how do i know if she likes me
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yes, i agree with u..since i pop the qn she shl either say yes or no.But her ans is 'we are moving too fast' if she realli like me she wouldnt let me wait or playing hard to get. I think she is looking for other better guys and in case she cant find one, she can still fall back on me.Originally posted by motoway:It's realli ok to be confident.. But i'm reali doubting her intention for this relationship.. I mean.. If she likes you, she will tell u straight wun she?? Gers are emotional creatures and most gers will shower the guys she likes wif love likewise..
Maybe u're like a throphy bf where she can show off to her frens coz u drive?? i shldn;t assume too much thou, good luck on this r/s.. The nxt time she sees/ask you out, pop the qn again and asked her out for a committed r/s..
Good luck buddy!
So do u think i shl let her play the hard to get game? what shl i do instead?
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can anyone suggest a good way so that i can make her reject me or accept me? she is just now giving me ans which is hanging in the air......The only way i think of is to stop sms or msn her. Is there a good way to test her? or get her jealous?
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my advice is short n sweet: Just waitOriginally posted by xtreme223:can anyone suggest a good way so that i can make her reject me or accept me? she is just now giving me ans which is hanging in the air......The only way i think of is to stop sms or msn her. Is there a good way to test her? or get her jealous?
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agree. telling a girl about her being overweight will HURT even very slim girls, from what i knowOriginally posted by coffeeortea:erm..
rule no.1, dont joke about a woman's physical appearance
then again im overweight, and i dont find it amusing to get teased about my weight all the time. 
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First , this girl is very weird, so I guess she is very attractive.
Second, this girl is too scary for me.
Third , dunnoe i think we share the same master, very similar strategies
Forthly, the teasing does works on girls, dun think they feel insulted.
Lastly, you dun have to spend extra time and money , just do what you want to do and ask her along. Even going NTUC to buy things can be a form of dating. -
Don't ask her out... ask her to tag along... having coffee is good. hav a nice conversation to build rapport and stuff. For the jealousy part... go out with other girls too.. let her know that... or you could ask her to tag along with your friends... have some girls in it.. she will feel the competition
i think 
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I wld suggest that u stop any advances on her eg, kiss her. Perhaps holding hand wld be ok..Originally posted by xtreme223:yes, i agree with u..since i pop the qn she shl either say yes or no.But her ans is 'we are moving too fast' if she realli like me she wouldnt let me wait or playing hard to get. I think she is looking for other better guys and in case she cant find one, she can still fall back on me.
So do u think i shl let her play the hard to get game? what shl i do instead?
stop all contacts with her?
Try not driving her arnd for maybe 2 weeks or so.. Say ur car is in service.. Meals and such.. Erm.. Bring her to hawker centre and eat.. No high class restaurants and such.. It's still ok to treat her i guess..
But if she reali asks u to buy ex stuffs for her.. just gif excuses like " sum other time" and such..
Try it out for a week or so.. If aft the 2 week she totally ignores u.. U noe the ans..
If aft such things happens and she is still keen (as in veri interested in you), she cld probably know how much u mean to her and treasure u more..
Good luck again..
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Originally posted by dunn1e:
I agree to the having coffee part.. It's a good way to connect wif her.. If she shows disinterest in toking ot u.. Like restlessness and boredom.. Perhaps it's time to move on..
Don't ask her out... [b]ask her to tag along... having coffee is good. hav a nice conversation to build rapport and stuff. For the jealousy part... go out with other girls too.. let her know that... or you could ask her to tag along with your friends... have some girls in it.. she will feel the competition i think [/b]
And perhaps make known ( in a not so obvious way that u do not lack suitors).
Go sumthing like " ytd, a ger in collegue said she had a major crush on me" or sum stuff liddis.
But tell ur gf that U are not interested in the ger and u onli love her.. (go figure which her is "her" as in ur gf)
If she nonchalantly shrugh, well..
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haha..i have already tried what u suggested.But,when i date her out she would ask me to date the other gal instead since the other gal like me.Make me feel worst!Originally posted by motoway:I agree to the having coffee part.. It's a good way to connect wif her.. If she shows disinterest in toking ot u.. Like restlessness and boredom.. Perhaps it's time to move on..
And perhaps make known ( in a not so obvious way that u do not lack suitors).
Go sumthing like " ytd, a ger in collegue said she had a major crush on me" or sum stuff liddis.
But tell ur gf that U are not interested in the ger and u onli love her.. (go figure which her is "her" as in ur gf)
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Well, then it's kinda obvious isn;t it?? Why are u still holding on?? It's kinda sure that she's not beri interested in u. Or else.. Why in the world wld she ask u to date the other ger??!Originally posted by xtreme223:haha..i have already tried what u suggested.But,when i date her out she would ask me to date the other gal instead since the other gal like me.Make me feel worst! -
Now i know why.found out from reliable source that she actually got a b/f of 8-9 mths and they are in the mist of breaking off, the b/f hinted to break off with her. she bluff me right from the very start!!! i am being used!! she lead and entice me every time. she dont know that i know , and i am not going to confront her either. i do not lack of gals but i just feel sad and unbalance at the moment. Gals now mingle and flirt with guys behind their b/f?
well...must let them pay for it. how?
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Now i know why.found out from reliable source that she actually got a b/f of 8-9 mths and they are in the mist of breaking off, the b/f hinted to break off with her. she bluff me right from the very start!!! i am being used!! she lead and entice me every time. she dont know that i know , and i am not going to confront her either. i do not lack of gals but i just feel sad and unbalance at the moment. Gals now mingle and flirt with guys behind their b/f?
well...must let them pay for it. how?
need some suggestion guys
I beg to differ, xtreme223.
You are taking things too "on the surface". If she didn't tell you she had a breaking relationship, it means two things -
i. She is interested in you, but doesn't want you to know about her relationship and turn you away.
ii. She just wants to play with you.
Don't say "she bluff me right from the very start!!". Did she ever say she is single before you knew of this? Let's not assume. I can see your rage and anger, but lets not assume things. And don't "must let them pay for it. how?". Vengence never ends.haha..i have already tried what u suggested.But,when i date her out she would ask me to date the other gal instead since the other gal like me.Make me feel worst!
Gosh! Can't you see how she's feeling right now? She IS jealous! If she doesn't care about you, then she wouldn't ask you to date the other girl, simply because she just won't care! -
yes..she did told me she is single...and i think she just wanna have some fun with me..I am like a standby.she still like like her b/f ,it 's just that the b/f hinted to break off.Originally posted by binarynwitz: Gosh! Can't you see how she's feeling right now? She IS jealous! If she doesn't care about you, then she wouldn't ask you to date the other girl, simply because she just won't care!
she will only meet me on weekdays,when i can send her home or treat her dinner.Its like a free ride to her.I am used ! But on weekends ,i cant even get her..
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well well.. just as i have guessed.. she was either using you as a stand-by partner or a trophy bf.. Guess it's the former in this case.. I do not thinK it is probable in this case that u'll be able to get anything from her.. U showered her wif meals and car drives, so it's really a case where you are a willing party..
It's obvious that she enjoys the gifts and free rides and treats u as a walking ATM..
But as i said.. You were willing in the first place and you weren't weary enuf not to get twirled arnd by her..
I mean.. it's not possible that u slap or wad that is like duh..
Or u reali wanna be the evil guy.. get her so smitten wif u and let go..
But i dun tink it's reali probable given that she has minimal interest in u..
Binarynwitz.. I tink you shld not gif the threadstarter any more false hope.. I mean.. by hinting to the threadstarter that he should date the other ger, it's kinda obvious that she is least interested in what he has to say.Originally posted by binarynwitz: Gosh! Can't you see how she's feeling right now? She IS jealous! If she doesn't care about you, then she wouldn't ask you to date the other girl, simply because she just won't care!
Like.. Wad is she supposed to say if she dun care?? "i dun care, u go bed her lo." Liddis ar? -_-"
It's quite a clear clue that she doesn't bother at all.. just that she wanna leave an ambiguious answer so that the threadstarter will be continuted to be smitten by her and she can siphon more freebies frm him..
Dun mind me xtreme223 or xtreme233, how old are u?