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NAY... How you KNOW...? Are you GOD...Originally posted by OasisBlue:As much as i want to make more frenz and stop thinking bout her, i cant stop myself from being hurt...she is de one who hurt me most... i wun forget...it has leave a scar in m heart...ok i treat her... like u...more den platonic...so erm i m very very very hurt to lose dis fren...anyway how can she insult me lidat...she also no better...so hairy...everyone call her gorilla...i noe it...i cant have best frenz or true frenz...they will laff at me...make fun of me...i hate myself...
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Gd point! well now i cant continue...my other frenz hate me also now...i guess one of my frenz...after de incident...spread smth untrue bout me...dat make them misunderstand...sigh...now total 13 ppl hate me...bad situation...Originally posted by Devil1976:NAY... How you KNOW...? Are you GOD... 
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well i cant believe it as well...but...its true...too true for a drama...Originally posted by binZ:-.- 
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um...you sure its more than platonic, cause platonic means just friends....whether its good friends best friends its still platonic...more than platonic means you love herOriginally posted by OasisBlue:As much as i want to make more frenz and stop thinking bout her, i cant stop myself from being hurt...she is de one who hurt me most... i wun forget...it has leave a scar in m heart...ok i treat her... like u...more den platonic...so erm i m very very very hurt to lose dis fren...anyway how can she insult me lidat...she also no better...so hairy...everyone call her gorilla...i noe it...i cant have best frenz or true frenz...they will laff at me...make fun of me...i hate myself...
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actually ive been in a similar situation before...what i can say is time is a very important factor although it might not seem like it now...just go on with your normal life, dont let them think you are all so dependent on them...itll only make them happier if they are out to do you in. make more new friends show them you can enjoy yourself without them...when the time is right maybe go and talk to the girl you mentioned....splashing water sounds like a real weird reason to hate you this much for, maybe there are underlying reasons behind it? in any case i think you should let it rest for now or you might want to try a last shot by telling her about how she shouldnt listen to her friends and think for herself for once...if it still doesnt work out then its best to keep things in this situation for a while and not aggravate it yep
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exactly! i love herOriginally posted by angelfairy:um...you sure its more than platonic, cause platonic means just friends....whether its good friends best friends its still platonic...more than platonic means you love her 
i dunnoe actually...i just treat her a very very very special fren...cuz she is diff from my other frenz... -
There is an unlying reason...she thinks i m crazy...and she is now avoiding me...sometimes i feel dat she still cares for me...but i m not certain...Originally posted by angelfairy:actually ive been in a similar situation before...what i can say is time is a very important factor although it might not seem like it now...just go on with your normal life, dont let them think you are all so dependent on them...itll only make them happier if they are out to do you in. make more new friends show them you can enjoy yourself without them...when the time is right maybe go and talk to the girl you mentioned....splashing water sounds like a real weird reason to hate you this much for, maybe there are underlying reasons behind it? in any case i think you should let it rest for now or you might want to try a last shot by telling her about how she shouldnt listen to her friends and think for herself for once...if it still doesnt work out then its best to keep things in this situation for a while and not aggravate it yep maybe she thinks i m a homo? but obviously i wun...cuz i like a guy 
i told her i will repent...any mistakes dat i done...dere ain't much new fren i can make...they r "link" so u noe...they still can control...me? now some stuff dat is untrue bout me is spread to my other grp of frenz...i guess its by my frenz gang...sigh... -
Next time when you step into the society, you'll learn that people just spread rumours and words around... It's just part of the unhealthy culture....Originally posted by OasisBlue:Gd point! well now i cant continue...my other frenz hate me also now...i guess one of my frenz...after de incident...spread smth untrue bout me...dat make them misunderstand...sigh...now total 13 ppl hate me...bad situation...
Ultimately, you should understand that you're still yourself and what you make of everything... If others choose to be shallow and just accepts whatever they hear of you that way, they're just defining who they are... Not who you are....?
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GD point! anyway they say i change...become more evil!? i think i did change...but dunnoe if it is towards de bad...now very confused bout if i did change...Originally posted by Devil1976:Next time when you step into the society, you'll learn that people just spread rumours and words around... It's just part of the unhealthy culture....
Ultimately, you should understand that you're still yourself and what you make of everything... If others choose to be shallow and just accepts whatever they hear of you that way, they're just defining who they are... Not who you are....? -
One correction...not 13 ppl...its 15ppl...
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Then you do some soul-searching lor...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:GD point! anyway they say i change...become more evil!? i think i did change...but dunnoe if it is towards de bad...now very confused bout if i did change... 
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Bad news! Now the 2 grps of frenz( i mentioned b4) which are enemies...now ganged up to go against me!
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Its getting worse and worse each day...each day is a living hell...
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Just focus on your studies and make new friends if you want to...?Originally posted by OasisBlue:Its getting worse and worse each day...each day is a living hell... -
Well maybe dis is de only way... i hope she forgives me...Originally posted by Devil1976:Just focus on your studies and make new friends if you want to...? -
You can't directly control what others think of you... You can only control what ya do....Originally posted by OasisBlue:Well maybe dis is de only way... i hope she forgives me... -
yea...anyway i m waiting for vacancy...in another sch...Originally posted by Devil1976:You can't directly control what others think of you... You can only control what ya do.... -
How old are u?
Your friend IS not only petty but say bad things about you right...?. I don't think you shld be holding ont o this friendships cos the more you try to salvage it, the more worse things can get. Let her be where she feel comfortable. If she think you are a friend worthly, she will find you back. If
she really make it clear that she don't want to befriend you back, let it be. Respect her decision and give her space. Even though you treat her like a very good friend but she does not appreciate it back, then she is obviously not a good friend.
i think both of you are still young and immature.. so are your classmates...
The reason why you holding onto it is cos' u scared of loneliness in school?
It is not actually a bad thing to start anew in a new school or tok to your school counseller if this things persist and affecting your mood and studies. -
Transfer? Why so?Originally posted by OasisBlue:yea...anyway i m waiting for vacancy...in another sch... -
Its getting worse n worse each day and one day...i will end up with nth even if i cherish...Originally posted by Devil1976:Transfer? Why so? -
Sigh...i m left with nth...no frenz at all...i wanna commit suicide...
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ren shang, ren qi, tian bu qi!Originally posted by OasisBlue:Sigh...i m left with nth...no frenz at all...i wanna commit suicide...
so wat u got no frenz at all? in ur journey in studies, if u cannot get along wif pple, just walk separate path. i beleive u dun own these bastards a living, let alone letting them destroying u. always have faith in urself.
if u can achieve wat they do not, soon they will be regret for their actions for being shallow minded for believing wat a xiao ren said. -
True...Originally posted by 798:ren shang, ren qi, tian bu qi!
so wat u got no frenz at all? in ur journey in studies, if u cannot get along wif pple, just walk separate path. i beleive u dun own these bastards a living, let alone letting them destroying u. always have faith in urself.
if u can achieve wat they do not, soon they will be regret for their actions for being shallow minded for believing wat a xiao ren said. -
Hey Oasis, sad to hear abt ur plight. I had a best friend in pri sch who betrayed me..in the end, I become somewhat abnormal. Anti-social, frequent depression all that until now..still havent cured. If you think a transfer of school is good, quickly do it before you sink deeper.
Anyways, I myself hate people (yes, hate) who have anger problems. Anyhow vent on people, I feel like slapping them >.<