I need advice especially from gals
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yea.....mayb i should juz abserve more awhile !!hahs.............then c wat to do lor !!
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is she a chiobu or fat ugly b.itch? if she's a chiobu you should try hard to win her back even to the extent of grovelling and kneeling down begging for her forgiveness.
if she's a fat ugly bi.tch, tell her to take a hike and forget she ever saw you. -
She f hot man !! although she is short juz reach my shoulder.......she definitely is hotties !! last time she is super sweet to me ...we were couple for half more year !! but naw da guy juz get together with her less than 3 months !!
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trying to find a companion.. cos maybe she knows that you will always be there for her if she needed you..Originally posted by siongs:My ex-stead msg me today......n she told me she is single liaoz......
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If she's coming onto you... play hard to get... she'll then try to impress you. and you blow them down.. and they'll keep climbing up to meet your standards.. then blow them down again
also give her mixed signals that you like her... if you can get her to keep thinking and thinking and eventually she'll grow desperate and literally attack you for an answer! make yourself challenging. someone in this forum stated before that girls don't want what they can have.. but they want something they can't get! they love challenges, it spices up your relationship too. -
I agreed !! the more u dun give a shit da more there wan !! i m trying to woo her now ! should msg her or wat ? or msg her once then stop few day to luk for her ? but i hav to observe awhile more !!Originally posted by dunn1e:If she's coming onto you... play hard to get... she'll then try to impress you. and you blow them down.. and they'll keep climbing up to meet your standards.. then blow them down again also give her mixed signals that you like her... if you can get her to keep thinking and thinking and eventually she'll grow desperate and literally attack you for an answer! make yourself challenging. someone in this forum stated before that girls don't want what they can have.. but they want something they can't get! they love challenges, it spices up your relationship too. -
Well... Tease her that she's not your type... you said she's short. tease her about it..
pretend she's 160cm...she's trying to get your attention... or she does something that seems like it...
You: You're too short for me... or... i don't like short girls...
Her: How could you say that!
You: my girl has to gave a min height of 160cm
Her: hey.. i'm 160 cm
You: huh what? really? you don't look like you are... doesn't count.
And then she'll blabber and blabber that she's considered tall amoung the other girls and you're not that tall.. desperately trying to reach your standards...i don't know how your girl will respond to that... but thats how my classmates react to it and its hilarious
I really don't like smsing... coz it lacks the body language.. and someone mite get insulted ya? you could sms her some dumb message for no absolute reason and see how she replies it.
example... OMG SHEEP ARE FALLING OFF THE SKY!!! CHAIN THIS MESSAGE TO 5 OTHER PEOPLE TO SAVE PLANET EARTH!
Then she'll probably reply you saying. Lol la... so lame... well then you could start a convo with her by replying. i'm not crippled for Christ sake. or if she's a christian... In mathew duno what verse... Jesus said the lame shall walk. or... something like that. -
That advice sound like a author whom i dislike.
But the last part is useful. -
Hahs i m his ex....i think no point to do tis i guess......ur method is for those juz starting de couple........Originally posted by dunn1e:Well... Tease her that she's not your type... you said she's short. tease her about it..
pretend she's 160cm...she's trying to get your attention... or she does something that seems like it...
You: You're too short for me... or... i don't like short girls...
Her: How could you say that!
You: my girl has to gave a min height of 160cm
Her: hey.. i'm 160 cm
You: huh what? really? you don't look like you are... doesn't count.
And then she'll blabber and blabber that she's considered tall amoung the other girls and you're not that tall.. desperately trying to reach your standards...i don't know how your girl will respond to that... but thats how my classmates react to it and its hilarious
I really don't like smsing... coz it lacks the body language.. and someone mite get insulted ya? you could sms her some dumb message for no absolute reason and see how she replies it.
example... OMG SHEEP ARE FALLING OFF THE SKY!!! CHAIN THIS MESSAGE TO 5 OTHER PEOPLE TO SAVE PLANET EARTH!
Then she'll probably reply you saying. Lol la... so lame... well then you could start a convo with her by replying. i'm not crippled for Christ sake. or if she's a christian... In mathew duno what verse... Jesus said the lame shall walk. or... something like that. -
who's the author?Originally posted by M©+square:That advice sound like a author whom i dislike.
But the last part is useful.
i feel its nice move..dunnie v imaginative. -
Hai....The principle is correct, the execution is not.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:who's the author?
i feel its nice move..dunnie v imaginative. -
ur referring to the playing-hard-to-get principle?Originally posted by M©+square:Hai....The principle is correct, the execution is not.
how to execute it right?
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Teasing is correct.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:ur referring to the playing-hard-to-get principle?
how to execute it right?
any suggestions?
But insulting and putting others down is wrong.
Making yourself exclusive is right.
Saying things to provoke thoughts are correct, provoke ego is correct as well. But never hurt a person.
These are ways to get attention....not attraction.
Even if you could execute it and passed. What's next? Could you hold on to this teasing attitude when you know you've interest in your subject?
When will the real courtship come? When will you reveal your true self? -
haha i think it would work tho.. considering she's a hottie... the "i want what i cannot get" instinct should be stronger...
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Provided if she's already interested in him.Originally posted by dunn1e:haha i think it would work tho.. considering she's a hottie... the "i want what i cannot get" instinct should be stronger... -
She probably wants u back.
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Well... i won't do such stuff to strangers... if i knew the person long enough i'd start with heavier teasing. i've done quite extreme stuff b4... like telling off my ex-gf's best friend... which i hate soooo baddd! i told her that her nehneh pok was smelly... and my ex was barely breathing through her laughter..Originally posted by M©+square:Teasing is correct.
But insulting and putting others down is wrong.
Making yourself exclusive is right.
Saying things to provoke thoughts are correct, provoke ego is correct as well. But never hurt a person.
These are ways to get attention....not attraction.
Even if you could execute it and passed. What's next? Could you hold on to this teasing attitude when you know you've interest in your subject?
When will the real courtship come? When will you reveal your true self?
actually all these teasing and stuff is more of a icebreaker... then you create some rapport... start building up sexual tension...create a bond...then you can slowly lessen your teasing and settle down... and as for attraction.. if you gave her mixed signals... it should be ok.. unless u wanna get plastic surgery... get a $100 shave to look like brad pitt.. -
maybe she jus needs u for her after-breakup period, after that, she might forget u
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It all depends.Originally posted by dunn1e:Well... i won't do such stuff to strangers... if i knew the person long enough i'd start with heavier teasing. i've done quite extreme stuff b4... like telling off my ex-gf's best friend... which i hate soooo baddd! i told her that her nehneh pok was smelly... and my ex was barely breathing through her laughter..
actually all these teasing and stuff is more of a icebreaker... then you create some rapport... start building up sexual tension...create a bond...then you can slowly lessen your teasing and settle down... and as for attraction.. if you gave her mixed signals... it should be ok.. unless u wanna get plastic surgery... get a $100 shave to look like brad pitt..
Tailoring how to cater is the key.
If it works for you, it's good.
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Wth?Originally posted by dunn1e:if she's a christian... In mathew duno what verse... Jesus said the lame shall walk. or... something like that.
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x2.Originally posted by M©+square:Hai....The principle is correct, the execution is not.
not every girl will fall for that.
sekali she pissed off and juz break off with him.
to love is not to make someone feel inferior.. -
Also true lar..........can tease ! but dun overlap !!........now stop msg her.........stop for awhile 1st ! i giv second wave attack few more days !!
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Well update us on how it goes k?Originally posted by siongs:Also true lar..........can tease ! but dun overlap !!........now stop msg her.........stop for awhile 1st ! i giv second wave attack few more days !!
Best of luck.