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2 weeks ago, i did smth horrible to my fren which resulted in her hating me. My 2 frenz hate me also. The incident happened cuz i have anger management prob. Being characterised by impulse had make me regret for wad i have done...i guess i have inadvertently hurt her feelings. I have let my defence down and wish dat my fren noe how much i care...however she did not heal from the past...this fren of mine...has not talk to me for 13 days...and i have reveal more n more truth bout her...she did not trust me at all...but i really wish to be frenz with her again..anyone can help me?
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apologize ?
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You are 14...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:2 weeks ago, i did smth horrible to my fren which resulted in her hating me. My 2 frenz hate me also. The incident happened cuz i have anger management prob. Being characterised by impulse had make me regret for wad i have done...i guess i have inadvertently hurt her feelings. I have let my defence down and wish dat my fren noe how much i care...however she did not heal from the past...this fren of mine...has not talk to me for 13 days...and i have reveal more n more truth bout her...she did not trust me at all...but i really wish to be frenz with her again..anyone can help me?
Can you tell us more about the details...
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You're just a clone...Originally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:cut your dick off & put it on top of your head to show contrition...
Btw, I know Mr Mahai... -
Yea...erm details? kinda embarrassing...i did smth dat is not respecting her...and she sort of think dat i m harming her and she is sorta annoyed, angry at me and afraid of me...and erm i m sorta afraid of them too...btw dat guy who says dick...i dun have one...how m i going to cut?Originally posted by Devil1976:You are 14...?
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Not as easy as u think...if everything can be apologised...den dere will be no hate in de world...besides she just wun forgive n forget...mb they just dun heal...Originally posted by lalala1999:apologize ? -
And...to add on, becuz most of my projects or groupwork...r with them...and i m sort of being neglected... dere was dis occasion when they maligned me for being parasite cuz i refuse to meet up with them...i dunnoe if my fren is part of it...and the reason y i refuse to meet up with them is one of my frenz say they r now afraid of me...afraid dat i may harm them...so i decide not to meet them cuz i dun want my frenz to be umcomfortable while doing work with me...and i have mention to them dat i will do at home...but they still think i m slacking...and i m now afraid of them too...becuz i m being neglected...i cant change to other grps...cuz 5 is de max...and i m afraid of them cuz they always stare at me with those erm...weird expression...dat makes me disturbing...and also scared they may bully me...so how? i want back de gd old memories we have...n i m sure we can...
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yeah , it isnt easy.Originally posted by OasisBlue:Not as easy as u think...if everything can be apologised...den dere will be no hate in de world...besides she just wun forgive n forget...mb they just dun heal...
i did something hurtful to a friend 3 yrs ago as well.
i apologized , wrote sorry letters , did all i could ,
she didnt talk to me ever since.
she treated me as a fren still , but i guess she didnt want to remember what i did to her , thus till nw she nv talk to me.
haiz .. but at least you show ur sincerity by apologizing since eu are in the wrong. -
Sigh...i dun wan dat... i did all i could...apologise...give her prezzie to cheer her up...buy drink for her when she is having netball cuz its tiring...i made a video for her...but she still wun talk to me...sigh...Originally posted by lalala1999:yeah , it isnt easy.
i did something hurtful to a friend 3 yrs ago as well.
i apologized , wrote sorry letters , did all i could ,
she didnt talk to me ever since.
she treated me as a fren still , but i guess she didnt want to remember what i did to her , thus till nw she nv talk to me.
haiz .. but at least you show ur sincerity by apologizing since eu are in the wrong. -
If you did everything you did to just say "Sorry." to her and she didn't accept, it means one thing.
She is a idiot who don't believe in second chances. -
Dats serious to call her idiot...well maybe she is...petty...or smth...but everyone has bad points...i only hope she overlook my flaws for dis once...
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i am mahai lah. that asshole fireice banned my original nick mahai102 so have to use new nick to sign in again lor...Originally posted by Devil1976:You're just a clone...
Btw, I know Mr Mahai...
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OR.
She could be like one of my friend.
That time, we had a quarrel over the phone and friendship ended immediately.
I was kinda sad but I was foolish. I didn't say "Sorry" coz' I felt that she started it first but threatening me.
But then one day, I got rich. I got $288 in my palms. And I swear, she immediately came over and said "I'm sorry. Wanna go shopping?"
I mean, just becoz I was loaded with money, she said sorry so that she can go shopping.
Of course I said NO and she and everybody started pointing fingers at me but I didn't care. It has always been like this. But who cares? It just means they are an unloyal lot. So I left them and made more friends. Friends who forgive and forget.
I must say I am enjoying myself but that friend of mine still persisted in asking me to go shopping.
Sorry, but I must say this.
She is a fcuking biatch. -
Are you kidding? Some girls are so petty to the point that they WILL NOT forgive anyone who did bad to them!Originally posted by OasisBlue:Dats serious to call her idiot...well maybe she is...petty...or smth...but everyone has bad points...i only hope she overlook my flaws for dis once...
But I'm not saying your friend..maybe she will realise her mistake one day and regret it. =]] -
Anyway, God has made us born here to taste true fears, true tears.
So don't be upset. This is just another task God wants YOU to overcome.
Even if she STILL doesn't want to be your friend, maybe it is fated, it is destinied. -
Er...well my fren is not acting dis way... dunnoe...she is quite gd at times...but she likes to go along with her other frenz...and dere is smth dat i think is also de prob...well dis fren of mine and my another fren have enemies in the other grp which im sticking to recently...cuz she is always with her gang of dunnoe hu...i mean i dunnoe them...so i din get along with de gang...and mb they think they i m a traitor or smth...my fren even said dat if i like dat fren so much i should have stick with her n not dat grp dat they hate...so i was kinda confused...
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They should respect your freedom and decision!Originally posted by OasisBlue:Er...well my fren is not acting dis way... dunnoe...she is quite gd at times...but she likes to go along with her other frenz...and dere is smth dat i think is also de prob...well dis fren of mine and my another fren have enemies in the other grp which im sticking to recently...cuz she is always with her gang of dunnoe hu...i mean i dunnoe them...so i din get along with de gang...and mb they think they i m a traitor or smth...my fren even said dat if i like dat fren so much i should have stick with her n not dat grp dat they hate...so i was kinda confused...
I had this problem too, but I resolved it. How? This was what I said.
"Ok, look guys. I need to ask you all to please don't control my life. This is my life. Not yours. I can do whatever I want with it. Please respect my freedom and my decision. I can hang out with whoever I want and you all just keep your mouth shut and lemme do what I want! You people are not the friends that I want! Why? Because the fact that you all are unloyal. See what you done to Amanda. She is now left there alone crying her hearts out while you all just sit there talking to each other like nothing had happen. I don't understand you guys! Why can't we all be in perfect harmony? Oh wait. I uttering complete rubbish. The word harmony has the word harm. Oh, and please, I am NOT in your clique. I am just a friend. I am not your best friends! Not until you all respect ME for WHO I AM AND WHAT I AM. You have been messing around with me for too long. Way too long. I am not your punching bag to punch with, ok? Why can't I hang out with my real true BEST friends? WHY? Every single thing I do, you find some fault in it and say it. What kind of friends are you? Friends who pretend to be the forever-friends type? Well, sorry, but I am not AN IDIOTIC STUPID GIRL. So bye bye and please do think this over!"
I actually shouted this and the everybody there heard it. And tears sprung up in my eyes. REAL tears of sadness. And then...applaud. From MY class. Then the boys are started saying, "Well-said!" and the teachers came to me and said, "Well, we have a young mature lady here!" and those friends of mine was quiet.
Then one of them stood up and said, "Sorry." and walked off. So did the others.
This happened during recess and I must say, it was one of the best experience ever! -
Why do you wish to befriend her again? Is it possible ur seeing her as a potential gf?
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She is a girl, not a boy.Originally posted by alexkusu:Why do you wish to befriend her again? Is it possible ur seeing her as a potential gf?
Oh, and I believe she is not a lesbain.
So just shut your fcking big mouth up and don't come here to say mean things again.
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Well...a great sch u r in...i dun get dat treatment...i explained...sort of like wad u did but not in an angry manner...but they just wun listen...and erm one of my frenz are quite a babarian
so she will debate with u till the end...and i guess my situation is like urs but in de sense dat i seem to be de one u r scolding and they seem to be the one scolding me...although they just say stop pestering them...i have been sincere...seems that they cant accept...i said frenz dun hold grudges forever...one of my frenz reply in some special cases YES... i guess i m de special case... -
Then it means your friends are totally unloyal and are just finding a excuse to get rid of you.
Don't ever be friends with those kind of people. Understand? I know how brokoen-hearted you must be now, for I went through this before. But you will soon make BETTER friends and your life will be better. =] -
Thx...but it seem that they r targeting at me now...trying every single way to tackle me... and i wish to find a partner...but i just cant...cuz there ain't any dat i like...i mean partner as in...u n ur fren only...dat partner...one who pair up with u...
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Be more socially involved then! Don't be shy, go around and mix around! I have friends from P3, P4, P5 and P6! Ok. P6 doesn't count since I am P6.
Anyway, if they are targeting you....what does it means? Are they spreading fake rumours about you? Are they telling you all your secrets? -
that wasnt directed at u. Go home n drink sum more milk yaOriginally posted by LinLing:She is a girl, not a boy.
Oh, and I believe she is not a lesbain.
So just shut your fcking big mouth up and don't come here to say mean things again. 