My gf dumped me yesterday.
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I first started dating at 21 yrs old, if I remember right. Altogether, I have 3 steady gf. The first 2 lasted only 3 months each due to problems, this one lasted about 4 years. My first gf was 5 yrs older than me, the second was 4 years younger than me, and this one is 8 yrs my senior. I had the second gf because my friends say I should try to get a younger gf because that is the right thing to do, apparently I did try and it didn't work out. She's pretty though but still only lasted 3 months nonetheless. I like ladies that are older than me, probably 3 years older is great, but even 1 year older also good lah. I really don't care, as long as she is older than me. Sort of like, you know, I really appreciate matured ladies. I don't like ladies who anyhow throw tantrums like a spoilt child.Originally posted by M©+square:Firstly i want to thank you for being frank to yourself and this forum.
Secondly, all three points sounded reasonable and i understand where you're coming from.
Older ladies, how old is old to you? 1-5 years older? Somehow that explains why you went into irc and other means...
Everyone wished that their prince/princess will appear one day. Fair enough.
Thirdly, may i ask? What is your frequency of having a girlfriend?
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Yeah, I do work mon-sun but because I'm doing flexible hours, I can work and stop work when I wanted to so most of the time I try to go out with my gf and spend time during the weekends, despite all the work and responsiblities.Originally posted by zeny:dude look at yourself.
you are working mon-sun.
How do you expect your gf to meet up with at all?
Girls like someone to pei them at least spent time with them.
Older ladies are higher to maintain, they want more and will come to you only if you can meet their standard and to be mature enough for them, so please if you want older ones think carefully first.
Since you find sg ladies are over the limit then why not try finding someone from other countries then?
You do not make an effort to go out to find one and here you are dreaming away and hoping a princess to come. This is not dreamland. Wake up lar.
I am matured enough to hang out with older woman, I am sure of that. But my looks, well, it didn't look old enough. I look like a 19 yrs old boy despite being at 25 yrs old, and I don't think I will look any older anytime soon.
It's easy to say alot of things here, but then in real life, it's not as easy as talking you know. Otherwise, everyone would have a perfect love life, had it been as simple as what you've suggested. -
time heals all wounds
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Since you are so used to the dating game why borther asking us?Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:I first started dating at 21 yrs old, if I remember right. Altogether, I have 3 steady gf. The first 2 lasted only 3 months each due to problems, this one lasted about 4 years. My first gf was 5 yrs older than me, the second was 4 years younger than me, and this one is 8 yrs my senior. I had the second gf because my friends say I should try to get a younger gf because that is the right thing to do, apparently I did try and it didn't work out. She's pretty though but still only lasted 3 months nonetheless. I like ladies that are older than me, probably 3 years older is great, but even 1 year older also good lah. I really don't care, as long as she is older than me. Sort of like, you know, I really appreciate matured ladies. I don't like ladies who anyhow throw tantrums like a spoilt child.
You know what you want and is only time only ma.
Just wait lar no point thinking too much -
I didn't know having only 3 gf in my whole life is considered as someone so used to the dating game... weird... Easy to say don't think so hard but when you suffered a broken heart then you may know how it actually feels like... There was 1 girl I really like and until now, about 8 yrs already and I still hope that I will get in contact with her again... Still miss her alot coz I will always remember one thing she told me about money. It leaves me a very good impression of her. Last time we argue and I stop contacting her due to some misunderstandings, and then shortly after she changed phone number... email also gone... If she happens to play sgforums... if your name is Beth and surname ends with starts with "L" then look for meeeee. Her email, now defunct already, was [email protected]Originally posted by zeny:Since you are so used to the dating game why borther asking us?
You know what you want and is only time only ma.
Just wait lar no point thinking too much -
oh yeah, last time I am very hot tempered, easily angry over small things and for a very long time bear grudges!!! Now I have improved ler, matured ler...
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A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked. "Who would like this $20 bill?"
Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you - but first, let me do this."
He proceeded to crumple the 20 dollar note up. He then asked. "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air.
"Well," he replied, "what if I do this?" He dropped it on the
ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now, who still wants it?"
Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No
matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless; but no matter what happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.
Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still
priceless to those who love you. The worth of our lives comes, not in what we do or who we know, but by ...WHO WE ARE.
You are special - don't ever forget it."
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hey go out n haf fun man!! i never get dumped la.. but me also broke off with my gf.. tt time i so bloody sad..then i go out everyday wah so fun!! trust me..got so many nicer gals out there... now my ex gf everyday also call me.. wan patch back..haha.. but i like my single-hood now. trust me bro.. after some time u be ok one.. just live life normally.. n never look back even she come back to u. remember.. once u spit.. dun take back that spit..dirty n contagious.. lolx..Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:My gf dumped me yesterday. What can I do to make myself feel better? I am not intending to wallow in self pity nor go drinking to drown the sorrows. I'm intending to live happily like what I should be. But right now, I am heart broken and sad and down with cold and sore throat. I am feeling down really, but still gotta work and live on nonetheless.
What should I do? Go shopping? Go have a big feast? Go watch movies myself? Run around orchard? Stay at home and do work? Rent some movies and watch at home? Find female friends to hang out (bad idea?). Find male friends to hang out (good idea?). I still have alot of work to do so mostly I'll have to stay at home and do the work I guess... Just because of my personal problems, is not reason enough to let it affect my work and clients. *sigh*. I just got out from reservist yesterday, thinking meeting her up would be a good idea, turns out it's a bad decision. Even though I am sickly yesterday, she doesn't seems to care. Ask her to buy me panadol from seven eleven she also lazy to do so. *sigh*.
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give some money to me.it will make you feel happier.really!serious!Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:My gf dumped me yesterday. What can I do to make myself feel better? I am not intending to wallow in self pity nor go drinking to drown the sorrows. I'm intending to live happily like what I should be. But right now, I am heart broken and sad and down with cold and sore throat. I am feeling down really, but still gotta work and live on nonetheless.
What should I do? Go shopping? Go have a big feast? Go watch movies myself? Run around orchard? Stay at home and do work? Rent some movies and watch at home? Find female friends to hang out (bad idea?). Find male friends to hang out (good idea?). I still have alot of work to do so mostly I'll have to stay at home and do the work I guess... Just because of my personal problems, is not reason enough to let it affect my work and clients. *sigh*. I just got out from reservist yesterday, thinking meeting her up would be a good idea, turns out it's a bad decision. Even though I am sickly yesterday, she doesn't seems to care. Ask her to buy me panadol from seven eleven she also lazy to do so. *sigh*.
Sorry to have to complain, but needed to get it off my chest.
trust me!
*stretches hand
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Originally posted by Pommes frites:give some money to me.it will make you feel happier.really!serious!
trust me!
*stretches hand 
Please state your abilities and specialities.
/run away