socialisation..?
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seems like im having problems talking to girls.. do not realli have much female friends.. any ways to help open myself up to girls..? been called and suspected a gay by many of my friends.. "!#@%^#(&*@%@_$@"
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First, vulgarities are not really cool with women.
It is very offensive.
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When you say something, don't repeat unless the person listening ask you to repeat.
Of course you can start swearing it wasn't your fault in having duplicate posts. -
i used to utter vulgarities.. but i realised this problem and started to stop uttering vulgarities liao.. but seems like im not realli popular among the girls.. or issit the problem lies with me?
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.... sorry for the repeated post.. something wrong with my browser.. i clicked refresh then duplicatedOriginally posted by Nelstar:When you say something, don't repeat unless the person listening ask you to repeat.
Of course you can start swearing it wasn't your fault in having duplicate posts. 
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Start looking very confident, be very nice.Originally posted by itaji:i used to utter vulgarities.. but i realised this problem and started to stop uttering vulgarities liao.. but seems like im not realli popular among the girls.. or issit the problem lies with me?
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How to be very nice? lol..Originally posted by Nelstar:Start looking very confident, be very nice. -
Let them bully you and make use of you.Originally posted by itaji:How to be very nice? lol..
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Help, when they asked for it, but within your own limits and under control. If you can't, just say sorry for not being able to help.Originally posted by itaji:How to be very nice? lol.. -
Going Poly soon.. anyway ways to increase the chance of making more female friends? lol..
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1) just be friends no other thoughts.Originally posted by itaji:Going Poly soon.. anyway ways to increase the chance of making more female friends? lol..
2) just crap with them.
3) praise them
4) change your image
5) carry things for them
6) be their listerner.
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wow. thanks for ur advicesOriginally posted by drx:1) just be friends no other thoughts.
2) just crap with them.
3) praise them
4) change your image
5) carry things for them
6) be their listerner.
7) orgainze chalet or bbq.
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First,ask yrself! what type of gal makes u comfortable? A chatty one,a humble one or a gentle one? Look for this type of gal which u feel comfortable and starts with.
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one of the best ways to socialise is to crap and talk jokes.Originally posted by itaji:wow. thanks for ur advices
Of course funny jokes la. -
got girls dat utter vulgarities oso mah..
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i hate it when they doesOriginally posted by Ito_^:got girls dat utter vulgarities oso mah.. -
true..Originally posted by FBI:i hate it when they does -
horny say horny la.. what socialisation..
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hey u know wat, his nick really sounds like yoursOriginally posted by Itachi:horny say horny la.. what socialisation.. -
lol.. yaya i noe him.. purposely deesiao one la.. another Atapji guy is coming upOriginally posted by FBI:hey u know wat, his nick really sounds like yours 
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haha wtf..Originally posted by Itachi:lol.. yaya i noe him.. purposely deesiao one la.. another Atapji guy is coming up -
i also have a social prob ... DESTINED TO BE A LONER..
pua chee bai
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don b gayedOriginally posted by Prince Cumming:i also have a social prob ... DESTINED TO BE A LONER..
pua chee bai -
having problems talking to gals doesnt render you a gay...unless you look, act like one, or else your friends wldnt call you gay....
btw, you know gay have more gal friends than normal guy?
if people says u r gay, probably your actions or the way you act makes you feel like one...probably you can start changing the fact first..
as for talking to gals, you just have to muster your courage n talk crap with them...if you hesitate, or scare of rejections, then you can happily wait at one corner and pray with your deepest sincerity that a gal will come approach you!
good luck dude..
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