good chance to call her... go ahead...Originally posted by The Den:Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
ls refer to old one..
It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly
Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...
So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face.
Would you call her if you are in my shoes?
Have contact but can't call?
Hey darknessfallOriginally posted by darknessfall:quit???????? wow..so sudden ar??
poor den!
hey...why dont you try another softer approach.. get her email from her friends if you are brave enough...and send her an email first...
start from something like, hi, i wonder if you still rem me....just got the news that you quitted....blah blah blah...
sending an email is not as unexpected as sending her an sms...
its all up to you lah..i also dunno will work or not..depends on the gal too...hehe...
if you are really gun for it, go go go..once its gone, its gone...
Rene Lau song "hou lai"
Originally posted by browniebaobao:browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?
Originally posted by The Den:
I feel so downWhere to find the mood to hunt for my topic....
haha trueOriginally posted by browniebaobao:browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?
Hi thanks for the adviceOriginally posted by huiz:i know this may sound like looking for a needle in a haystack, but maybe u can try searching for her in frenster? using her name, or if u can get her email address from her colleagues. it depends on ur luck oso...she must have a frenster account too. if u r really tat lucky to find her frenster, msg her to say hi & say u found her frenster by chance...blah blah blah. all the best to u.![]()
DarknessfallOriginally posted by darknessfall:i mean, ask from her colleagues if they have her other emails...
well, just try and ask around....
firstly, tell us, are you going to give up like this?![]()
Easier said than done.Originally posted by FBI:haha true
anyway dude, there's always gals ard so don jus stick to one tree.
since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?Originally posted by The Den:Easier said than done.
As lame as it sounds, I think I like her..
If she really hate me, I want her to reject me before looking for a new tree in the forest
I agree on this...send an sms...asking if she minds U sending sms to her...if she minds...send her a final sms syaing that U will not bother her again(and mean it)...throw the number away and that's about it.Originally posted by berll:since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?
if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.
jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.
until now,the qn remains unsolved becux threadstarter hasn't got a chance to ask.Originally posted by choco B:Uh, is she single?
i dont see howOriginally posted by The Den:
I feel so downWhere to find the mood to hunt for my topic....
Originally posted by berll:since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?
if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.
jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.
I disagree... Probably better chance and show more sincerity if you call... If one is afraid to even make that call and choose to sms in a cowardice manner, then don't bother... Already might not be an appropriately polite move, where's that sincerity..?Originally posted by Xcert:I agree on this...send an sms...asking if she minds U sending sms to her...if she minds...send her a final sms syaing that U will not bother her again(and mean it)...throw the number away and that's about it.
How to comfort you? The reality of the situation was that Opportunity came knocking on your door but you were to shy to answer. Just move on my friend, and concentrate on making the moolahs. If its really meant to be, like in the movie Serendipity, then she'll probably come back to your life one day.Originally posted by The Den:Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
pls refer to old one..
It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly
Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...
So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face.
Would you call her if you are in my shoes?
Maybe I Have her contact but can't call her? The intranet removed her name and contact on fri.. heng ar..