how do i know if she likes me
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Bros and sis hope i can find some ans from here
i got to know this gal a month ago.but do not know if she likes me coz i cant really read her mind .we do meet up abt 2-3 times a week. But when i ask her to be my g/f ,she got no ans for me .she thinks i am too fast,she wants things to go slower. Is she looking for someone better?
But when we are out
1 sometimes she didnt reject when i hold her hand
2.she didnt reject kissing me when i kiss her
3 she hardly call me or sms me.I am always the one who call her
4she doesnt really show affection towards me
how can i test if she actually like me?she might be making use of me coz i pay and drive her around. How can i get her to open up to me? -
dont bother reading her. At least you kiss her without resistance. That shows she likes you ma
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seriously she dun deserve you. u r damn shallow when it comes to lust.
just becos u hv a car and bring her abt on ur dates and u expect to get into her pants.
oh plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, gimme a break. dun b a disgrace to singapore male. -
i think she dun like u....haha...not dislike... but perhaps no chemistry in that way...at least not yet?
dunno wad is it like these days actually... back in my time, holding hands with mutual "agreement" sort of signifies that 2 people r an item.... but since u r already kissing, but she still say no....
haha...m i really THAT outdated???
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she dun dislike u... but u should not make so much actions as she already said it -> its all too fast... instead of thinking of making all those moves on her, u better concentrate on developing relationship with her... be serious in chasing her n not jz aiming to bed her asap if thats ur ultimate intention...
dun bother testing her, test urself first if u truly like her... -
Assuming she's pretty yadayada...
She will have ALOT of guys going after her, all with the same attitude and intentions of either getting into her pants or to start a relationship. Well... all the boys will give her flowers, chocolates, nice dinners blablaablahh... and that would be boring now to her... try something different instead of the gentleman attitude giving her whatever she wants...
Alright... you could try to spice up your dates with her.. tease her alot and make her laugh at herself. point out something funny about her... how she dresses,walks,laughs,anything!... one gd thing to tease is about weight! tell her she looks like she's 70kg and she'll start grumbling that she's much lighter than that.. or whatever.. just keeeeeeeeeep teasinnnnngggggggg... don't touch her for atleast 1 or 2 hours and let the tension build up. then kiss her! but for a short time.. 10-15seconds... make her want more! and if she can't help it but start touching you.. tell her " stop touching me, i'm serious " in a serious tone.. or "i know you want me... but i don't know you well enough." just.. have fun.. don't be too stiff, scared to do or say something wrong..
don't give in soo easily to what she requests.. never give her a direct answer.. always shoot back at what she says but no vulgarities
make her say "you're mean" which actually translates to "wow, you're a fun guy" but don't get toooo mean like kicking a stray cat crossing your path. er and ya.. dun give her the ah beng attitude.
altho this sounds weird.. its your best bet. if you don't do something.. sooner or later a better guy will come by. and u'll lose her... i know you'll be thinking that it wouldn't work coz of what we see on tv. Nice guys live a romantic and happy live with their wife yadayada.. but THATS TV!!! we don't see superman flying around Singapore or New York either. -
Hahaha I think there is a risk that she's just using you... well "use" is too harsh a word cos she did "pay back" with her affection. That could be what's on her mind - you pay for her and drive her around, she returns the favour by allowing you to get intimate physically.
If you're really interested in her, you've got to delve beyond the material & physical stuff and let her bond with you emotionally and mentally. Try sharing more experiences together, talking more about life, work, home, etc., get to really know each other. Then again, creating an emotional bond takes time, and it's only been a month, so give it some time.
The good news is that at least she's not totally turned off by you. So I think there is a chance for the emotional and mental aspect of the relationship to catch up with the physical part, as long as you both work at it.Originally posted by xtreme223:how can i test if she actually like me?she might be making use of me coz i pay and drive her around. How can i get her to open up to me? -
NICE....Originally posted by choco B:Hahaha I think there is a risk that she's just using you... well "use" is too harsh a word cos she did "pay back" with her affection. That could be what's on her mind - you pay for her and drive her around, she returns the favour by allowing you to get intimate physically.
If you're really interested in her, you've got to delve beyond the material & physical stuff and let her bond with you emotionally and mentally. Try sharing more experiences together, talking more about life, work, home, etc., get to really know each other. Then again, creating an emotional bond takes time, and it's only been a month, so give it some time.
The good news is that at least she's not totally turned off by you. So I think there is a chance for the emotional and mental aspect of the relationship to catch up with the physical part, as long as you both work at it. -
it only shows she doesn't mind kisses LOLOriginally posted by alexkusu:dont bother reading her. At least you kiss her without resistance. That shows she likes you ma -
erm..Originally posted by dunn1e:Assuming she's pretty yadayada...
She will have ALOT of guys going after her, all with the same attitude and intentions of either getting into her pants or to start a relationship. Well... all the boys will give her flowers, chocolates, nice dinners blablaablahh... and that would be boring now to her... try something different instead of the gentleman attitude giving her whatever she wants...
Alright... you could try to spice up your dates with her.. tease her alot and make her laugh at herself. point out something funny about her... how she dresses,walks,laughs,anything!... one gd thing to tease is about weight! tell her she looks like she's 70kg and she'll start grumbling that she's much lighter than that.. or whatever.. just keeeeeeeeeep teasinnnnngggggggg... don't touch her for atleast 1 or 2 hours and let the tension build up. then kiss her! but for a short time.. 10-15seconds... make her want more! and if she can't help it but start touching you.. tell her " stop touching me, i'm serious " in a serious tone.. or "i know you want me... but i don't know you well enough." just.. have fun.. don't be too stiff, scared to do or say something wrong..
don't give in soo easily to what she requests.. never give her a direct answer.. always shoot back at what she says but no vulgarities make her say "you're mean" which actually translates to "wow, you're a fun guy" but don't get toooo mean like kicking a stray cat crossing your path. er and ya.. dun give her the ah beng attitude.
altho this sounds weird.. its your best bet. if you don't do something.. sooner or later a better guy will come by. and u'll lose her... i know you'll be thinking that it wouldn't work coz of what we see on tv. Nice guys live a romantic and happy live with their wife yadayada.. but THATS TV!!! we don't see superman flying around Singapore or New York either.
rule no.1, dont joke about a woman's physical appearance -
Woooo.... wat big nose u have, Grandma....
Originally posted by coffeeortea:erm..
rule no.1, dont joke about a woman's physical appearance -
bows down to the wise oneOriginally posted by dunn1e:Assuming she's pretty yadayada...
She will have ALOT of guys going after her, all with the same attitude and intentions of either getting into her pants or to start a relationship. Well... all the boys will give her flowers, chocolates, nice dinners blablaablahh... and that would be boring now to her... try something different instead of the gentleman attitude giving her whatever she wants...
Alright... you could try to spice up your dates with her.. tease her alot and make her laugh at herself. point out something funny about her... how she dresses,walks,laughs,anything!... one gd thing to tease is about weight! tell her she looks like she's 70kg and she'll start grumbling that she's much lighter than that.. or whatever.. just keeeeeeeeeep teasinnnnngggggggg... don't touch her for atleast 1 or 2 hours and let the tension build up. then kiss her! but for a short time.. 10-15seconds... make her want more! and if she can't help it but start touching you.. tell her " stop touching me, i'm serious " in a serious tone.. or "i know you want me... but i don't know you well enough." just.. have fun.. don't be too stiff, scared to do or say something wrong..
don't give in soo easily to what she requests.. never give her a direct answer.. always shoot back at what she says but no vulgarities make her say "you're mean" which actually translates to "wow, you're a fun guy" but don't get toooo mean like kicking a stray cat crossing your path. er and ya.. dun give her the ah beng attitude.
altho this sounds weird.. its your best bet. if you don't do something.. sooner or later a better guy will come by. and u'll lose her... i know you'll be thinking that it wouldn't work coz of what we see on tv. Nice guys live a romantic and happy live with their wife yadayada.. but THATS TV!!! we don't see superman flying around Singapore or New York either.
you sure know how to make a girl happy. -
you are going too fastOriginally posted by xtreme223:Bros and sis hope i can find some ans from here
i got to know this gal a month ago.but do not know if she likes me coz i cant really read her mind .we do meet up abt 2-3 times a week. But when i ask her to be my g/f ,she got no ans for me .she thinks i am too fast,she wants things to go slower. Is she looking for someone better?
But when we are out
1 sometimes she didnt reject when i hold her hand
2.she didnt reject kissing me when i kiss her
3 she hardly call me or sms me.I am always the one who call her
4she doesnt really show affection towards me
how can i test if she actually like me?she might be making use of me coz i pay and drive her around. How can i get her to open up to me?
Actually can i ask how much do you love her? -
she dun particularly dislike u, neither is she falling for you. physically, she might be attracted to you just as you are to her and that might explain why she allow you to hold her hand, kiss her etc.Originally posted by xtreme223:Bros and sis hope i can find some ans from here
i got to know this gal a month ago.but do not know if she likes me coz i cant really read her mind .we do meet up abt 2-3 times a week. But when i ask her to be my g/f ,she got no ans for me .she thinks i am too fast,she wants things to go slower. Is she looking for someone better?
But when we are out
1 sometimes she didnt reject when i hold her hand
2.she didnt reject kissing me when i kiss her
3 she hardly call me or sms me.I am always the one who call her
4she doesnt really show affection towards me
how can i test if she actually like me?she might be making use of me coz i pay and drive her around. How can i get her to open up to me?
try communicating just like you are already an item. talk more of the things that concerns closer to your heart, things that really bothers u and her.
she already thinks you are a fast worker so do slow down and take it easy. don't hurry love, time is your best ingredient to bring this r/s to a fruitful purpose if that's what you want.
btw, what level of r/s are you looking at when both of you are an item? towards marriage? towards bedding partners only? or??? guess if its the latter (and you should know it best), please be more discreet and all the best. don't think any gals will want that kind of r/s if they know of it in the first place.
as to getting her to open up to you, perhaps chemistry and mutual understanding should be achieved? besides those, i think if she is comfortable with you, she will definitely open herself more to you in due season.
in the meantime, enjoy yourself with the dates you are getting with her. that's also pretty important too. -
so stupid. you ah boi or what? by now you should have already put your hand inside her bra lah.
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It depends where u kiss...or maybe she's easyOriginally posted by coffeeortea:it only shows she doesn't mind kisses LOL -
She doesn't like you. She is making use of you.
Trust me. I know.
Proof? I am a girl. -
Are you that girl?Originally posted by LinLing:She doesn't like you. She is making use of you.
Trust me. I know.
Proof? I am a girl. -
Unfortunately, no. Sad, eh?
Oh, and I am being sarcastic. -
Originally posted by LinLing:Unfortunately, no. Sad, eh?
Oh, and I am being sarcastic.
You're not even there yet. -
What kind of a MODERATOR are you?!?!?!
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Oh nevermind. This is boring me. Ta~
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Haha....i think this escapist kind of post is getting trendy.Originally posted by LinLing:Oh nevermind. This is boring me. Ta~
Seen two person in AA using it, and counting -
Well. i don't say things to hurt anyone's confidence, that wud be making her hate youOriginally posted by coffeeortea:erm..
rule no.1, dont joke about a woman's physical appearance
but teasing them that they are fat or short and watching their reaction is really really funny! they would even laugh at themselves too.. anyway you're teasing someone.. not insulting them. you gotta have that playful body language with it. Well but if they do get insulted with your teasing... one thing is for sure.. she ain't a fun person to get along with. NEXT!!!!!!
yes.. its true not to always joke or hurt the confidence of a woman.. even very beautiful women have insecurities, and thats the problem with us! we're not securing them.
Example..
Women: Do i look good in this dress? ( Translation: Do i look fat in this dress? )
Men: Yes, you look fabulous (oh? just get on with it.. BUY IT ALREADY!)
Women: Oh? Really...
See whats happening? lets try this out instead...
Women: Do i look good in this dress?
Men: Yes! and you don't look fat in it too!
Women: Cut it out already!
Men: Well you DO look fabulous in it!
OR
if you know her very well... you could tell her
"i don't know about the rest... but your bottom looks great in that"
What do you think the woman is thinking now?
Well back to topic...
Most beautiful women think men are whimps.. we flock their houses with chocolates and diamonds.. they take your gifts and slam the door shut at you... it just gives the woman the impression that we're buying her love... i mean look.. we go to this girl.. give her chocolates... she'll fall all over you!? no way. unless you look like brad pitt. so now we know what the situation is like... do something about it! don't give in to the girl = you're not another whimp
Nowadays the men are becoming women and women becoming the men.
Men are pleasing the women... giving them dinners and stuff while the women wear black leather clothing all over with a whip in their hands.. controlling the relationship.. alot of you guys should know that
We shud show women that we are men! let them know that we are not desperate, we are in control with our emotions, we won't let anything change our decisions. -
I was going to ask tat too.
Warning too all guys : Beware of LinLing. She'll take ur bling-bling and kick ur ding ding Originally posted by M©+square:Are you that girl?