Would you call her if you were me? Part2

• The Den

  24 Mar 06, 20:41

  Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
  pls refer to old one..
  
  It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly
  
  Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...
  
  So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face.
  
  Would you call her if you are in my shoes?
  
  Maybe I Have her contact but can't call her? The intranet removed her name and contact on fri.. heng ar..
  
  
• 798

  24 Mar 06, 20:46

  why so lazy?
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=182828
• browniebaobao

  24 Mar 06, 23:20

  browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?
• newcomer

  25 Mar 06, 00:20

  It takes alot of courage to take the first step. Even if you've failed in wooing her, seeing her um chio is an achievement in itself.
• BrUtUs

  25 Mar 06, 00:21

  Originally posted by The Den:

  Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
  ls refer to old one..
  
  It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly
  
  Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...
  
  So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face.
  
  Would you call her if you are in my shoes?
  
  Have contact but can't call?
  
  

  good chance to call her... go ahead...
• darknessfall

  25 Mar 06, 01:44

  quit???????? wow..so sudden ar??
  poor den!
  
  hey...why dont you try another softer approach.. get her email from her friends if you are brave enough...and send her an email first...
  start from something like, hi, i wonder if you still rem me....just got the news that you quitted....blah blah blah...
  
  sending an email is not as unexpected as sending her an sms...
  
  its all up to you lah..i also dunno will work or not..depends on the gal too...hehe...
  
  if you are really gun for it, go go go..once its gone, its gone...
  Rene Lau song "hou lai"
• The Den

  25 Mar 06, 09:59

  Originally posted by darknessfall:

  quit???????? wow..so sudden ar??
  poor den!
  
  hey...why dont you try another softer approach.. get her email from her friends if you are brave enough...and send her an email first...
  start from something like, hi, i wonder if you still rem me....just got the news that you quitted....blah blah blah...
  
  sending an email is not as unexpected as sending her an sms...
  
  its all up to you lah..i also dunno will work or not..depends on the gal too...hehe...
  
  if you are really gun for it, go go go..once its gone, its gone...
  Rene Lau song "hou lai"

  Hey darknessfall
  
  I only have her company email... so most likely its already disabled.. I thinking of calling her... but I want to respect her privacy at the same time...
  
• Komon

  25 Mar 06, 09:59

  At least u got her hp num rightt? Make full use of it lah!
• The Den

  25 Mar 06, 10:04

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?

  
  
  I feel so down Where to find the mood to hunt for my topic....
  
  
• browniebaobao

  25 Mar 06, 15:48

  Originally posted by The Den:

  
  
  I feel so down Where to find the mood to hunt for my topic....
  
  

  
• huiz

  25 Mar 06, 22:41

  i know this may sound like looking for a needle in a haystack, but maybe u can try searching for her in frenster? using her name, or if u can get her email address from her colleagues. it depends on ur luck oso...she must have a frenster account too. if u r really tat lucky to find her frenster, msg her to say hi & say u found her frenster by chance...blah blah blah. all the best to u.
• darknessfall

  25 Mar 06, 23:14

  i mean, ask from her colleagues if they have her other emails...
  well, just try and ask around....
  
  firstly, tell us, are you going to give up like this?
• FBI

  25 Mar 06, 23:15

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?

  haha true
  
  anyway dude, there's always gals ard so don jus stick to one tree.
• The Den

  26 Mar 06, 22:25

  Originally posted by huiz:

  i know this may sound like looking for a needle in a haystack, but maybe u can try searching for her in frenster? using her name, or if u can get her email address from her colleagues. it depends on ur luck oso...she must have a frenster account too. if u r really tat lucky to find her frenster, msg her to say hi & say u found her frenster by chance...blah blah blah. all the best to u.

  Hi thanks for the advice
  
  She dun have friendster. I asked the first time we met
• The Den

  26 Mar 06, 22:27

  Originally posted by darknessfall:

  i mean, ask from her colleagues if they have her other emails...
  well, just try and ask around....
  
  firstly, tell us, are you going to give up like this?

  Darknessfall
  
  I think you are a love doc
  
  I think I will call her... but dunno if she even remembers me a not..
• The Den

  26 Mar 06, 22:30

  Originally posted by FBI:

  haha true
  
  anyway dude, there's always gals ard so don jus stick to one tree.

  Easier said than done.
  As lame as it sounds, I think I like her..
  
  If she really hate me, I want her to reject me before looking for a new tree in the forest
  
• chunyong

  26 Mar 06, 22:33

  use the tactic 'Ye Li Cang Hua', hide the flower in the leaf....remember
• berll

  26 Mar 06, 22:59

  Originally posted by The Den:

  Easier said than done.
  As lame as it sounds, I think I like her..
  
  If she really hate me, I want her to reject me before looking for a new tree in the forest
  

  since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?
  
  if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.
  
  jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.
• Xcert

  27 Mar 06, 09:16

  Originally posted by berll:

  since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?
  
  if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.
  
  jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.

  I agree on this...send an sms...asking if she minds U sending sms to her...if she minds...send her a final sms syaing that U will not bother her again(and mean it)...throw the number away and that's about it.
• choco B

  27 Mar 06, 09:22

  Uh, is she single?
• yuko-ogura

  27 Mar 06, 09:27

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Uh, is she single?

  until now,the qn remains unsolved becux threadstarter hasn't got a chance to ask.
• coffeeortea

  27 Mar 06, 10:06

  Originally posted by The Den:

  
  
  I feel so down Where to find the mood to hunt for my topic....
  
  

  i dont see how is a symbol for feeling down, perhaps you should check your posts for credibility and consistency before trying to lie.
• Devil1976

  27 Mar 06, 13:18

  Originally posted by berll:

  since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?
  
  if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.
  
  jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.

  Originally posted by Xcert:

  I agree on this...send an sms...asking if she minds U sending sms to her...if she minds...send her a final sms syaing that U will not bother her again(and mean it)...throw the number away and that's about it.

  I disagree... Probably better chance and show more sincerity if you call... If one is afraid to even make that call and choose to sms in a cowardice manner, then don't bother... Already might not be an appropriately polite move, where's that sincerity..?
  
  Would you find things better when a number you don't know just sms you out of nowhere...
• nullifi3d

  27 Mar 06, 13:21

  Originally posted by The Den:

  Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
  pls refer to old one..
  
  It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly
  
  Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...
  
  So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face.
  
  Would you call her if you are in my shoes?
  
  Maybe I Have her contact but can't call her? The intranet removed her name and contact on fri.. heng ar..
  
  

  How to comfort you? The reality of the situation was that Opportunity came knocking on your door but you were to shy to answer. Just move on my friend, and concentrate on making the moolahs. If its really meant to be, like in the movie Serendipity, then she'll probably come back to your life one day.
• The Den

  27 Mar 06, 16:46

  Thanks for your advice guys. I screwed up when I called her during lunch time.
  
  Its so sad that I didnt take my chance when I had them
  
  Maybe I will type out the converstation here. And let you guys judge where I lost it.
  
  Back to work. Only way to numb it