Why is this so
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U must be very very young. Xiao Di Di.. You're really in love, but I believe you are too immature to handle this.Originally posted by soulness:whenever i tell my fren i feeling uneasy becoz of a girl, they tend to ask me whether the girl is pretty or not
then i feel embarassed to tell them, she is not that pretty..kinda like shameful.
of coz i not saying she ugly lar. but for such girl to cause me so much pain is very rare lor
Just carry on waiting and let another guy get to her before you.. Then you probably will feel more "Bu Shuang", eh? What would you think then? Errrr.... "Normal looking girl also dunno how to jio.. You wait long long for chio bu lah"
Please.. wake up, and do what you should. It's one of the sweetest thing in life to be truly in love. I stress the word "truly". -
the threadstarter said he was shameful to tell his friends the girl he liked was not a chio bu right...i mean why must the girl he likes always be a chio bu? and what is shameful about liking a normal girl? Ok maybe i misunderstood what he is trying to say, in that case ignore my questionOriginally posted by FBI:why ask tat?
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no la u know guys are always like thatr de la. My friends also the sameOriginally posted by agnelli:the threadstarter said he was shameful to tell his friends the girl he liked was not a chio bu right...i mean why must the girl he likes always be a chio bu? and what is shameful about liking a normal girl? Ok maybe i misunderstood what he is trying to say, in that case ignore my question -
alot of guys like that, superficial lah. maybe the threadstarter like the normal gal cos the gal bo-hiu him.Originally posted by FBI:no la u know guys are always like thatr de la. My friends also the same
she might have a lovely personality but still in his thread he said she not chio. guys like wat they can't get lah. 
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Then you better go bury your head in a pillow and THINK ABOUT IT 1ST before taking any further steps...? Hey. We all don't wish for you to make SILLY MISTAKES too yeah...?Originally posted by soulness:whenever i tell my fren i feeling uneasy becoz of a girl, they tend to ask me whether the girl is pretty or not
then i feel embarassed to tell them, she is not that pretty..kinda like shameful.
of coz i not saying she ugly lar. but for such girl to cause me so much pain is very rare lor
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well i dunno
i wonder if this is just a temp feeling
after a while, it might just go away?
shld i pursue or just let it die down? -
wait for a period of time then see if the feeling is still there
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I think u like her somehow....Originally posted by soulness:well i dunno
i wonder if this is just a temp feeling
after a while, it might just go away?
shld i pursue or just let it die down?
IMO, why so concerned about looks? Ok...If she is just normal looking, its fine and its ok. Whats so great about having a pretty gf?
I know guys do compare their gfs or gfs-to-be looks among htemselves. And its quite obvious that having a pretty or super chio gf will be very much an ego thingy.
If u wanna get a gf for hte sake of displaying her like a trophy, in due time, u will realise that looks alone is just not enuff.
Got looks no character = sux
Got looks no moral values = sux
Got looks no feelings = Lust
No looks no character = super sux
ok..the bottom line is.... that special feeling inside is very important. U can have Miss universe by ur side..but no feelings..how to make things work? even if tat little bro of urs is attracted to tat miss pretty girl...inside ur heart..i dont think it will pass ur conciousness. -_-
sigh...
alrite..give urself some time..
if this feelings goes off....outa sight outta mind......well..forget her.....
if it gets stronger......it could be more than just a like...