should i meet him?
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just be urself...no need to over impress him...Originally posted by yoghurt:say i wanna meet him.. hw do i set a good impresison? -
go only if u are sure of ur feelings.
if u juz wana be frens, meet him like u are meeting a fren whom u have not met for a long time. Juz to catch up with each other etc.
But if u are hoping that u will patch.. then I have the same feeling as Choco B, most probably u will be hurt. Apparently, his moves prove that he is not ready for a r/s. -
Tell someone you trust to disguise as a 'someone' around , in case anything happen , the 'someone' will do something to help you at the scenc.
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15 kg for a cha bo is alot
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Probably the reason why he's doing the love-me-love-me-not act is because he's trying to make a reaction out of you. He wants you but he can't show it all because he's not sure whether your feelings for him remain. If he senses that you have already drawn a line between both of you, he can always fall back on the love-me-not excuse, thus causing less embarrassment.
I say go for it if you still loves him. Try looking as best as you can. Maybe change your style, show him that you're not the old you anymore. Remember clothes maketh the woman. -
ditto. what you been feastin on since the breakup?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:15 kg for a cha bo is alot -
I just need a very honest answer... What do you wish to get from him?Originally posted by yoghurt:i met him 3 yrs ago, he's my then best frd's brother.
things got well.. the msn-ing, phoning.. meetin up and all.. we got together but i broke up with him 4 mths down the road. i was his first love.
3 years on, he sms-es me.. talk to me online and phones me. probably repeat of history.. but it stops dere. thing is.. he comes and goes.. he's AMBIGIOUS. as in.. sometimes he treats me as a frd, sometimes more than tat, sometimes less than a frd, sometimes asks me out, sometimes disappears for days then out of a sudden sms-es me and the circle starts again. he would say things like, "rmb 3 yrs ago.............." and all the sweet memories come gushing back then after awhile he would disappear, no sms-es, no nothing and treat me 'coldly'. then he asked me out. i dunno if i should meet him, firstly becos i put on 15kgs since i last met him, i dun wanna freak him out. secondly, wad if he wants to take 'revenge' or is jus tryin to be funny? if i should meet him, i wanna impress the guy.. hw should i do it? hw should i talk, body language.. etc? or should i nt meet him at all???
when he calls me we'd talk till wee hrs in the mornin kinda thing.. u noe wad i mean..
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HI OLD BIRD...Originally posted by Inzaghi:just be urself...no need to over impress him...
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do u still like him?
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:15 kg for a cha bo is alot
could jus be puberty.. who knows, she may be well endowed nowOriginally posted by nullifi3d:ditto. what you been feastin on since the breakup? -
well im 20 and im on contraceptives for coming 3 yrs cos ive gt no regular period. and it makes me put on hell lot of weight. but im tryin to diet though.
thanks for the replies. i believe he has too much pride to just do somethin bout it. misleadin me really hurts. i thought of buyin his fave Bounty Chocs and send it to his place.. wad do u guys think? would i look stupid?? i do want his attention, so probably yea, i've got an infactuation? -
That's not infatuation; infatuation don't last for years. You really should go for it. Get his attention, who knows, things might just turn out the way you want it. Look on the bright side. I say you go girl!
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No this is too much
Showing over-eagerness would give him too much powerOriginally posted by yoghurt:i thought of buyin his fave Bounty Chocs and send it to his place.. wad do u guys think? would i look stupid?? i do want his attention, so probably yea, i've got an infactuation? -
yea i guess i just dun have the confidence of meeting any guy cos of my weight. i feel un-sexy and tat sucks. it brings you down thinking tat he might get turn off and dun wanna bother talkin to u after tat.. i dun want tat to happen. silly it might seem but i love the attention frm him although i noe dat if he'd judge me by my looks, he's nt worth it. but i cant help wanting his attention. anyone has the same situation??
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If this is the case then I recommend you doll yourself up and meet him ASAP so that you know for sure what he's playing at and if he is superficial or not.Originally posted by yoghurt:it brings you down thinking tat he might get turn off and dun wanna bother talkin to u after tat.. i dun want tat to happen. silly it might seem but i love the attention frm him although i noe dat if he'd judge me by my looks, he's nt worth it.
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hmm, pardon me, but why are you on contraceptives in the first place?Originally posted by yoghurt:well im 20 and im on contraceptives for coming 3 yrs cos ive gt no regular period. and it makes me put on hell lot of weight. but im tryin to diet though.
thanks for the replies. i believe he has too much pride to just do somethin bout it. misleadin me really hurts. i thought of buyin his fave Bounty Chocs and send it to his place.. wad do u guys think? would i look stupid?? i do want his attention, so probably yea, i've got an infactuation? -
alright guys, im so gonna meet him. shall get all pretty and take my dad's car to pick him up. goodness i sound like the guy here. see i dun wan him to think im dressing up purposely for him (although i noe i am), so any tips frm the boys on wad's not considered TOO MUCH/LOUD?
hopefully i wont suffer from a negative set back and fall into greater agony. i sooo need someone to talk to right now. sigh. all my gfs think im stupid to do this... -
hmm..tube top plus a skirt?.....hahaha......or if u keeping it simple den jeans n tee lorhz.......Originally posted by yoghurt:alright guys, im so gonna meet him. shall get all pretty and take my dad's car to pick him up. goodness i sound like the guy here. see i dun wan him to think im dressing up purposely for him (although i noe i am), so any tips frm the boys on wad's not considered TOO MUCH/LOUD?
hopefully i wont suffer from a negative set back and fall into greater agony. i sooo need someone to talk to right now. sigh. all my gfs think im stupid to do this...
too loud ar?....eh......dun wear mini skirt.....haha well though i personally wont find dat is too loud.......but for some guys i noe dey tink it is v loud........ -
Go for e sake of urself.... wanna 'lure' him.... wear something for him to 'beow'... juz wanna meet then see how... maybe juz jeans wif tank top or so lor... better dun reveal too much.... hahaOriginally posted by yoghurt:alright guys, im so gonna meet him. shall get all pretty and take my dad's car to pick him up. goodness i sound like the guy here. see i dun wan him to think im dressing up purposely for him (although i noe i am), so any tips frm the boys on wad's not considered TOO MUCH/LOUD?
hopefully i wont suffer from a negative set back and fall into greater agony. i sooo need someone to talk to right now. sigh. all my gfs think im stupid to do this... -
no prob Coffeeortea. i get tat alot.
well at first i suffered frm polycystic ovaries meanin my ovaries arent functioning properly in general. then i had to remove my left ovary due to health probs and so.. TADA! i dun have no period and it's unhealthy for a girl not to bleed so yea my gynae prescribed me wif the Pill, Diane 35. it gives me a 2 hr period once in 2 mths.
well if ur intending to go on contraceptives, try another brand, the one tat starts wif a H**** cos it dun make u gain weight tat badly. for me i bought the Pills at one short so i dun wanna spend $$ buying the other brand. unless ur medically unwell like me, try not to take too much contraceptives cos it lessens ur chances of gettin pregnant in future yea.
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seems even kanna 'eaten' also no scared la..... do watever u wan.... be urself... life is short mann...........Originally posted by yoghurt:well im 20 and im on contraceptives for coming 3 yrs cos ive gt no regular period. and it makes me put on hell lot of weight. but im tryin to diet though.
thanks for the replies. i believe he has too much pride to just do somethin bout it. misleadin me really hurts. i thought of buyin his fave Bounty Chocs and send it to his place.. wad do u guys think? would i look stupid?? i do want his attention, so probably yea, i've got an infactuation?
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I wouldn't say it's stupid......it's FOOLish...Originally posted by yoghurt:alright guys, im so gonna meet him. shall get all pretty and take my dad's car to pick him up. goodness i sound like the guy here. see i dun wan him to think im dressing up purposely for him (although i noe i am), so any tips frm the boys on wad's not considered TOO MUCH/LOUD?
hopefully i wont suffer from a negative set back and fall into greater agony. i sooo need someone to talk to right now. sigh.
all my gfs think im stupid to do this...
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D35 can cure skin prob.... haha... those got pimples can take... lol.... Do i got it correct?Originally posted by yoghurt:no prob Coffeeortea. i get tat alot.
well at first i suffered frm polycystic ovaries meanin my ovaries arent functioning properly in general. then i had to remove my left ovary due to health probs and so.. TADA! i dun have no period and it's unhealthy for a girl not to bleed so yea my gynae prescribed me wif the Pill, Diane 35. it gives me a 2 hr period once in 2 mths.
well if ur intending to go on contraceptives, try another brand, the one tat starts wif a H**** cos it dun make u gain weight tat badly. for me i bought the Pills at one short so i dun wanna spend $$ buying the other brand. unless ur medically unwell like me, try not to take too much contraceptives cos it lessens ur chances of gettin pregnant in future yea.
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Hey Mod... pity her la... at her age... step went wrong... that's it... that's y exploring here also... da la....Originally posted by M©+square:I wouldn't say it's stupid......it's FOOLish...
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I think you're being stupid too...Originally posted by yoghurt:alright guys, im so gonna meet him. shall get all pretty and take my dad's car to pick him up. goodness i sound like the guy here. see i dun wan him to think im dressing up purposely for him (although i noe i am), so any tips frm the boys on wad's not considered TOO MUCH/LOUD?
hopefully i wont suffer from a negative set back and fall into greater agony. i sooo need someone to talk to right now. sigh. all my gfs think im stupid to do this...
You are who you are so why bother to do so much just to deceive yourself and deceive him...? If you need to be doing all these to get to him, where would that get you? How far would you go? How long would you last? And how would it end up to be...?
I'm not sure exactly what you're looking for from him.. And how he might be treating or thinking of you... But seriously... If it's all too superficial, how do you suppose it would end...? You ready to post a new thread after he have done something nasty to you or reject you...?
Hmm... If you really need something to talk to, you can always PM me...?