how do you express love?
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love is like the hardest emotion/feeling to express.
so how do you express love?
some people say to love is to sacrifice.
some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?
some say to love is no matter what.
what is this no matter what? do whatever our SO wants, or to please them entirely?
some say make them happy, never to shed a tear or show a frown.
yet without tears and frowns, would they know they are happy?
giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?
just a little thought from me. -
I drive a car off tuas pier.
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the little gestures in everyday life to show tat u care, love which makes that person feels taken cared of and of importance to you..
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Just a thought to pre justify your thought.Originally posted by bladez87:love is like the hardest emotion/feeling to express.
so how do you express love?
some people say to love is to sacrifice.
some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?
some say to love is no matter what.
what is this no matter what? do whatever our SO wants, or to please them entirely?
some say make them happy, never to shed a tear or show a frown.
yet without tears and frowns, would they know they are happy?
giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?
just a little thought from me.
What is Love to you? -
now this is the question that is more confusing than how to express it.Originally posted by M©+square:Just a thought to pre justify your thought.
What is Love to you? -
Thread starter got to answer this himself so support his thoughts.Originally posted by coffeeortea:now this is the question that is more confusing than how to express it.
If not, his thoughts are just like wind....
substance without weight. -
im still in search of true love. when i finally found mine, i tell you how okay.
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All are all eager to find and tell.....Originally posted by thousandisland:im still in search of true love. when i finally found mine, i tell you how okay.
Ok i'll wait. -
it may be so.. but then his post does makes sense. actually the answer is in his post.. love to him is... "complicated"Originally posted by M©+square:Thread starter got to answer this himself so support his thoughts.
If not, his thoughts are just like wind....
substance without weight. -
To me i read it his thoughts of LOVE = WORK.Originally posted by dibilo:it may be so.. but then his post does makes sense. actually the answer is in his post.. love to him is... "complicated"
He have the answer to this thoughts. I'm just interested to know what is Love to him.
Let's hear from him. My verdict will be clear rom his next reply.
What is most interesting is: Aquarius find Expressing(emphasis) LOVE most illogical....but LOVE itself is very real to them.
To translate 'that' into action is just as difficult as a human's ability to comprehend what a foreign language is to him/her. -
got pay pier tax? water-driving tax?Originally posted by ditzy:I drive a car off tuas pier. -
being there for that special someone, supporting him/her as they go through difficulties.
be the one who goes thru their ups and downs with.
frm time-to-time, give gifts to the other party to show your gratitude for their presence in your life.
laugh with them, cry with them, smile with them.
offer sound advice if they need it.
exploring life/the future with him/her.
just random thoughts as i think of the topic and i type it out quickly. hope it suffice.
i am single btw. no one to love. no one to express love to.
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hide notes + gifts in her bag/pencil case/etc for her to find when im not around
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Love doesn't go by anyone's rules. What people have said are mostly about their experiences, & we should only ever take them as guidelines. If love went by rules, then it'd be too much like a game, too much like a job. Love wouldn't be classified as matters of the heart, it'd be known as matters of the mind.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by bladez87:love is like the hardest emotion/feeling to express.
so how do you express love?
some people say to love is to sacrifice.
some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?
some say to love is no matter what.
what is this no matter what? do whatever our SO wants, or to please them entirely?
some say make them happy, never to shed a tear or show a frown.
yet without tears and frowns, would they know they are happy?
giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?
just a little thought from me. -
Love can be a form of communication....Originally posted by bladez87:love is like the hardest emotion/feeling to express.
so how do you express love?
some people say to love is to sacrifice.
some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?
some say to love is no matter what.
what is this no matter what? do whatever our SO wants, or to please them entirely?
some say make them happy, never to shed a tear or show a frown.
yet without tears and frowns, would they know they are happy?
giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?
just a little thought from me.
Do you know how to communicate...?
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so how do you express love?
"some people say to love is to sacrifice.
some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?"
First of all sacrificing means expecting nothing in return
They will know u are good by comparing u with previous. If no previuos then the later bf they have.
"giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?"
Too much will mean that giving over disposable income and eating into 5% of yr savings. For e.g yr income is 2k per month but u buy her a gift of 10k. Too little is to help her buy 4D and tell her it will sure strike one. The money she can keep.
What a believe in is just to be attentive to her needs. -
There is no defination for love.
For the feeling is so inexplicable, yet to all of us it means different meanings.
For me, i feel that to love someone, you have to be ready to go through a huge number of test which ultimately may prove how sincere or how deep you love her. -
if u really love.. u will be able to express love literally or in actions..
it might not be deliberate.. coz it will come from ur heart. -
You took the words outta my mouth! *claps claps* BRAVO
It's those gestures done outta love, spontaneous & Not just done to impress, that mean the most
FeowFeowOriginally posted by browniebaobao:if u really love.. u will be able to express love literally or in actions..
it might not be deliberate.. coz it will come from ur heart. -
ok to me. love is complicated, differs from being to being, illogical, yet is a very important part in our life. i am aquarius. lol. no i dont see love as work. maybe i no think of it so far. will write down more when i feeling better. now migraine.Originally posted by M©+square:To me i read it his thoughts of LOVE = WORK.
He have the answer to this thoughts. I'm just interested to know what is Love to him.
Let's hear from him. My verdict will be clear rom his next reply.
What is most interesting is: Aquarius find Expressing(emphasis) LOVE most illogical....but LOVE itself is very real to them.
To translate 'that' into action is just as difficult as a human's ability to comprehend what a foreign language is to him/her.
i came up with this topic because
1 day i went to a dessert stall. i ordered mixed fruit cocktail or something like that. but the husband go serve me a bowl of jelly and ice. so the wife nagged at him la. then told him to go open a can of fruit cocktail. but the man didnt open properly and started using his hands to open the lid. so his wife again scolded him for using his hands to open the lid. then she kept scolding him to be careful and stuff like this. all this while the husband was shaking his head.
then i was there thinking. obviously the wife loves her husband, by telling him to take care when opening the can. but yet she chose to nag at him. and he is there shaking his head.
then came my thoughts, we know we love someone, yet sometimes we dont know how to express our love. if we were to nag our love like the lady, her husband will not actually get her love and concern. so we should talk it out in a nice gentle way. but how often do we remember to do this? perhaps in the beginning of the r/s we will be nice sweet gentle. but after long we will actually forget how to express our love and concern.
then i thought we all know how to express our other emotions like hatred, anger, happiness, sadness. yet why is it we find it so hard to express love in a way that the other party gets the message?
ya lor . so i post here.
in life , the hardest emotion/feeling to express is love. -
nagging is a very irritating form of showing care and concern..
but, simply put, it is by far the easiest way to show love.. -
[Rude & Disgusting reply edited by FeowFeow. Mahai said that he isn't loved because he is ill brought up]Originally posted by FeowFeow:Love doesn't go by anyone's rules. What people have said are mostly about their experiences, & we should only ever take them as guidelines. If love went by rules, then it'd be too much like a game, too much like a job. Love wouldn't be classified as matters of the heart, it'd be known as matters of the mind.
FeowFeow -
usually the ones who really love us will say things which we don't like to hear. ie nagging, scolding etc. then again, its becoz they really care.
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Morning Feow!Originally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:[Rude & Disgusting reply edited by FeowFeow. Mahai said that he isn't loved because he is ill brought up]
Good one! -
Yeah, it depends on one's expriences.
To me, one form of expression is to able to keep a promise without sounding like a promise.