoil me rotten. He died just before my O's, & a part of me died with him that day.
Up till now, over 10 years later, I cry when I think about him, & what a loss his death was to me. Nothing, Not even a split with a guy whom I was supposed to have married.
Life was just never the same afterwards.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Gunyandao:hi all...
life is a long and bumpy road so i am sure all of you met all kinds of setbacks in your life before.
as for this topic, i am not really refering to boy girl relationship related kind of stuff. more like a phase in life which is simply not the way you want it and choose to be in yet unable to do anything and you have to endure a long period of misery.
for me it's during my secondary 3 and 4 period. i was posted to a lousy class because i didn't do well enough for my maths to qualify for a better class. all my buddies and classmates i can click and get along so well with ended up in better classes. My secondary 3 and 4 class was quite small and people there are not so motivated and worst of all, there's nobody in the class i can clique with at all, or simply no friends. at that time my life was quite dull, my social life surrounds my school only so all my friends are limited to people i can find in school. i am not active in ECA also.
my friends i got along so well with in sec 1 n 2 found new friends from their class so because we hardly contact due to school work, we kind of slowly lose contact, only say hello at times when we meet along common corridors. i was quite lonely then. go to school really a misery, one whole day need not open mouth to talk to anybody, after school, i will be among the first to take the first bus home. then at home will spend most of my time day dreaming, dreaming of those happy times when i still have a good friends as classmates.
it was a really miserable 2 years on the whole and after the O levels, i never contact anyone of my classmate from my secondary school anymore.
it i simply a part of my life i want to erase from my memory yet so unforgettable.
i wonder whether anyone out there has similiar experience?
i am a grown up adult now and i think that has to be one big regret of mine, not doing well in my maths for my secondary 2 exam and have to suffer a miserable for 2 years. It was a shame, i could have done well for my maths in sec 2 just that i didn't focus too much attention in maths and science which will enable me to go to a better class. -
something similiar happened to me.Originally posted by FeowFeow:The most miserable period of my life is when my granddad passed away suddenly due to heart failure. I never got the chance to say goodbye... I was his favourite grandchild & he would spoil me rotten. He died just before my O's, & a part of me died with him that day.
Up till now, over 10 years later, I cry when I think about him, & what a loss his death was to me. Nothing, Not even a split with a guy whom I was supposed to have married.
Life was just never the same afterwards.
FeowFeow
my dad passed away due to colorectal cancer on the eve of my ITE exam. -
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oh man...what's to come in future...
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How I wish I can bring up my courage to tell her that I Love Her.
Posted to one of the lousiest class in the cohort.
Do project till 5.30am. (school starts at 7.30am). -
Dou1 ble3 Post!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dragg:something similiar happened to me.
my dad passed away due to colorectal cancer on the eve of my ITE exam. -
The sadness never really leaves you, especially when you've loved that person since childhood. I remember waiting for the taxi to pull up at noon, a little 3 year old girl at the windows waiting for her favourite person in the world to give her all the love & affection she could possibly want.
The years when I stayed with my grandparents gave me the best & most carefree childhood ever, thanks to him. I don't think the pain will ever totally go away, because although I'm glad for the happy memories he left behind, a bigger part of me wishes that he were still here...
Damn, I feel like crying now.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dragg:something similiar happened to me.
my dad passed away due to colorectal cancer on the eve of my ITE exam. -
The most miserable period of my life is when I lost my grandfather, and the time I lost contact with the girl I really like (Beth)... know her from the net but back then I was so immature... But think of the past doesn't help much, I say let's look to the future.
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really sorry for u dun cry!Originally posted by FeowFeow:The sadness never really leaves you, especially when you've loved that person since childhood. I remember waiting for the taxi to pull up at noon, a little 3 year old girl at the windows waiting for her favourite person in the world to give her all the love & affection she could possibly want.
The years when I stayed with my grandparents gave me the best & most carefree childhood ever, thanks to him. I don't think the pain will ever totally go away, because although I'm glad for the happy memories he left behind, a bigger part of me wishes that he were still here...
Damn, I feel like crying now.
FeowFeow -
you really miss your grandpa dearly.....u must have a very sweet childhood...Originally posted by FeowFeow:The sadness never really leaves you, especially when you've loved that person since childhood. I remember waiting for the taxi to pull up at noon, a little 3 year old girl at the windows waiting for her favourite person in the world to give her all the love & affection she could possibly want.
The years when I stayed with my grandparents gave me the best & most carefree childhood ever, thanks to him. I don't think the pain will ever totally go away, because although I'm glad for the happy memories he left behind, a bigger part of me wishes that he were still here...
Damn, I feel like crying now.
FeowFeow
well, the saddest thing i feel is seeing people dying of pain, suffering from illness and how i wish there's no pain, no illness in this world.
hmm...for me, my case is really very extraordinary and my situation and what i went through during my childhood is completely different from yours. I don't bear any grudges against my grandfather and have forgiven him. I cried really badly when he passed away too.
how i wish i had your kind of best and most carefree childhood during the years you stayed with your grandfather. I was the complete opposite, i was
a torn in the eye of my grandfather. i suffered years of intense verbal assults from him as a kid. everytime he open his mouth to verbally assult me, it's going to be some really nasty words that rips my pride, moral and sense of self worth apart. think the most nasty things people ever want to hear. everyday live in fear, facing discrimination, humiliated in public, being terrorized
. too bad i was a torn in his eyes where as he doted on my brother and sister the way your grandfather doted on you. he is a hot tempered fellow so i was a target punching bag for him to vent his anger and fustration on whenever he feels like it.
i am not angry with anyone including my grandfather cos everything is in the past. after so many yrs, i am still going for counselling sessions to get over those traumas..
well anyway, think those are in the past, we just have to move ahead. -
losing my mother....
she was hospitalized on that day...
so i went to school after seeing her in the morning..
handphone went flat so when she pass
away in the afternoon my family could not contact me..
i did project until evening then went to hosiptal not knowing
she has passed away.
even after months has passed, i still cry uncontrollable if i decide to think about the event and when the sad mood comes.
however, i think that we all should already know that death will occur to people around us and ourself eventually. so we should be mentally prepared for incidents in life. -
Yes, I've had a wonderful childhood thanks to Granddad : ) He was the centre of my world until I was 16, & I was the apple of his eye. How I miss him up to this day, & how I wish he could see my own personal achievements! I never got to share them with him, though when I "visit" him, I'll whisper to him under my breath. I know it sounds crazy, but to me, Granddad still seems very much alive in my heart.
I'm sorry to hear of your granddad. It must've been a traumatic experience for you when the person who's supposed to love you, chooses to demoralise you as a kid instead. I hope during that period, your grandma & parents were a good support for you.
Otherwise, the scars may stay for life
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Gunyandao:you really miss your grandpa dearly.....u must have a very sweet childhood...
well, the saddest thing i feel is seeing people dying of pain, suffering from illness and how i wish there's no pain, no illness in this world.
hmm...for me, my case is really very extraordinary and my situation and what i went through during my childhood is completely different from yours. I don't bear any grudges against my grandfather and have forgiven him. I cried really badly when he passed away too.
how i wish i had your kind of best and most carefree childhood during the years you stayed with your grandfather. I was the complete opposite, i was
a torn in the eye of my grandfather. i suffered years of intense verbal assults from him as a kid. everytime he open his mouth to verbally assult me, it's going to be some really nasty words that rips my pride, moral and sense of self worth apart. think the most nasty things people ever want to hear. everyday live in fear, facing discrimination, humiliated in public, being terrorized
. too bad i was a torn in his eyes where as he doted on my brother and sister the way your grandfather doted on you. he is a hot tempered fellow so i was a target punching bag for him to vent his anger and fustration on whenever he feels like it.
i am not angry with anyone including my grandfather cos everything is in the past. after so many yrs, i am still going for counselling sessions to get over those traumas..
well anyway, think those are in the past, we just have to move ahead. -
i'm most miserable when i don't know what to do with my life.
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I agree with you, we all have to learn to accept the death & move on with our lives. I'm sorry to hear about you Not being able to say goodbye to your mum too. It's somehow harder to accept deaths where you weren't able to say goodbye... I can understand how you feel.
Although I've since moved on with my life, I've just never fully gotten over Granddad's death. His passing left a hole in my heart which can never be filled by anyone else.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by january:losing my mother....
she was hospitalized on that day...
so i went to school after seeing her in the morning..
handphone went flat so when she pass
away in the afternoon my family could not contact me..
i did project until evening then went to hosiptal not knowing
she has passed away.
even after months has passed, i still cry uncontrollable if i decide to think about the event and when the sad mood comes.
however, i think that we all should already know that death will occur to people around us and ourself eventually. so we should be mentally prepared for incidents in life. -
Go buy a coffee & think about what you wanna do with your life
FeowFeowOriginally posted by kopiosatu:i'm most miserable when i don't know what to do with my life. -
hahaha, i forgot to add... which is not what i'm going through now.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Go buy a coffee & think about what you wanna do with your life
FeowFeow -
My dad passed away when i was 18 years old. I became a man of the house as my elder bro was always in camp during NS. Not that i had to support my family financially as my mum was capable of doing so but had to be an emotional pillar for my mum. Probably the most miserable period was the months before he died... see him suffering.Originally posted by Gunyandao:hi all...
life is a long and bumpy road so i am sure all of you met all kinds of setbacks in your life before.
as for this topic, i am not really refering to boy girl relationship related kind of stuff. more like a phase in life which is simply not the way you want it and choose to be in yet unable to do anything and you have to endure a long period of misery.
for me it's during my secondary 3 and 4 period. i was posted to a lousy class because i didn't do well enough for my maths to qualify for a better class. all my buddies and classmates i can click and get along so well with ended up in better classes. My secondary 3 and 4 class was quite small and people there are not so motivated and worst of all, there's nobody in the class i can clique with at all, or simply no friends. at that time my life was quite dull, my social life surrounds my school only so all my friends are limited to people i can find in school. i am not active in ECA also.
my friends i got along so well with in sec 1 n 2 found new friends from their class so because we hardly contact due to school work, we kind of slowly lose contact, only say hello at times when we meet along common corridors. i was quite lonely then. go to school really a misery, one whole day need not open mouth to talk to anybody, after school, i will be among the first to take the first bus home. then at home will spend most of my time day dreaming, dreaming of those happy times when i still have a good friends as classmates.
it was a really miserable 2 years on the whole and after the O levels, i never contact anyone of my classmate from my secondary school anymore.
it i simply a part of my life i want to erase from my memory yet so unforgettable.
i wonder whether anyone out there has similiar experience?
i am a grown up adult now and i think that has to be one big regret of mine, not doing well in my maths for my secondary 2 exam and have to suffer a miserable for 2 years. It was a shame, i could have done well for my maths in sec 2 just that i didn't focus too much attention in maths and science which will enable me to go to a better class. -
My dad also passed on due to colorectal cancer when my poly year 2 just started.Originally posted by dragg:something similiar happened to me.
my dad passed away due to colorectal cancer on the eve of my ITE exam. -
life and death is part of life.
generally you will see more of it as you aged.
i am now in my 40s. -
when my plans for years broke down and the truth hits me right in the face. it says i sux.