My gf dumped me yesterday.
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My gf dumped me yesterday. What can I do to make myself feel better? I am not intending to wallow in self pity nor go drinking to drown the sorrows. I'm intending to live happily like what I should be. But right now, I am heart broken and sad and down with cold and sore throat. I am feeling down really, but still gotta work and live on nonetheless.
What should I do? Go shopping? Go have a big feast? Go watch movies myself? Run around orchard? Stay at home and do work? Rent some movies and watch at home? Find female friends to hang out (bad idea?). Find male friends to hang out (good idea?). I still have alot of work to do so mostly I'll have to stay at home and do the work I guess... Just because of my personal problems, is not reason enough to let it affect my work and clients. *sigh*. I just got out from reservist yesterday, thinking meeting her up would be a good idea, turns out it's a bad decision. Even though I am sickly yesterday, she doesn't seems to care. Ask her to buy me panadol from seven eleven she also lazy to do so. *sigh*.
Sorry to have to complain, but needed to get it off my chest. -
/Mc pat pat.
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go play ur freegames...
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the old one must go to make room for the new one
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welcome to the 'kena-dumped-by-gf' club.
wad i did was to go out wiv my guy friends.. go out alone to national lib, town.. cycle.. yah. that's abt it. -
Organize a outing...see who wants to go.
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Hmm...talk to some of the frens you trust, it will make you feel better.
And it is not the end of the world...she has been in your life for some reasons, and be glad she was once part of your life.
But life must go on and time waits for no one, even if you feel like your heart has been broken into pieces.
Take some time to heal, and then face the world bravely again. You will find the right person one day -
yeah... welcome to the club..
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You haven't sleep???Originally posted by rainee:Hmm...talk to some of the frens you trust, it will make you feel better.
And it is not the end of the world...she has been in your life for some reasons, and be glad she was once part of your life.
But life must go on and time waits for no one, even if you feel like your heart has been broken into pieces.
Take some time to heal, and then face the world bravely again. You will find the right person one day
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Hmm.....i didn't get the latest news about you.Originally posted by Mao x 2:yeah... welcome to the club.. -
only 11pm here...I won't sleep so early one wor...Originally posted by M©+square:You haven't sleep???
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woohoo!!! i can disturb you liao!Originally posted by rainee:only 11pm here...I won't sleep so early one wor... -
I got exam tomorrow leh...taking a little break now...back to books soonOriginally posted by M©+square:woohoo!!! i can disturb you liao!
disturb me the day after tomorrow can la -
Me same case again lor..Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm.....i didn't get the latest news about you.
sigh.. it's over anyway. got to move one la.. -
Tsk......Originally posted by rainee:I got exam tomorrow leh...taking a little break now...back to books soon
disturb me the day after tomorrow can la 
Ok.
M© continues topic. -
Originally posted by Mao x 2:Me same case again lor..
sigh.. it's over anyway. got to move one la.. 
Gambatte. Domo! -
why she dumped you
you neber say leh -
Pat Pat... Looks like its back to the Bachelor's club for you
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There are so many reasons that I have no idea where to start. I am causing her stress... She says she is always the one holding on to the relationship. She puts most of the blame on me. Although there were alot of things that I have done secretly, alot of things I should have said, but I didn't, and that makes me seem like I wasn't doing anything for the relationship. When she needs money, I gave it to her, I put her above me, sacrificing all my money to give her. When she has problems, I try to solve it for her. She likes to spend money, and I tell her she shouldn't do that, she doesn't care. And yesterday, I tested her and ask if she can treat me to a movie, she opens up her wallet and show me the $2 left. She bought a new 02 Atom phone recently, so she has money to buy that phone but no money to treat me to the movie, and yesterday is monday, it's cheaper. Anyway, that was just a test, money means so much to her that this relationship is doomed had I been poor. She wasn't like this in the past, that's why I loved her so much. She will spend money on me, even if I did pay her back every cent, but it makes me very happy. Then, things started to change some time back. She became obsessed with things and money. As I've said, there were alot of things I've done for her and only need her to keep her word, but she didn't. One example is when she had a mountain of debts on her credit cards, and I paid part of it for her, in the end managed to clear all the debts, nearly $9k of it. All I asked is that she cut up those credit cards now that the debts has cleared, but she couldn't, she said she won't use it, just keep it. Now a few months later, she chalked up debts again, I am giving up hope. I stop giving her money because it's a lost cause, I need to save money to get a house in the future, to give my kid a nice life, but it didn't matter to her what the future will be, she only cares about her life now, she can't endure hardships, she needs to buy new clothes every month, needs to eat expensive food every month, spending beyond her means. There's so many things that I know this relationship won't last, yet I keep hoping one day things would change. It won't change, so I have to move on I guess. And to think I was so faithful, won't even look at other girls, and I don't even go find whores. I know life isn't fair, so I won't rant further, anyway I'm dumped so I'm moving on.Originally posted by mrsmall:why she dumped you
you neber say leh -
wah.. sad
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Umm mayb do things tt u enjoy lor.. then u happy le will not tink so much le
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try save up a little bit of money and splurge on sth which u really wanted to buy?
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From what you describe, you should be glad she leaves you...otherwise you are going to suffer for the rest of your life trying to accomodate her spending habit.
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plot to destroy her life and/or kill her
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heh? so fast?Originally posted by Mao x 2:yeah... welcome to the club..