How can a person likes another person in such a short time?
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For example, if this girl is quiet and demure, but the other girl is loud and rowdy. This guys, he likes the quiet one, but after that, this loud girl starts to hang out with him and things starts to turn around. I can tell the guy doesn't like this girl but she just keep hanging on to him
Since the loud girl is brave enough to show her feelings, do you think it's possible that they both can become potential couples? What do you think of guys falling in love with another in such a short time? -
easy come, easy go
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because the girl has made a greater impact on the guy.
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nothing is impossible.
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Sigh maybe..
I am quite selfish to say this, but even though im not his official girlfriend, I really hate to see him ending up with her. I rather he go gay or date other girls. This girl, she's such a bully, always taking advantage..so if he really ends up with her, all I can say is, if you don't accept me enough, why did you like and stalk me in the first place??
Guys, what do you think? -
so you're the quiet gal?
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If the guy likes the quiet girl(or you), get him to do the chase.Originally posted by jam on a bread:Sigh maybe..
I am quite selfish to say this, but even though im not his official girlfriend, I really hate to see him ending up with her. I rather he go gay or date other girls. This girl, she's such a bully, always taking advantage..so if he really ends up with her, all I can say is, if you don't accept me enough, why did you like and stalk me in the first place??
Guys, what do you think?
Unless, if you like him more then he likes you....then you do the chase.
Give obvious hints.
Why did he allow her to bully him? -
Yep, I am. Issit because he see me good to bully and not enough support from people so he like anyhow likes me? His eyes, his actions, his stalking..I can tell. Haix, I don't know what to say, but I can't blame him though, he's handsome (unfortunately, gosh what a 'burden' for me to carry!) so the girls naturally flock to him..Originally posted by sinicker:so you're the quiet gal?
But you see, I have mixed feelings. At one time, I felt it's a blessing in disguise that I need not need to feel insecure to see him flirting with other girls. At another time, I thought that he might turn out to be a faithful lover if he found the right girl and I just missed the chance.
I don't know much about him but when we hook eyes with each other, I felt like we have been together for centuries and the love is still there (chinese saying ' lau fu lau qi'? correct me if im wrong)
Haix..tell me what should I do? -
Hmm.....that means you don't know him as friend....no constant contact or communication.Originally posted by jam on a bread:Yep, I am. Issit because he see me good to bully and not enough support from people so he like anyhow likes me? His eyes, his actions, his stalking..I can tell. Haix, I don't know what to say, but I can't blame him though, he's handsome (unfortunately, gosh what a 'burden' for me to carry!) so the girls naturally flock to him..
But you see, I have mixed feelings. At one time, I felt it's a blessing in disguise that I need not need to feel insecure to see him flirting with other girls. At another time, I thought that he might turn out to be a faithful lover if he found the right girl and I just missed the chance.
I don't know much about him but when we hook eyes with each other, I felt like we have been together for centuries and the love is still there (chinese saying ' lau fu lau qi'? correct me if im wrong)
Haix..tell me what should I do? -
Haix, she got her sisters to back her up and somemore, the guy is friends with one of her sisters, or should I say everyone of them. This guy is very sociable, but what can I say..opposites attract. When we first met, we didn't like each other..Now? I'm feeling sooo frustrated.Originally posted by M©+square:If the guy likes the quiet girl(or you), get him to do the chase.
Unless, if you like him more then he likes you....then you do the chase.
Give obvious hints.
Why did he allow her to bully him? -
whoa...love from a past life?Originally posted by jam on a bread:Yep, I am. Issit because he see me good to bully and not enough support from people so he like anyhow likes me? His eyes, his actions, his stalking..I can tell. Haix, I don't know what to say, but I can't blame him though, he's handsome (unfortunately, gosh what a 'burden' for me to carry!) so the girls naturally flock to him..
But you see, I have mixed feelings. At one time, I felt it's a blessing in disguise that I need not need to feel insecure to see him flirting with other girls. At another time, I thought that he might turn out to be a faithful lover if he found the right girl and I just missed the chance.
I don't know much about him but when we hook eyes with each other, I felt like we have been together for centuries and the love is still there (chinese saying ' lau fu lau qi'? correct me if im wrong)
Haix..tell me what should I do?
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Puppy love?Originally posted by jam on a bread:Haix, she got her sisters to back her up and somemore, the guy is friends with one of her sisters, or should I say everyone of them. This guy is very sociable, but what can I say..opposites attract. When we first met, we didn't like each other..Now? I'm feeling sooo frustrated. -
This is what you called.. "I need a new hobby to kill time"
For a moment I thought you were the noisy girl =]
Just don't think so much and let it take it's course. If he is yours, he is, if he is not, no point getting all angry over. In the end, you're just gonna age faster.
Alternatively you can contact me for a new boyfriend-to-be thing. hiaks.
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it happens. but like someone said, easy come easy go too...Originally posted by jam on a bread:For example, if this girl is quiet and demure, but the other girl is loud and rowdy. This guys, he likes the quiet one, but after that, this loud girl starts to hang out with him and things starts to turn around. I can tell the guy doesn't like this girl but she just keep hanging on to him
Since the loud girl is brave enough to show her feelings, do you think it's possible that they both can become potential couples? What do you think of guys falling in love with another in such a short time? -
You mentioned that he's handsome.. Is he a flirt? Does he really matters that much to you...?Originally posted by jam on a bread:Haix, she got her sisters to back her up and somemore, the guy is friends with one of her sisters, or should I say everyone of them. This guy is very sociable, but what can I say..opposites attract. When we first met, we didn't like each other..Now? I'm feeling sooo frustrated.
All I can say for now is... If you're INTERESTED in him, be MORE PROACTIVE...
If he's REALLY interested in you, your LITTLE ACTIONS should be DOING MIRACLES....
If he's a flirt (who couldn't really be bother with you) or he's not really interested in you... Would it make any positive difference as to even what you could be doing hereafter...
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Guys are very easy to manipulate.
Show some skin and they are yours. -
Wow you are such a romantic... hook eyes 'lau fu lau qi'?Originally posted by jam on a bread:I don't know much about him but when we hook eyes with each other, I felt like we have been together for centuries and the love is still there (chinese saying ' lau fu lau qi'? correct me if im wrong)
Haix..tell me what should I do?
What you want is a boy who feels like that about you.
When a girl feels like that, it is dangerous for the girl because she will give herself to him and he tells her bye bye after taking advantage of her.
But if a boy feels that way for the girl, then the girl is treated like a princes and he is willing to die for her.
That is why in the olden days, a girl never approach a boy. If a boy likes her, then he approach her and she plays hard to get to see if he really likes her. Otherwise the boy, like most boys will simply sleep with her and then find another to sleep with. -
if u like him then go for him. some guys might be touch to see a girl mustering so much courage to tell him that she like him. Cautious!!! Dont go all the way like in the movies.
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Cannot do that. Boys can sleep with any girl even the ones they don't like. Unless the girl don't mind getting dumped after sleeping with the boy, then it is better to let the boy make the first move. She might encourage him a little but not "go for him."!!!!!Originally posted by NewAge:if u like him then go for him. some guys might be touch to see a girl mustering so much courage to tell him that she like him. Cautious!!! Dont go all the way like in the movies. -
ROFL! maybe that works on MEN but i know that doesn't work on teenage boys. In my school.. any girl who shorten's their skirt, all the boys will label them as prostitutes... and they stay FARRRR away frm them..Originally posted by charlize:Guys are very easy to manipulate.
Show some skin and they are yours.
well the best advice would be building some communication then playing hard to get... attraction is actually made by the person himself... the person will think about you.. alot.. but in a neutral way.. then later they start thinking about happy thoughts with you... the more they think. but more attracted they are.
So keep playing hard to get and make him think of you.. do something to grab his attention and think of you at a positive manner. -
I have to disagree with the above. Playing hard doesnt always work. Why dont you start moving? Relationship is a 2 person thingy.
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it happens.
one can even love two person at the same time. I dun mean it's right to do so, but it juz happens. -
you missed the chance because you played hard to get huh.
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oh whatever... let nature take its course... just play cool and calm... people can sense it when you're nervous around them. And when you're nervous... they see you holding one board "I <3 EUUU!!" and they start to distance themselves from you.
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Haha, I think I know wad to do. What I am going to tell u is damn dangerous to all guys and girls . Use it only on those who really worth it.
All girls and guys go into relationships for positive feelings. Since this is girl's problem, I skip the guy's part . Use the 1000 yrs old girl's method , play it hot and play it cold. Make him thinks you like him very much, but when he is a bit sure , and wants to take some actions, give him chance to go after you , ignore him and let him work hard. (If he cannot make it) He give up halfway , give him a hot again , like message him a good morning , suggest a date , depends how demoralise he is. Then ignore him again .
Never give a sure reply unless it is a confirm no. When you see him in your everyday life , juz smile very very sweetly and ( turn your head for him ) look into his eyes for 3 sec and walk away without hesitation.
Handsome guys ( like me ) got so many choices , everyday got so many girls hint here and hint there. However , like all humans, they are cheap, they want those they cannot have . However, because they really got few chance to work very hard on girls, their threshold of failure is very low. That's why , when a not bad girl , shows her feelings for him, he will juz forget about working hard on another girl and go for the easier target.
However, it is possible one. First , get his attention again. Do something he wants dearly and will never expect to come from you. What you do in the past, do exactly the 180 degrees way. Examples are , suggest a dinner after work la, take the initiative to talk with him ( this is wad the other girl is doing I think). This will at least give him a message " hey, I am giving you one more chance to make your decision" , he might slow down with the other girl and rethink again.
Next when he " has take you for granted" , bite him hard and leave some scars. When he thot, lol, I am so handsome, this girl is smitten by me . Suddenly, he sense this girl has suggested 2 dinners after work but I haven hear from her for 1 week already , where is she ah ? will there be a third time ? Is she with so other guys or not ? I better check her out. He will call you or sms you. Say you are busy and keep the talk short, sms him yea, these few days got something to work on lo.
Then he will think of all the plans that you will agree to go out with him. When he ask you , tell him you cannot confirm and will let him know later. Reply him only after 2 days and cut the date short , by saying you are not going to miss some drama that you have been watching everyday. I bet now, he will think of you day and night
In all his days as the handsome guy, no girls dare to " punish" him in this way. You seemed to like him very much initally then suddenly you are not willling to give up your drama for him, W*** T** H***. You agreed to go out with him, then you are so mysterious. You are juz like a puzzle, the little boi is already inside the maze , he will want to solve the puzzle even if he dun like to solve it.