I need advice especially from gals
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My ex-stead msg me today......n she told me she is single liaoz......
wats her motive ?.............pls give advice...thanks -
If she contacts u when she has not broke off with her bf, then it's jus a frd needs console.
If she suddenly contact u after she broke off wif her bf, then u better be careful, maybe she's lonely, nobody to turn to, and she thinks maybe u stil got feelings for her, then she jus needs a guy's love !
Take care dude
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Well, for one thing, she is telling you she is single again and you can go wooing her.
The another thing is that she probably is going through a argument with her boyfriend and is lying saying that she is single so that her boyfriend will be jealous and say sorry....which means she is using it.
Just deduce from her actions on what she is doing to you, ok? Keep us informed! -
u r the rebound guyOriginally posted by siongs:My ex-stead msg me today......n she told me she is single liaoz......
wats her motive ?.............pls give advice...thanks
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maybe she juz need someone to comfort her.
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i m sure tat she alrdy break off wit da guy...........yea she suddenly msg me.....she said thx for my concern n care for her... n bla.......n we talk on da phone juz now....but awhile only coz i got sumthing to do !!
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Well....................Originally posted by siongs:i m sure tat she alrdy break off wit da guy...........yea she suddenly msg me.....she said thx for my concern n care for her... n bla.......n we talk on da phone juz now....but awhile only coz i got sumthing to do !!
It means she want to get back with you and start over anew! -
It might mean that she still has feelings for you...
It might also be that she still treats you as a friend and just confiding in you...
In the meantime, if you still wanna continue being friends with her, maybe you can just console her...
Don't think so much first... -
My gut feeling is she has feelings for u..
but its beta now to JIAN JI XING SHI-rough translation: act according to situation.. -
spare tyre?
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what is most impt is what YOU feel about her?
Do you treat her as a frend only? strictly platonic?
Do you still have strong feelings for her?
Do you have feelings of lust for her?
chances are it is a combination of the above......
but be conscious of ur own feelings..... and see if the two of u can click..... as long as there is no mismatch between what you want (above) and what she needs... there shouldn't be any issue. -
y need careful guys love free sexOriginally posted by so_what:If she contacts u when she has not broke off with her bf, then it's jus a frd needs console.
If she suddenly contact u after she broke off wif her bf, then u better be careful, maybe she's lonely, nobody to turn to, and she thinks maybe u stil got feelings for her, then she jus needs a guy's love !
Take care dude -
Motive will be hard to tell until you meet her. If she gives subtle hints like sitting to closer to you than she usually does, talks about your relationship with her, etc... then my guess is that she still likes you. No guarantee for that, maybe she just needs comfort, which resulted in the above actions.Originally posted by siongs:My ex-stead msg me today......n she told me she is single liaoz......
wats her motive ?.............pls give advice...thanks
But as you two meet more often and if the hints got more and stronger, most likely she likes you. If those hints go off after a few meetings and she no longer wants to meet you, you are just someone whom she confides to. -
Hey guys.....honestly i m in another country now !! n i m goin bck to sg in july mayb later than july i guess.......n wat for she luking for me to confides her ? u dun she find any guys over there ? very lame lor......
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don't look too much into it... maybe she just wants to confide in someone she knows will not judge her?
just be her friend. -
why break up then?Originally posted by siongs:Hey guys.....honestly i m in another country now !! n i m goin bck to sg in july mayb later than july i guess.......n wat for she luking for me to confides her ? u dun she find any guys over there ? very lame lor......
You say she was your ex but what was the main reason she broke up with you?
strange. -
i dun think so......she done sumthing bad to me when we were together last time ! i really hate her during da 1st few months after break up with her !! n she noes tat too........Originally posted by smudgey:don't look too much into it... maybe she just wants to confide in someone she knows will not judge her?
just be her friend. -
if that's so then just ignore her, whatever her intentionsOriginally posted by siongs:i dun think so......she done sumthing bad to me when we were together last time ! i really hate her during da 1st few months after break up with her !! n she noes tat too........ -
did she keep in contact (and i mean v close contact..) with u while she was still hanging out wif her bf?
if not,let's face it...most likely she is trying to find a substitute after the breakup..
if yes,there might be a chance for u..she might have been waiting for the breakup so that she can be with u..
wadever the case..observe first and deal with the situation as u deem fit..
no point troubling urself over those few words.. -
chiu ish too obvious oreallys! chiu is really 1bigmess!Originally posted by 1bigmess:u r the rebound guy -
She was attached with her wk partner......then....like tat lor......honestly da guy is not really gud luking...n i dun understand y she attached with him !! sia........dammit !Originally posted by zeny:why break up then?
You say she was your ex but what was the main reason she broke up with you?
strange. -
i always believed that an ex as a friend is the best friend possible..cos she already knows alot about u,and she will be able to give u her views about ur bad points as a friend now..
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its not abt whether he's gd-looking anot..dat would be deemed as a shallow viewpt by pple..Originally posted by siongs:She was attached with her wk partner......then....like tat lor......honestly da guy is not really gud luking...n i dun understand y she attached with him !! sia........dammit !
she could be attracted to his charisma and inner beauty..
rmb..personality outshines looks. -
1 more thing !!! she doesnt sound sad at all !!n she didnt told me how her bad her bf treat her......
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relax.jus a few words from her has gotten u pondering so much.Originally posted by siongs:1 more thing !!! she doesnt sound sad at all !!n she didnt told me how her bad her bf treat her......
jus becux she doesn't sound sad doesn't imply that she isn't sad..(women have the ability to conceal their feelings well and of course,she could have gotten over the breakup too.)
n jus becux she din tell u how bad her bf treated her,doesn't imply anything too.
hmm..im not sure abt this..but dun u think u might be thinking a tad too much?
why not observe first before jumping into any conclusions?