sad n helpless
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give her the benefit of doubt...buy her the same model back n apologise to her....n also tell her the words she said is very hurtful etc..if she loves u n doesnt mean wat she said, she sure will apologise n treat u good good...if not, den u better consider this r/s, not worth to go on....time to look for better one
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Is this 1st time that she is blew up at you? or is this the dunno how many times le? If its the 1st time, maybe wait for her to cool down before you msg her. As you said the phone means a lot to her, maybe she really was upset. But if she is always behaving like this, I think its time for you to rethink if you still want to be with her. All people in the world have a limit to how much you can take it, once you breach the limit, then it will be hard to go back.
So what if you got a degree in sg? You take a walk to orchard and throw a stone, percentage of hitting a degree holder (local or overseas) is very high. If she think that since she is a degree holder and is high up in the ladder, den dump her. This type of girls are only waiting to marry into a rich family and be a full time tai tai. Btw, r u rich? maybe thats why she is with you? jus joking
Break or wait, its up to you. But if she always blew up on me, I will let her go. Cos its better for a person to be sad then 2 person, if she will be sad.
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Its too over to insult ur bf/gf. Myabe she is overheated but insulting someone that you love is NO NO NO. I will say sorry and get her a new phone. Telling her i am really sorry, if things dun get well ... byeBye
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damn biatch.. not worth it. One day u make some mistake.. she just gonna pour cold water on u.. not gonna support u.. n instead ..nags u to fucking death..
not worth.. plenty of girls out there. Ppl make mistakes n if she is not understanding enough... then fudge it.
If i were u.. i would've slapped her n break up with her. -
its nt worth it la. what a bitch she confessed to playin with and acts like a total bitch
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my 2cents worth
give her some time..see wads her response..if she continues with this kid of attitude leave her...not worth yr attention..so wad if she uni grad ? big shot ahz? why did she accept u in 1st place if she minds the education status of her partner?..
but if thats me, i would leave her n tell her off...shes gone too far..UNLESS she apologise.. -
because he still loves her ma...Originally posted by alkaiden:its nt worth it la. what a bitch she confessed to playin with and acts like a total bitch
i cant believe u didnt just slap her straight away still come here ask wad to do
i think this kind of ger damn f uped. I kinda noticed the more you study, the higher you expect yourself to go. Maybe that explains her behaviour but im not saying all Uni peeps are like that. Of course there are more mature ones, but sad to say i think this girl gone a bit too far. if she is always doing this to you. Say bye bye to her. -
Originally posted by weijie1985:i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case..
A few questions:
I) What are the events leading to the birth of this relationship? (How you two come together? How long the chase? How long the relationship now?)
II) Do you know anything about her past relationship?
III) What's her astrological sign?
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Hai~... Find the same model phone for her... give it to her... then dump her...Originally posted by weijie1985:i lost my gf's fone which meant alot(memories) to her. i apologise to her. she scolded me like *MAD*, like saying i cant match up wif her(shes goin uni while im a poly grad), insults me, how much she hates me n shits. In her fit of anger, she said she was playing wif me from the start. i do not noe how true those words are when shes angry. but her ranting has made me from guilty of losing her fone to more of angry wif wad she said. i felt like just breaking it off n heck care her forever but i love her alot. she doesnt have the intention to frogive me.. wad shd i do.. im confused..den i could feel a lil bit that she mite not mean it...i promised her to search thru the shops ard the island but she doubt my perseverance.
shd i > break off n dun need to put up wif her shits anymore
> let her treat me inhuman verbally and mayb she will break off when i will eva manage to get her fone back
i oso need some opinion on my case..
She think going to uni so big? Poly grads earn more on their first jobs then uni grads... If she says she's playing with you... then so be it... she's not worth holding onto if that's the case... Dun be an idiot and let yourself be verbally abused like that... Be a man... you don't have to take crap like that from her...
If you've been treating her nicely all this while, she'll realise that and come back to you on her own... Dun go and give in to her so much... Sometimes, we have to do drastic things to make them realise how much we mean to them...
I was also in a similar r/s last year... everytime got argument I give in... in the end, still feel like I can't do anything right... wat for? No point... If she can't forgive you, then dun care lah... you're still young.. there's a whole forest out there... y worry?? -
From your story, this kind of girl sounds like one with attitude problem and likely there is no happily ever after... But the fault lies on you to have lost the phone. ... However, even if you don't lose the phone, do you think you won't make any mistakes in the future? Coz when you do, she'll start hurling the abuses again, the thing is, do you want your life to be degraded and sacrified due to the relationship? The choice is of course utimately up to you. -
poly grads earn more on their ist job?Originally posted by LH83:Hai~... Find the same model phone for her... give it to her... then dump her...
She think going to uni so big? Poly grads earn more on their first jobs then uni grads... If she says she's playing with you... then so be it... she's not worth holding onto if that's the case... Dun be an idiot and let yourself be verbally abused like that... Be a man... you don't have to take crap like that from her...
If you've been treating her nicely all this while, she'll realise that and come back to you on her own... Dun go and give in to her so much... Sometimes, we have to do drastic things to make them realise how much we mean to them...
I was also in a similar r/s last year... everytime got argument I give in... in the end, still feel like I can't do anything right... wat for? No point... If she can't forgive you, then dun care lah... you're still young.. there's a whole forest out there... y worry??
reali, where is yr source,talk cock nia 
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omg....degrading you is the last thing she should ever do if you wanna be together.
one word: Respect.
Totally lack of it.
each of you has your strong point. her's may be studying, you may be better at something else. what right does she have to make her strength above yours?
my gf is also from local uni, and i'm just a poly grad. but we're sort of specialists in our own field of study, and respect each other for that. she asks me stuff shes not sure when its regarding my field too..
but even so, there's bound to be educational level differences and that inferior feeling.. something i don't say aloud but keep inside..
one more thing i've noticed bout uni gals (or rather, girl) is that they put their studies and work first, and take them very seriously... maybe they can sort out distinctively play and work, but i don't believe in that..
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like wad they replied, if i were u, i would haf gotten her back the same model and dump her.
so wad if she's gonna be a degree holder? im not going look up to this kinda ppl.
What she lacks was not qualification or intelligent.. she lacks something which we were all taught since primary sch or even kindergarten. tt's respect.
dun be blinded by love. how long u think u can tahan this kinda insult? if tis is the first time, i believe there would be second time...
paiseh, got some problem wif my expression of words.. C6 for english
but what i meant was that degree nt big fark one. there r tons of better girls out there.. and she's acting like she's the only girl in the world den worth big fark lidat.. knn.. degrade ppl lidat.. -
The fact tt such hurting remarks can come out from her mouth reflects tt she has such bad impression of u all along..the problem is do u mind having a gf who thinks so lowly of u all along?U r really very nice to tolerate her already...tis incident may not b a bad thing as a so call sentimental old hp is enuff to show her real character...jus dump her man..jus imagine..in her heart u r not even as impt as an old hp...cant believe tt she tinks she is superior jus bcos she is in a uni??!...bloody snob man...jus break up with her la..i noe u may feel hurt..but in the long term tis wont do u any gd.. take care..
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hey this is those stereotypical sg bit-ch who tinks local degree is the biggest
fu-ck in the world...
*shrugs*
dump the bit-ch,work hard and upgrade yourself.
hey pal,gonna be harsh with u,but u sound like a wimp who always let yourself be bullied by that bit-ch....get a backbone man! -
The question here is not whethe the dgree is local ornot.
The issue here is that the girl doesnt love you. Forget it manz. What love you talking about.
If she can get so angry over a stupid phone, and said that she was only playing with you. Heck it.
I believe a person may say things in fits of anger. However, that thoughts must have exist subconciously for them to say it.
Ultimately, if a person really loves someone, they will not stay angry with their partner for long.
For those who like to pick on every little things, forget it. THEY DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU.
True love deosnt exist anymore. Forget it
P.s. dont be sore over the issue of a local degree or whatsoever. It's the people themselves to decide how much they desire success ultimately. Not that people like to brag whether their degree is local/o'seas/ivy league/bought. But because it is really a long and ardous route to getting one. So people may like to think of it as their achievements. -
hi i may not be good at solving relationship problems, but to scold u in such a manner is simply quite unacceptable, if education level is an issue then why go steady in the first place?
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Hmm..