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i could suggest you try talk to a trusted teacher or your school counseller...
i know u feel helpless.. that y u sought advice here.. it better for you to talk to a person who can help you and can advise you.. talk it out is better...
if im u, i will stick to my present school cos i dun want to run away from problems.. even if you transfer school,the same things can happen again...
No one will really think that you have no friends...you WORRY too much liao..
Be kind, generous and helpful to your classmates is one way to gain more friends. One day, someone will learn to appreciate you de.
Mst importantly now is to study hard so that you have more options to do what you want in the future. =) -
Read back on the various past posts in this thread...Originally posted by OasisBlue:Its getting worse n worse each day and one day...i will end up with nth even if i cherish...
By the way, REMEMBER you can make new friends if you want to.... You have the POWER to CONTROL that...
Life is about being BRAVE and LIVING UP to what you've done... How many times would you possibly wanna escape
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X 2.Originally posted by Isis:i could suggest you try talk to a trusted teacher or your school counseller...
i know u feel helpless.. that y u sought advice here.. it better for you to talk to a person who can help you and can advise you.. talk it out is better...
if im u, i will stick to my present school cos i dun want to run away from problems.. even if you transfer school,the same things can happen again...
No one will really think that you have no friends...you WORRY too much liao..
Be kind, generous and helpful to your classmates is one way to gain more friends. One day, someone will learn to appreciate you de.
Mst importantly now is to study hard so that you have more options to do what you want in the future. =) -
Originally posted by Isis:
Dats is wad my frenz told me...dat i have no frenz! I am an outcast! if i stay here i will not have chance to start over...but if i go to another sch...its 50 50...i may get a better life...
i could suggest you try talk to a trusted teacher or your school counseller...
i know u feel helpless.. that y u sought advice here.. it better for you to talk to a person who can help you and can advise you.. talk it out is better...
if im u, i will stick to my present school cos i dun want to run away from problems.. even if you transfer school,the same things can happen again...
No one will really think that you have no friends...you WORRY too much liao..
Be kind, generous and helpful to your classmates is one way to gain more friends. One day, someone will learn to appreciate you de.
Mst importantly now is to study hard so that you have more options to do what you want in the future. =) -
Ya i will...but no vacancyOriginally posted by jam on a bread:Hey Oasis, sad to hear abt ur plight. I had a best friend in pri sch who betrayed me..in the end, I become somewhat abnormal. Anti-social, frequent depression all that until now..still havent cured. If you think a transfer of school is good, quickly do it before you sink deeper.
Anyways, I myself hate people (yes, hate) who have anger problems. Anyhow vent on people, I feel like slapping them >.<
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same i have depression... and yes i hate myself too...i dun like vending my anger on anyone....but i cant control... -
I WANNA KNOCK MY HEAD ON DE WALL REAL HARD SO I CAN FORGET EVERYTHING...
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Don't worry, it will all work out.Originally posted by OasisBlue:I WANNA KNOCK MY HEAD ON DE WALL REAL HARD SO I CAN FORGET EVERYTHING... -
Worrying cuz it might not...Originally posted by nullifi3d:Don't worry, it will all work out. -
hey pal, since you got her angry or something.
what you can do is, sit back in a quite place and do some reflaction. think throughly over and over again. it might be a help to you. i was once not a gentleman. and i got 2 girls pissed off by me and they ingore me till now around 8 months, going to a year soon, if you have think over and over again, you will finally get the answer, and you will thank them and say sorry to her when the time is right. -
It will....Originally posted by OasisBlue:Worrying cuz it might not... -
Originally posted by LinLing:If you did everything you did to just say "Sorry." to her and she didn't accept, it means one thing.
She is a idiot who don't believe in second chances.
lets see, u have a buddy who has been your best friend since pri1, one day in sec 4, when u 2 are still best buddies, she decides to turn on u, goes around spreading rumours about u, reveal all your secrets.
Are you kidding? Some girls are so petty to the point that they WILL NOT forgive anyone who did bad to them!
But I'm not saying your friend..maybe she will realise her mistake one day and regret it. =]]
u will give her a second chance? ur still young, go learn something before trying to advise people -
she got angry because u splashed water on her?
since you said both of u were best friends, she has no reasons to get mad, or even stay angry for so long.
maybe she never regarded u to be her best friend.
and its not worth going back to be her friend again, imagine what happens the next time something like this happens again, she gets angry over a minor incident.
and because of one friend u have no friends liao?
go join some CCA or something to make some friends -
I will so long as she is sincere...i had dis fren, she hacked my acc and she even asked her sis to threaten me...and scolded me vulgar....her sis followed her everyday and i dun dare to go near for fear of getting punched...but now i still forgive her...Originally posted by Snoops88:lets see, u have a buddy who has been your best friend since pri1, one day in sec 4, when u 2 are still best buddies, she decides to turn on u, goes around spreading rumours about u, reveal all your secrets.
u will give her a second chance? ur still young, go learn something before trying to advise people -
My CCA no frenz as well...well i went to de counsellor...Originally posted by Snoops88:she got angry because u splashed water on her?
since you said both of u were best friends, she has no reasons to get mad, or even stay angry for so long.
maybe she never regarded u to be her best friend.
and its not worth going back to be her friend again, imagine what happens the next time something like this happens again, she gets angry over a minor incident.
and because of one friend u have no friends liao?
go join some CCA or something to make some friends -
Finally...they forgive me...but only casual frenz...how to improve it as gd as b4? now they have bad impression of me...
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Takes time... Just like for them to forgive you... Things don't happen overnight.. And be a bit more careful on the things you do from now on... ou certainly don't wish for things to go back to suqare one again...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:Finally...they forgive me...but only casual frenz...how to improve it as gd as b4? now they have bad impression of me... 
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I feel a sense of emptiness without them...if i dun do anyting...how can they see my changes... how wish i can fufil my wish...to celebrate my birthday with my best fren...and of cuz hers...mine is 14th her is 15th...Originally posted by Devil1976:Takes time... Just like for them to forgive you... Things don't happen overnight.. And be a bit more careful on the things you do from now on... ou certainly don't wish for things to go back to suqare one again...? -
As much as you wish to have them with you at this very moment, understand humans probably would have to sense this 'emptiness' with us from time to time... And of course you'll like to show them your changes, but like I've said it'll take opportunities and time... Do things with an open heart... Some people takes a longer time to forgive another, while there're others who are more skeptical... Sorry to say, but this is just the way things work in this world... Let time run and story tells by itself...Originally posted by OasisBlue:I feel a sense of emptiness without them...if i dun do anyting...how can they see my changes... how wish i can fufil my wish...to celebrate my birthday with my best fren...and of cuz hers...mine is 14th her is 15th...