Would you call her if you were me? Part2
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calling is more intrusive than sincere if u dunno the gal well...unless u noe the gal well. coz the gal has to respond on the spot. she will be thinking qns like 'where u got my number?', 'why u call me for?', 'wat is ur motive?'. if sms, the gal still have time to think how to respond.Originally posted by Devil1976:I disagree... Probably better chance and show more sincerity if you call... If one is afraid to even make that call and choose to sms in a cowardice manner, then don't bother... Already might not be an appropriately polite move, where's that sincerity..?
Would you find things better when a number you don't know just sms you out of nowhere...
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agreed. I guess this will be viewed as being a stalker. And I believe gals hate stalkers and will avoid them like the plague.Originally posted by huiz:calling is more intrusive than sincere if u dunno the gal well...unless u noe the gal well. coz the gal has to respond on the spot. she will be thinking qns like 'where u got my number?', 'why u call me for?', 'wat is ur motive?'. if sms, the gal still have time to think how to respond. -
What do u mean u screwed up? What really happened?Originally posted by The Den:Thanks for your advice guys. I screwed up when I called her during lunch time.
Its so sad that I didnt take my chance when I had them
Maybe I will type out the converstation here. And let you guys judge where I lost it.
Back to work. Only way to numb it
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whether it is by calling or sms...I do mean identifying himself and asking for permission to carry on...guess I took that for granted and didnt explicitly mention it.Originally posted by Devil1976:I disagree... Probably better chance and show more sincerity if you call... If one is afraid to even make that call and choose to sms in a cowardice manner, then don't bother... Already might not be an appropriately polite move, where's that sincerity..?
Would you find things better when a number you don't know just sms you out of nowhere... 
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I caught her at the wrong time, I guess. She sounded really hostile. Her answers were short and straight to the point.Originally posted by dokono:What do u mean u screwed up? What really happened?
Background was nosing with alot of people talking and stuff, traffic light beeping.. etc..
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Im sorry to say judging by this situation, it's time to look for a new gal. She's been very honest with you.Originally posted by The Den:I caught her at the wrong time, I guess. She sounded really hostile. Her answers were short and straight to the point.
Background was nosing with alot of people talking and stuff, traffic light beeping.. etc..
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den!
u've called her?! -
sometimes we're just in a dilemma of whether to call or sms a person we've yet to know for long.
when a choice is made and things like this happens, it really hurts. but still, we have to make that move.
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Hey Den, think of it this way... she's actually not so turned off by you. But the moment you start to call her, she gets more turned off. So don't call unless you are asking her out.
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timing and opportunity
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Ya I did. But I wished I didn'tOriginally posted by yuko-ogura:den!
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Wrong timinig. Gone opportunity.Originally posted by 1bigmess:timing and opportunity
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next time, sms....it'll never be the wrong time as she can take her time to read and reply or not. rejection also less hurtful and you can pretend to play it cool whatever the situation is.
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This is just yuor own delusion....Originally posted by countdracula:next time, sms....it'll never be the wrong time as she can take her time to read and reply or not. rejection also less hurtful and you can pretend to play it cool whatever the situation is.