how do you express love?

• Apollo_sg

  14 Mar 06, 08:49

  your heartbeat is at a constant.. but is ur life journey a constant? love is not a constant. there r variables to make it up and down. one variable is lust, another is called mistrust. becos it is a complex equation, of 2 components, male and female. you do not hv a certain answer.
  
  and becos there is no certain answer, why seek?
  
  do you know how to bring your love life up at times? or rather prefer a mudane monotone?
  
  
• FeowFeow

  14 Mar 06, 10:24

  Morning
  
  I'm ok with free speech & differing views, but offensive & non-constructive replies shall be deleted
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Morning Feow!
  
  Good one!

• nullifi3d

  14 Mar 06, 11:01

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  love is like the hardest emotion/feeling to express.
  
  so how do you express love?
  
  some people say to love is to sacrifice.
  some of us who believe in that do sacrifice but will the sacrifices be appreciated?
  
  some say to love is no matter what.
  what is this no matter what? do whatever our SO wants, or to please them entirely?
  
  some say make them happy, never to shed a tear or show a frown.
  yet without tears and frowns, would they know they are happy?
  
  giving too much will be taken for granted. yet how much is too much?
  giving too little will give the sign we dont care, but is that really the case?
  
  just a little thought from me.
  
  

  Show your wallet
• Devil1976

  14 Mar 06, 12:02

  Originally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:

  [Rude & Disgusting reply edited by FeowFeow. Mahai said that he isn't loved because he is ill brought up]

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• Devil1976

  14 Mar 06, 12:06

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  ok to me. love is complicated, differs from being to being, illogical, yet is a very important part in our life. i am aquarius. lol. no i dont see love as work. maybe i no think of it so far. will write down more when i feeling better. now migraine.
  
  i came up with this topic because
  1 day i went to a dessert stall. i ordered mixed fruit cocktail or something like that. but the husband go serve me a bowl of jelly and ice. so the wife nagged at him la. then told him to go open a can of fruit cocktail. but the man didnt open properly and started using his hands to open the lid. so his wife again scolded him for using his hands to open the lid. then she kept scolding him to be careful and stuff like this. all this while the husband was shaking his head.
  
  then i was there thinking. obviously the wife loves her husband, by telling him to take care when opening the can. but yet she chose to nag at him. and he is there shaking his head.
  
  then came my thoughts, we know we love someone, yet sometimes we dont know how to express our love. if we were to nag our love like the lady, her husband will not actually get her love and concern. so we should talk it out in a nice gentle way. but how often do we remember to do this? perhaps in the beginning of the r/s we will be nice sweet gentle. but after long we will actually forget how to express our love and concern.
  
  then i thought we all know how to express our other emotions like hatred, anger, happiness, sadness. yet why is it we find it so hard to express love in a way that the other party gets the message?
  
  ya lor . so i post here.
  
  in life , the hardest emotion/feeling to express is love.

  To speak the language of 'love', you've got to be thinking in its entities...
• M©+square

  15 Mar 06, 16:38

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  ok to me. love is complicated, differs from being to being, illogical, yet is a very important part in our life. i am aquarius. lol. no i dont see love as work. maybe i no think of it so far. will write down more when i feeling better. now migraine.
  
  i came up with this topic because
  1 day i went to a dessert stall. i ordered mixed fruit cocktail or something like that. but the husband go serve me a bowl of jelly and ice. so the wife nagged at him la. then told him to go open a can of fruit cocktail. but the man didnt open properly and started using his hands to open the lid. so his wife again scolded him for using his hands to open the lid. then she kept scolding him to be careful and stuff like this. all this while the husband was shaking his head.
  
  then i was there thinking. obviously the wife loves her husband, by telling him to take care when opening the can. but yet she chose to nag at him. and he is there shaking his head.
  
  then came my thoughts, we know we love someone, yet sometimes we dont know how to express our love. if we were to nag our love like the lady, her husband will not actually get her love and concern. so we should talk it out in a nice gentle way. but how often do we remember to do this? perhaps in the beginning of the r/s we will be nice sweet gentle. but after long we will actually forget how to express our love and concern.
  
  then i thought we all know how to express our other emotions like hatred, anger, happiness, sadness. yet why is it we find it so hard to express love in a way that the other party gets the message?
  
  ya lor . so i post here.
  
  in life , the hardest emotion/feeling to express is love.

  Waiting for you to complete your writings.