the most miserable period of your life
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one operation after another.Originally posted by nullifi3d:My dad also passed on due to colorectal cancer when my poly year 2 just started.
he died of a lot of pain.
colorectal cancer is really damn scary. -
so far my jc days were rather
Sad in some ways miserable
just glad its over
after all
the future holds more challenges
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hmm...how sweet...he was a great source of motivation in your life indeed..i believe you are a successful and happy individual yourself now and I am very sure that's what he wanted to see.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yes, I've had a wonderful childhood thanks to Granddad : ) He was the centre of my world until I was 16, & I was the apple of his eye. How I miss him up to this day, & how I wish he could see my own personal achievements! I never got to share them with him, though when I "visit" him, I'll whisper to him under my breath. I know it sounds crazy, but to me, Granddad still seems very much alive in my heart.
I'm sorry to hear of your granddad. It must've been a traumatic experience for you when the person who's supposed to love you, chooses to demoralise you as a kid instead. I hope during that period, your grandma & parents were a good support for you.
Otherwise, the scars may stay for life
FeowFeow
as for me, Oh...oh..no...throughout my childhood my parents are not of help
at all. they use typical asian methods of bringing up kids on me . they like to use scarcastic remarks on me and pour cold water on me and my mother would just rub salt to wound, in front of relatives, i would once again hear those condemning words. it wasn't at all serious compared to those treatment i received from my grandfather. as a kid, i never confide in anybody my problems and i am never disclose my problems to my parents because it's no use. i was never close to my parents and i keep everything to myself, i grew up believing this world is cold, dangerous. I was very very quiet as a kid.
as a person, psychologically i grew up base on those kinds of words and definition my grandfather and parents used on me.
retarded, hopeless, good for nothing, never amount to anything blablabla
I am an adult now but i have to suffer the horrendous outcome of those traumas -
Very typical of Asian parents during that generation. And they wonder why Asian people grow up to be less confident than our western counterparts On the 1 hand, they don't encourage, & only know how to put down their own children.
My parents used to do that, but years later, I finally told them how I felt. 1 had a positive reaction & was understanding. The other... the less said the better. Suffice to say, when Granddad died, I lost the 1 person I confided everything in because he would understand the pressure I was under.
Perhaps 1 day you could tell your parents how they made you feel. And let them know that under No circumstances are you taking care of them because you're obligated to, because based on how they treated you, they don't deserve it.
But you're taking care of them because you're a good person. Then see what they say
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Gunyandao:hmm...how sweet...he was a great source of motivation in your life indeed..i believe you are a successful and happy individual yourself now and I am very sure that's what he wanted to see.
as for me, Oh...oh..no...throughout my childhood my parents are not of help
at all. they use typical asian methods of bringing up kids on me . they like to use scarcastic remarks on me and pour cold water on me and my mother would just rub salt to wound, in front of relatives, i would once again hear those condemning words. it wasn't at all serious compared to those treatment i received from my grandfather. as a kid, i never confide in anybody my problems and i am never disclose my problems to my parents because it's no use. i was never close to my parents and i keep everything to myself, i grew up believing this world is cold, dangerous. I was very very quiet as a kid.
as a person, psychologically i grew up base on those kinds of words and definition my grandfather and parents used on me.
retarded, hopeless, good for nothing, never amount to anything blablabla
I am an adult now but i have to suffer the horrendous outcome of those traumas -
After my father passed away..the period when my mum was grief stricken and lost her senses, became very blur and forgot to turn off the gas many times. The nights when i hear my sis crying bcos of the demise of my father.
The loss of a close kin and the tremendous stress that i was having from my studies, the mood swings that caused me to be angry with everything, very moody.. and health was going downhill also, had to visit the hospital and clinics often. -
the saddest day of my life was 4 years ago when i was sec 1....my mum had an accident....she was ridding a scooter then when she was hit by an red car on the road...she had serious head and leg injury.....until now she could no remember things which happen minutes ago and could not walk properly....
its very sad especially to see my dad spending thousands or dollars on her sugery,operation,theraphy Etc.... -
death of a loved one, be it friends or relatives, is the most painful thing in life.
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when i lost my dog...
sad
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it's like wat i m experiencing in uni now.totally sux.especially after i discovered my so-called frds only use me as 7-11.i shd cut them off.n i did.but my now life's lonely n miserable.everything became so empty suddenly.hate to go to sch everyday.Originally posted by Gunyandao:go to school really a misery, one whole day need not open mouth to talk to anybody, after school, i will be among the first to take the first bus home. then at home will spend most of my time day dreaming, dreaming of those happy times when i still have a good friends as classmates. -
This is life itself. U gain maturity and understand of how life work. Does not look back instead u should look forward. Everyone had bad days. Booast yourself with activities and make new friends. It is never late.
Maybe you can join a church service or club to enchrich your life. [/code]