sad n helpless
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i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case.. -
how did u lose the phone?
it muz be v hurting that ur gf insulted u. -
How come u had her phone at the first place????
anyways i feel dat time will slowy remedy this problem...by then u can slowly make it up for losing her phone and if she still loves u, she will apologise for saying such things to u...... -
Losing something sentimental is very hard to replace. Did you ask her what memories does the phone contain? Is it about you and her? If it is, you can try to make it up by showing her your phone, if you kept pictures of her and you together.Originally posted by weijie1985:i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case..
Let her have some time to cool down. Contact her again a few days later. Ask her out for lunch. Ask if she's still angry. Do something to cool her down, like bring her to play or something.
About education, you can upgrade yourself anytime. Don't be hindered by the difference.
You can try searching all the shops, but doubt you will get it back. If there are sensitive things inside, make a police report. Otherwise, take it as a lesson learnt. -
so sad.. the fone slipped out of my pocket when on bus.. oni realised it aft i got off...
that fone was her 1st fone from her folks.which is y i noe how serious it is. she say she will cool down oni if she sees her fone..
. she lend me cuz i was in army..cant use camera fone
yes.. it was very hurting.. those words.. realli realli very sad..
she even say the 'its oni a private degree, i local uni one leh'(trying to say its worthless).. .. so SAD. -
what's wrong wif her??? Degrading u like dat juz becoz of a phone.....
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She sounds like a typical xiao jie! U love her! Can u put up her nonsense for the rest of yr life? Losing a sentimental thing is very serious but degrading and craping such rubbish to him makes her even worse. Think twice abt this r/s. From what i know,she is not a good lady
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Either she is over reacting or she means what she says.
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get her a new fone and leave her. Your rs wont get any better anyway. Those words has cut deep into you heart.
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do you really know why she's angry with you? even if you do get a newer better phone for her, she might still be angry over this matter. she tie you losing your phone closely to the relationship. so she's thinking, if you would lose my phone easily like that then how would you keep something more valuable like your commitment in future? thats just she-talk, of course.
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Get the same model phone for her....
Whether she's going to cool down or down...fcuk it..no issue at all....Dun need to give in to her too much n everytime....
For i know, how sentimental can a 1st hp (without camera) has that can let her blown her top....
As for educational, LOCAL uni. deg. BIG FCUK huh?
No degree also can survive....as long got hands n legs n determination n will...PLSE cert. or O level cert. or Diploma cert. also can bring you very far...
Many cases of low educational level ppl are doing damn well...whereas, you can see that there're quite a handful of LOCAL deg. uni. graduates still looking for jobs n they're picky on jobs....won't carry them far...your gf has these kinda attitude n concept that LOCAL uni. deg. are BIG FCUK....
If a person's character is lousy n F-UP, no matter how "fierce" the uni. is, in the end, the person is still lousy...
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video in the hp?
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Not a camera hp, how to take video?Originally posted by dragg:video in the hp? -
ah dcx, cool down ar...
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heh... that girl's definately very INSENSITIVE with her words... even if she was angry, if she never felt so in the first place, she wouldn't have said those stuffs about her being in local uni and u (weijie1985) bring a poly grad. Perhaps she had these in her mind all along and she accidently (or should i say on purpose) blurted it out of anger. YAH.. local uni big F**k????Gou yan kan ren di sia.... a person with such a attitude can't get anywhere far one lah.. so what if she's a local uni kid... duh...
my advice is.....
its definately not worth feeling sad over such a person. Get over and done with....u're still so young... u have along way to go ya.find a better girl next time, u'll definately not regret. -
me o-levels also don't have. well, that's life. no education, no gf. only know how to spew rubbish in forum. dude, no worries lah, i buy you a beer. girls are like that one.
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That's why I say, after you're done with them, chuck'em out the window.
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break la break la break la
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local uni big fcuk? if china university at least something..
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sense sarcasmOriginally posted by sinicker:local uni big fcuk? if china university at least something..
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of course big f uc kOriginally posted by silv3rgal:heh... that girl's definately very INSENSITIVE with her words... even if she was angry, if she never felt so in the first place, she wouldn't have said those stuffs about her being in local uni and u (weijie1985) bring a poly grad. Perhaps she had these in her mind all along and she accidently (or should i say on purpose) blurted it out of anger. YAH.. local uni big F**k????Gou yan kan ren di sia.... a person with such a attitude can't get anywhere far one lah.. so what if she's a local uni kid... duh...
my advice is.....
its definately not worth feeling sad over such a person. Get over and done with....u're still so young... u have along way to go ya.find a better girl next time, u'll definately not regret. otherwise so much ppl wan to enter local uni oso cannot
u better nt go local uni n save e place for others man
since its nt a big F uc k
mus be ITE bigger fuck -
just appologize to her for losing her phone. buy a new phone dont really matter now as it holds no memory values. anyway tell her memories lives not on the stuffs but in our mind forever blah blah blah sh.it like that.
then whether she forgives you or not, screw her. dump her.
such girl is not worth the efforts. degrading people like that just because she is angry?
words are very powerful. if your mind are not strong, they may affect you bit by bit and in the end you may end up like what she said. such people is a no no in life be it even as friends. -
Gosh, does she throw herself against the wall if she lost something herself? Its only the phone. I can picture if its something bigger, like her branded bag, or spill coffee over her brand new couch. I'd say let her go. No matter how much the phone means to her, I'm sure you feel very bad & apologetic enough. And she has no need to consent further abuses at you. I mean she can hit and punch you to let it out, but making subjective comparisons among yourselves?Originally posted by weijie1985:i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case..
My gf lost an ipod, a Levis card, an organiser that i bought for her. I didn't raise a tone, only reassure her that its ok and then, just buy new and better replacements for her as per each of the above items. -
break la faster break la
break le announce ok?? we'll celebrate for u... -
my opinion for you is this she loves you alot thats why she is so angry.Originally posted by weijie1985:i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case..
the things she does already proves it.
like lending you her hp when she knows you need it.
Sometimes as guys we miss the little things the girls do for us. In the end we thought is a big issue and break off for the wrong reason.
If she really do not love or like you at all trust me she will not even get angry or care what you say. She will be spending time away from you instead of quarreling with you.