[Question] "Perfect person is a person who is imperfection"
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thats for rs.. i dun think its matter of love, but a matter of perception. Like how i see everyone is perfectOriginally posted by Mao x 2:"LOVE is not about finding that perfect person,
It's about loving an imperfect person perfectly. "
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Cheerful Cheers spideeOriginally posted by ^spidee^:Well, I believe that depends on the comments. We should heed constructive ones and ignore those that are trying to put us down. Ultimately we are responsible for our own lives, not others.
what is constructive advice in your view?
I have seen a friendly person for being scolded for too generous to his friends while being praised for being such a good friend to those in need
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StarPuppy -
But what if you are to tell his personality straight away from first meeting? What does your mind process first?Originally posted by rainee:yup...very unfair, hence I have learned to not jump into conclusion so fast abt a person...will take time to understand more -
Cheerful Cheers mystivOriginally posted by mystiv:why puppy talks like oceanos
perfect...somehow, this kind of things doesnt bother me. whether or not a 'perfect' person exists, it doesnt(shouldnt) stop us from doing what we want, from improving ourselves.
furthermore, what is perfect to me, may not be perfect to another I am held in awe by the knowledge and the colors of Yunhaier and Oceanos nick...thats why
but this is only my AA style
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StarPuppy -
So you are God?Originally posted by CoolMyth:Nobody is perfect. True
I'm a nobody. True
Conclusion:
I'm perfect. True. 
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hmm...usually first impression will be based on outer appearance ba...but after that, I will spend more time understanding the personality..Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:But what if you are to tell his personality straight away from first meeting? What does your mind process first?
dun tink i will get to know the whole personality on the first meeting....must spend more time.. -
hmm.. constructive advice is objective, based on the matter at hand and not directed in a personal way to the person receiving the advice.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Cheerful Cheers spidee what is constructive advice in your view?
I have seen a friendly person for being scolded for too generous to his friends while being praised for being such a good friend to those in need
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Cheerful Cheers little antOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:But what if you are to tell his personality straight away from first meeting? What does your mind process first? I think if you have to tell about a person personality straight away from the first meeting...i think would be biased
i have some friends who are noisy and rowdy on the outside but once u know them..they are understanding and knowledgeable
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Cheerful Cheers little antOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:So you are God?
lets not get too caught up with religeon, shall we?
i dun want my thread to become a fighting thread
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StarPuppy -
Expected an answer like this, I won't want to delve too much into this subject, if not I have to come back as a clone.Originally posted by rainee:hmm...usually first impression will be based on outer appearance ba...but after that, I will spend more time understanding the personality..
dun tink i will get to know the whole personality on the first meeting....must spend more time.. -
why leh? u wan to flame me ah?Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Expected an answer like this, I won't want to delve too much into this subject, if not I have to come back as a clone. 
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Yup, that's what I am trying to ask. If someone is to ask you what you think of one person after you meet him, how are you going to answer? If he insists on a reply immediately and not a reply like this "I have to know him longer to tell you more", what are you going to say? What comes first?Originally posted by StarPuppy:Cheerful Cheers little ant I think if you have to tell about a person personality straight away from the first meeting...i think would be biased
i have some friends who are noisy and rowdy on the outside but once u know them..they are understanding and knowledgeable
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Cheerful Cheers raineeOriginally posted by rainee:why leh? u wan to flame me ah? no flame..no flame..pls..i have no source of water which is huge enough to put out this thread
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StarPuppy -
I won't want to go there. But for someone claiming to be perfect, I can only think of God. Need not to be in religious form, if you think it objectively, anything that we deem perfect will go back to God.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Cheerful Cheers little ant
lets not get too caught up with religeon, shall we?
i dun want my thread to become a fighting thread
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Cheerful Cheers little antOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Yup, that's what I am trying to ask. If someone is to ask you what you think of one person after you meet him, how are you going to answer? If he insists on a reply immediately and not a reply like this "I have to know him longer to tell you more", what are you going to say? What comes first? i would say that
"it would be biased of me to give a answer as apperance/action during the first time as things might not seem what it seem to be..and lets just leave it at that"
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
No lah, I am afraid it would escalates to a flaming thread.Originally posted by rainee:why leh? u wan to flame me ah? -
Yup, it's biased. And if you ever meet this kind of person insisting on an answer, you could die. This answer obviously didn't work, as are other answers which many of you have written. The best way and so far works is "I don't know".Originally posted by StarPuppy:Cheerful Cheers little ant i would say that
"it would be biased of me to give a answer as apperance/action during the first time as things might not seem what it seem to be..and lets just leave it at that"
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Cheerful Cheers little antOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Yup, it's biased. And if you ever meet this kind of person insisting on an answer, you could die. This answer obviously didn't work, as are other answers which many of you have written. The best way and so far works is "I don't know". Another way would be:
"Thats for me to know and you to find out"
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Perfectness lies in the eyes of the beholder.Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:So you are God? -
Nobody can ever be perfect. Even the President isn't perfect for he will do a sin once in his life. The only person who have a crystal clear heart is God and God alone.
Everybody is EQUAL in this world.
Everybody is a NOBODY in this world. -
But for everybody here, we will think that someone is perfect to our eyes for he/she have everything or anything he/she ever needs and don't need to worry for money or food or a home.
But he/she doesn't have a friend who will stick to him/her forever even if he/she becomes bankrupt all of a sudden. -
used to think that an imperfect person is perfect..
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'Perfect' this term is derived from people who are 'imperfect' wor. It's sort of an unattainable goal set by people so that they can improve themselves gradually towards that goal.
It's just a thinking. Like if a person have the thinking that he/she is perfect, he/she will be seen as complacent and arrogrant as 'perfect people don't need others to teach/instruct them what to do or what is right'. What we must do imho is to get as close as what the 'perfect being' as possible, but not reaching that goal. That will leave room for improvement.
In r/s it's also the same. The term "He/She makes me whole" isn't derived from nothing.... 2 imperfect work hand in hand together to fill up each other's weaknesses and amplify each other's strengths
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MC look at the ceiling.....and think.....
Poof! -
/me kokz ah square's headOriginally posted by M©+square:MC look at the ceiling.....and think.....
Poof!
stop day dreaming~