Would you call her?
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Originally posted by alexkusu:Ur post is really short. No, you shouldnt call her. Better ask number from her properly then call her.
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Hi morning peopleOriginally posted by yuko-ogura:heheh..hope u succeed.
this gurl has been there for a long time le?
I hope I suceed too on monday, cos last night I dreamt of her talking to me in the pantry over coffee and lemon puffs biscuits.
I guess this girl has been there for quite a long time, before I joined she was already there... therefore she always has the own group of colleagues for lunch, catching the after work bus, going toilet, etc.
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try to chap into this gp if u can....but dun appear too obvious.Originally posted by The Den:I guess this girl has been there for quite a long time, before I joined she was already there... therefore she always has the own group of colleagues for lunch, catching the after work bus, going toilet, etc. -
Just editedOriginally posted by alexkusu:Ur post is really short. No, you shouldnt call her. Better ask number from her properly then call her.
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I can't chap into this grp cos
1. all of them are from same dept talking abt their own stuff.. I overheard their converstaion
2. all gals leh.. she might think I'm a flirt -
dun be shy ma..heheh..Originally posted by The Den:Just edited
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I can't chap into this grp cos
1. all of them are from same dept talking abt their own stuff.. I overheard their converstaion
2. all gals leh.. she might think I'm a flirt
maybe can start by being gd to her frens..give her frens a gd impression so that they may start toking gd abt u when they run out of topics to tok abt.
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then strike when she is not with her gp.Originally posted by The Den:Just edited
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I can't chap into this grp cos
1. all of them are from same dept talking abt their own stuff.. I overheard their converstaion
2. all gals leh.. she might think I'm a flirt
to find out abt her current whereabouts, if u get to bump into her gp, strike a conversation with them & casually ask y she is not with the gp. -
Thanks for advice.
I hope I get to see her on monday... i've been wondering what happened to her...
And I hope I can get the courage to ask her for her number
Her current group of friends got include her manager... so its quite tough to break into their team. I think my manager oso wondering whats wrong wif me this week.. keep going for coffee break
but I've been trying to get into her friends good books anyway.. cos I keep bumping into her friends when "I accidently" walk past her dept -
tell ur manager you are working veri hard, need the extra kopi to stay alert.Originally posted by The Den:Thanks for advice.
I hope I get to see her on monday... i've been wondering what happened to her...
And I hope I can get the courage to ask her for her number
Her current group of friends got include her manager... so its quite tough to break into their team. I think my manager oso wondering whats wrong wif me this week.. keep going for coffee break
but I've been trying to get into her friends good books anyway.. cos I keep bumping into her friends when "I accidently" walk past her dept -
Originally posted by The Den:
Hi all
Please be patient and read my situation. I'm trying to go into detail. Thanks.
[b]From one month ago:
I have this crush on this gal in my company. I had start talking to her when we sat beside each other during a mass coy meeting. We have spoken to each other, but it's only about general stuff, and "safe" topics... nothing too personal yet.
After the meeting I don't really have the chance to sit down and talk to her again. Nowadays we smile and wave to each other when we meet along the common corridor, or bump in to her at the pantry while getting my milo. But I didn't ask her for her conatact number 'cos I too shy. And maybe because she looks busy and looks like she's in a hurry
Well I'm from a department where I will be out of office most of the time, depending on instructions, even reducing my chance to bump into more often.. whether in the canteen downstairs or where ever. If I have a choice I bump into her every 2 minutes
Fast forward to This morning fri
Was browsing through surfing sgforums, soccernet, and all the nonsense making me feel bored..
Clicked to the default home page realised my manager had used my pc and didnt log out of the staff directory intranet
I have a feeling I did something bad or wrong here....
I went to the staff directory and looked up her name
And copied down her mobile phone number. Don't ask me why I did that, I just felt it's just too good to be missed out at that time.
When I finished copying down her number, I was elated for about 3 minutes. Then I realised, maybe it's not so good after all.
Do you think I can call her? What would she think of me?
I like her but havent been seeing her around for the past few days.. so was thinking of calling or sms-ing her...
Is she ill? Or maybe on leave? Or quitted/ sacked?
The main point is to know how's she doing because I haven't been seeing her around for the past week.
Would you call her if you are me?
Thanks for your good advice[/b] You only have one chance to begin this relationship on a good impression - to call her means you have given up this chance or worst, incur negative impression.
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if she noe den she dun like hw...
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erhh..reject?
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wow Den...didn know you had a crush now!
well, i hope you had not in impulse sms her when you read this! Just muster your courage and ask her out instead of getting her contacts so fast! Like asking her for lunch or dinner after work? Make small moves first..During outing, then get contact from her..
anyway, b4 you do all this, MAKE SURE SHE IS SINGLE n AVAILABLE!! -
omg......
haha..ask for her email address, den maybe if she hav msn den add her on msn......
after dat when u all chat on msn, den when u feel dat she is comfortable with you, den ask for her number.........
anyway it is v rude to juz get her number n sms her..............
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Friend,
Uncle tell you a story.
There was once a time, my female colleague asked me out of the blue, did I give her hp number to this guy?
How did he know my hp number then?
I said no.
You see, she was upset, a bit peeved.
Conclusion: women dont like their HP number to be told to other people, or to have people who are not friends with them suddenly calling them through their hp.
Especially men.
So, please dont make the mistake of calling her or even SMS her.
It will make you look like a weirdo.
Firstly, just try to talk more to her. Weekend is a good time.
After that, then see how. -
Hihi darkness.. long time no see.. how are you??Originally posted by darknessfall:wow Den...didn know you had a crush now!
well, i hope you had not in impulse sms her when you read this! Just muster your courage and ask her out instead of getting her contacts so fast! Like asking her for lunch or dinner after work? Make small moves first..During outing, then get contact from her..
anyway, b4 you do all this, MAKE SURE SHE IS SINGLE n AVAILABLE!!
Ya I grow up already beginning to notice women
Well I have the urge to sms her because she's not in the office for quite some time already... so it's quite a big challenge not to sms her when I have the number... when the number is right in front of me.. waiting....
I'm oso quite shy to ask her point blank if she single and available mah... but right now I guess I do miss her.. sounds lame but its true. -
Great minds think alike... I've been making so much kopi and milo that the auntie is starting to get suspicious of me....Originally posted by huiz:tell ur manager you are working veri hard, need the extra kopi to stay alert. -
Uncle... thanks for the story..Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:Friend,
Uncle tell you a story.
There was once a time, my female colleague asked me out of the blue, did I give her hp number to this guy?
How did he know my hp number then?
I said no.
You see, she was upset, a bit peeved.
Conclusion: women dont like their HP number to be told to other people, or to have people who are not friends with them suddenly calling them through their hp.
Especially men.
So, please dont make the mistake of calling her or even SMS her.
It will make you look like a weirdo.
Firstly, just try to talk more to her. Weekend is a good time.
After that, then see how.
So did your lady colleague develop anything wif the guy? -
delete her hp number right now.Originally posted by The Den:Hihi darkness.. long time no see.. how are you??
Ya I grow up already beginning to notice women
Well I have the urge to sms her because she's not in the office for quite some time already... so it's quite a big challenge not to sms her when I have the number... when the number is right in front of me.. waiting....
I'm oso quite shy to ask her point blank if she single and available mah... but right now I guess I do miss her.. sounds lame but its true. -
Would you do it if you were me? Got number but cannot callOriginally posted by huiz:delete her hp number right now. -
Can i ask you a simple question.Originally posted by The Den:Would you do it if you were me? Got number but cannot call
A girl from the office suddenly call you.
You do not like this girl what will you do? -
Dude, DO get to know her... an opportunity like thiz doesnt come very often...for all you may know, something beautiful and pleasant may come out of itOriginally posted by The Den:Thanks for advice.
I hope I get to see her on monday... i've been wondering what happened to her...
And I hope I can get the courage to ask her for her number
Her current group of friends got include her manager... so its quite tough to break into their team. I think my manager oso wondering whats wrong wif me this week.. keep going for coffee break
but I've been trying to get into her friends good books anyway.. cos I keep bumping into her friends when "I accidently" walk past her dept 
.....on the fone number part, if you feel really bad about your actions, juz erase or burn it off totally. itz sincerity that touches a person's mind... -
haiz...control the urge loh. think of the consequences.Originally posted by The Den:Would you do it if you were me? Got number but cannot call
keep urself busy by writing 'i cant sms/call her' 38246934238th times. -
Getting the number is easy. To proceed from there is tough. If she is interested in you, she will respond. Well, dun just carry any high hopes first.Originally posted by huiz:haiz...control the urge loh. think of the consequences.
keep urself busy by writing 'i cant sms/call her' 38246934238th times. -
haha..u forgot to add a "fall" to my nick...i assume someone else had use darkness liao.. Ya, long time no see, since the KTV day..Originally posted by The Den:Hihi darkness.. long time no see.. how are you??
Ya I grow up already beginning to notice women
Well I have the urge to sms her because she's not in the office for quite some time already... so it's quite a big challenge not to sms her when I have the number... when the number is right in front of me.. waiting....
I'm oso quite shy to ask her point blank if she single and available mah... but right now I guess I do miss her.. sounds lame but its true.
Of cse dont ask direct about her availability lah...beat around the bush, i am sure you know what i mean right? "Not going out with your friends or bf?"
or start from her colleagues or clique first lah..You know, if her friends know she is single, and if there are people interested in her, they will try and hint her...at least, they help you "spread" the news mah.....Dont worry.. i am sure you can ask her out!! hopefully, on Mon, you will succeed in getting a date with her! Update us k....
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Realli?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Getting the number is easy. Makes me think