The thing call chemistry in a r/s
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A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ? -
um.. means she likes you? but you're not kissing and hugging enough?
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She basically means "both of us are attracted to each other physically or due to behavioral styles. BUT we don seem to have mighty lot in common lehz.. So sori, don think can be with u, we r not ready. Off tangent feeling really feels not very right leh."Originally posted by EggBreak:A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ?
One does not exactly create chemistry. It is something which just fits. Each individual has specific needs and wants. Until most needs and wants are being met, ie: similar OR complementry..... happy waiting
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Dear Egg (another of my favourite food
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I don't really understand what she's talking about leh
The so-called "sparks" actually make up chemistry between 2 people. Chemistry in a love context is kinda like its scientific counterpart. Like water = chemical bonds between hydrogen & oxygen, chemistry in relationships is about a guy & a girl coming together & forming a hopefully lasting & unbreakable bond.
If something extreme happens (like in science, extreme heat is applied, etc), then the bonds may break, & hydrogen & oxygen hafta be by their lonesomes again until hydrogen finds another oxygen to bond with.
Chemistry would refer to the compatibility (water can't be formed with hydrogen & sulphur) between the 2 parties, & the circumstances (like extreme heat applied) under which the relationship is formed.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by EggBreak:A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ? -
i can only guess that the sparks she refered to is the initial wooing period where you are both kinda interested... but know not much about each other... it's the unknown, the mystery that's the "sparks"
however, once you get to know each other, you'll either realise that you can love him/her, or you just don't like him/her in that way... -
maybe not enuff activation energy ba..Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Egg (another of my favourite food ),
I don't really understand what she's talking about leh
The so-called "sparks" actually make up chemistry between 2 people. Chemistry in a love context is kinda like its scientific counterpart. Like water = chemical bonds between hydrogen & oxygen, chemistry in relationships is about a guy & a girl coming together & forming a hopefully lasting & unbreakable bond.
If something extreme happens (like in science, extreme heat is applied, etc), then the bonds may break, & hydrogen & oxygen hafta be by their lonesomes again until hydrogen finds another oxygen to bond with.
Chemistry would refer to the compatibility (water can't be formed with hydrogen & sulphur) between the 2 parties, & the circumstances (like extreme heat applied) under which the relationship is formed.
FeowFeow
need catalyst to speed up the reaction le.
catalyst:jealousy?
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Jealousy make actually break the bonds
Maybe the catalyst should be extreme heat or passion
I dunno lah, the combination of different chemicals will result in different compounds, & the catalysts for every relationship will differ.
So he has to figure out for himself what his lacks.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by yuko-ogura:maybe not enuff activation energy ba..
need catalyst to speed up the reaction le.
catalyst:jealousy? -
yup. I agree.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Jealousy make actually break the bonds
Maybe the catalyst should be extreme heat or passion I dunno lah, the combination of different chemicals will result in different compounds, & the catalysts for every relationship will differ.
So he has to figure out for himself what his lacks.
FeowFeow
you might be making a bomb. -
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Thanks, how did you know my chemistry only until Sec 4???
FeowFeowOriginally posted by sinicker: -
huh?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Thanks, how did you know my chemistry only until Sec 4???
FeowFeow
its a lvl wad. -
this is the 1st picture of a chem text i can find.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Thanks, how did you know my chemistry only until Sec 4???
FeowFeow just to humour only.
on a serious note, it's hard to describe chemistry in a r/s. if it's there, it's there. cannot just suka2 "eh i like her! she chio!" and you go for her. no matter how hard you work in the r/s, if there's no chemistry, inevitably, the r/s will be over. it takes a special someone to be compatible with a certain someone. this is when the term 'match made in heaven' comes to play. -
Love chemistry lesson by our local sm queen....Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Egg (another of my favourite food ),
I don't really understand what she's talking about leh
The so-called "sparks" actually make up chemistry between 2 people. Chemistry in a love context is kinda like its scientific counterpart. Like water = chemical bonds between hydrogen & oxygen, chemistry in relationships is about a guy & a girl coming together & forming a hopefully lasting & unbreakable bond.
If something extreme happens (like in science, extreme heat is applied, etc), then the bonds may break, & hydrogen & oxygen hafta be by their lonesomes again until hydrogen finds another oxygen to bond with.
Chemistry would refer to the compatibility (water can't be formed with hydrogen & sulphur) between the 2 parties, & the circumstances (like extreme heat applied) under which the relationship is formed.
FeowFeow
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agrees with what qing qing says..Originally posted by smudgey:i can only guess that the sparks she refered to is the initial wooing period where you are both kinda interested... but know not much about each other... it's the unknown, the mystery that's the "sparks"
however, once you get to know each other, you'll either realise that you can love him/her, or you just don't like him/her in that way...
winks winks .... -
i tot sparks only ignite when there's chemisty reaction?
i think wat she meant is that she was attracted to u, but there's only attraction, she dun feel anything more than that. -
Thanks all for the replies
So, overall the answer comes down that its takes time to love a person yea?
Maybe i was too rushed, thus, destroying the possibilities to start a well r/s with her.
Guess i've learnt my lessons.. I shall understand one truely before i actually start to woo the girl i like -
don't listen to [Mahai's disgusting & offensive post editted] me. I'm an idiot who only knows how to talk nonsense & I don't give constructive views to people. I'm only here to be an irritant because I don't have proper upbringing.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Egg (another of my favourite food ),
I don't really understand what she's talking about leh
The so-called "sparks" actually make up chemistry between 2 people. Chemistry in a love context is kinda like its scientific counterpart. Like water = chemical bonds between hydrogen & oxygen, chemistry in relationships is about a guy & a girl coming together & forming a hopefully lasting & unbreakable bond.
If something extreme happens (like in science, extreme heat is applied, etc), then the bonds may break, & hydrogen & oxygen hafta be by their lonesomes again until hydrogen finds another oxygen to bond with.
Chemistry would refer to the compatibility (water can't be formed with hydrogen & sulphur) between the 2 parties, & the circumstances (like extreme heat applied) under which the relationship is formed.
FeowFeow -
mahai... Jiak bah liao right...?Originally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:don't listen to [Mahai's disgusting & offensive post editted] me. I'm an idiot who only knows how to talk nonsense & I don't give constructive views to people. I'm only here to be an irritant because I don't have proper upbringing. -
jiak bah bo sai bang..Originally posted by Devil1976:mahai... Jiak bah liao right...?
ta shi chen zhe le. -
Actually, looking back, I dunno how I came up with that
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:Love chemistry lesson by our local sm queen.... -
Mayeb she means that you might be a potential BF but the thought of having or being together is not there?Originally posted by EggBreak:A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ? -
do you presently treat her differently than last time when you were chasing her?
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add 100ml of HCL and 50 ml of NaCl...Originally posted by EggBreak:A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ?
after that add dicholore methane...
keep the gas...and light a fire..
that's chemistry
haha
basically she dont like u lo -
I don't know what the heck does she mean. Sparks are a sign of chemistry.
Probably she meant that there were sparks in the beginning but kinda faded off as you got to know each other more.
It's tough to create chemistry... and harder to maintain it.Originally posted by EggBreak:A girl once told me recently, I felt the sparks between you and me but I don't feel any chemistry in this relationship.
Meaning, she liked me but she don't love me..
How exactly did u people create the chemistry between your and your other half ? -
or another meaning would be.... "you're fun and exciting, but lets just be friends"